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University teachers are snobs. Realistic?
Don't worry about this. Compared with high school, college may be more realistic, because it is the last stop before you step into society. However, if you put your mind right, it's nothing. Indeed, there may be many students who are rich, or whose personalities are not in tune with you, and you may meet irresponsible or unreasonable teachers. But these are not the main themes of universities. After getting used to it for a while, it's actually nothing.

There is free air, beautiful love and inexhaustible knowledge in the ivory tower, which are all worth pursuing. To tell the truth, the art students in our school are really rich and dressed in fashion. Some of them also have friends worthy of communication, and they usually don't say that they are overbearing. Of course, some students have high eyes or disgusting behaviors (such as being kept by others ...), so you need to grasp this. You can choose to continue to associate with them, adapt to them and get close to them, but I personally don't recommend it. Be yourself! Personally, I ignore these people. If I have to deal with them (for example, the student union needs their help in organizing activities), I will treat them with courtesy, and ordinary people will not. Everyone has different values and worldviews. Since you can't force others to change or adapt to others' opinions, your only choice is to ignore these things, but as the best solution in communication, the bottom line is not to be blunt.

Landlord, everyone is an apple bitten by God. Maybe your family is average and introverted, but it doesn't mean you can't communicate with others equally, and it doesn't mean you can't get what belongs to you equally. You need to look at the problem dialectically. Your introversion often means that you are thoughtful, and your family background can generally be the reason why you work harder than others.

Teachers in universities are not so terrible. At least, my teachers are very good. At least, there is no problem from the perspective of teachers' morality. They are more concerned about students' learning, so the teaching level is not evaluated. As for your talent, what I want to say is that it may be used when doing more important things, but this situation is relatively rare, because universities are still fair, and as long as you work hard, you will be rewarded without going through these doorways. But it doesn't matter if you can get along well with teachers like counselors, because they are often the publishers of first-hand information.

As for your communication skills, I believe you can keep up with the pace after a period of time in college. You can try to start with your roommate or classmate. It is always right to be sincere with others. Everyone just went to college, and they are still relatively simple. When you are homesick, you can call home or tell your friends that talking can often make you more comfortable. As long as you learn to speak your mind, an important step in communication will come out. When you learn to treat others sincerely, most people will at least not hurt you, and the rest are those who are not worth taking care of.

Students' unions and associations are magical organizations. They have some drawbacks of China's social bureaucracy, and your siblings' decisions may make you feel uncomfortable. However, these are all worth experiencing. The experience in the student union and various societies will be of great help to you when you go out of society and do things in the future, because these places are group organizations, and the normal operation requires the strength of the team, and you can also cultivate your communication, organization and coordination skills in an all-round way. At least I have exercised these abilities in those organizations in the university. Moreover, group communication will often make your expression ability better and your self-confidence will be improved. So, please don't give up these opportunities. If you are interested, you can try it. In fact, student unions and clubs are not as difficult as you think, as long as you can show your excellent side.

Unconsciously wordy a lot, I hope my answer will help you. I just walked out of college not long ago, and my college life is still fresh in my memory.

Good luck Y^-^Y Remember, as long as you work hard, you will be rewarded and be yourself.