A few days ago, I mentioned to my family on WeChat that I would go to menstruation's home after the exam on the 29th.

2 1 In the evening, my second sister asked me when I could get to menstruation's house on the 29th and whether I could get to the cinema at 4pm. Asked me to accompany her to the movies, I told her to arrive before 4 o'clock.

So, she bought a ticket at 8: 20, because my brother got off work at 6: 30, and in order to accommodate him, she decided to buy a later one.

I'm surprised how my second sister came to Guangzhou for no reason. Just when I was about to send a message, my sister took the lead in asking.

(PS avatar: girl-big sister, Christmas hat-second sister, tinkling cat-brother, forest-me)

I think many people will ask the same question as me. Just to see Han Geng, I specially asked for leave to come to Guangzhou. This is not only tiring, but also expensive. Is it worthwhile to waste time back and forth, as well as lost time and attendance award?

But I know that if you ask this question to any fan who went to the scene on the 28th, ta will carefully answer you in a happy tone: "It's worth it, rain or shine, as long as I know, I will definitely go.

Why? Because he is Han Geng.

Oh ... Oh ... (╮ (▽) ╭)

Most people don't understand why TAs are so happy and proud. Some people just look at them like fools. Some people still think that their brains are sick. Is it crazy?

In fact, it's not that we have psychological problems, but that you don't know what idols mean to us! Do not believe you to understand, we have some masters or doctors from famous universities, some executives from Fortune 500 companies, and some children from listed companies.

02

Because I like the same idol, I found the other person.

Zhang Ailing wrote in "Love": "When you meet the person you want to meet among thousands of people, in the boundless wilderness of thousands of years, you just happened to catch up, neither earlier nor later. There is nothing else to say but gently ask, "Oh, are you there?"? "

You can see how difficult it is to meet the right person. Too many people may never meet, or meet the wrong person at the right time. Or meet the right person at the wrong time. Meeting the right person at the right time is as rare as nine-star conjunctions. According to research, the probability of nine-star conjunctions is once in 6000 years. However, how many people in the world can survive the deadline of 100, let alone 6000.

Good-looking skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million. Meet the right person at the right time, and the right person has the same soul communication with you. Isn't this the most beautiful love?

At the concert in Nanjing, Jay Chou on May 20th this year, a boy proposed to a girl who had been in love for 14 years. The girl once said that Jay Chou occupied 95% of her heart and only 5% belonged to him, and said that she would marry him only if she proposed at a concert in Jay Chou. So, under the witness of tens of thousands of people, the man proposed to his girlfriend on the spot. At the same time, Jay Chou also sang a sweet blessing for them.

It has also been reported these days that the woman who was proposed died in a car accident on May 20th. At another concert in Jay Chou, the man sat alone in the audience, crying while listening. When the camera showed the picture of his proposal on May 20th this year, the man was even more sobbing, and the heartbreaking cry was in sharp contrast with his tears of joy seven months ago.

Who would have thought that yesterday's happy and perfect scene was still vivid, and in a blink of an eye, things were different and yin and yang were separated.

For a man, Jay Chou is the witness of his love with his beloved girlfriend, all the beautiful and warm memories of his 14 years, and the bridge between him and his deceased girlfriend. When he misses his girlfriend, perhaps he can only feel her presence in Jay Chou's music. Only by sharing his memories with his girlfriend can he forget the endless pain and support him to continue living.

For him, Jay Chou not only symbolizes all the beauty of him and his girlfriend, but also supports his belief in the future life, and it is also the separation point to witness the beginning and end of his love.

But I hope the news that the girl died in a car accident is a rumor. Just the right person is too few, just the right soul is too hard to meet, and just the right love is too rare. God may make your life full of ups and downs, but he will still give you an interdependent person. And you, just right.

03

In the 1990s, few people didn't know about Stephen Chow.

From Star Boy to Star Master, from gambler, truant, Jiang Ning, Chinese Odyssey, king of comedy, shaolin soccer, Kung Fu, No.7 Yangtze River, Journey to the West, demonization, last year's mermaid and this year's Journey to the West, we all have several treasures.

Before the release of Mermaid last year, its name had become a household name in China, and countless people were waiting for it. When they saw the name of the heroine in the trailer, they all looked puzzled: "Who is Jelly Lin? Never heard of it!

As soon as the trailer came out, it swept the country in an instant, and countless people were waiting to suppress their desires.

Although many people don't know who Lin Yun is or how her acting skills are, it still can't reduce the sense of urgency of TAs. Countless people are waiting for the film to be released, so they should buy tickets as soon as it is released.

Many media can't figure out why such a movie, which doesn't even know the heroine's acting skills, has such a horrible attraction. Is it because Deng Chao, Show Lo and Yuqi Zhang have fans? Or maybe it's because of Stephen Chow, but he didn't play the role well?

When there is no reason to answer their questions, people are used to paralyzing themselves and simply analyzing from the surface with their own subjective thoughts, without in-depth understanding and layer-by-layer analysis. Because ta people are afraid that the answer is different from their own. Therefore, TAs call this "celebrity effect".

In fact, TAs don't understand that even if the actors in this movie are all newcomers, they are not famous, have no fan base and have no mature acting skills. As long as ta is directed by Stephen Chow and Stephen Chow is involved, we will buy tickets anyway. Because it's enough to have him and Stephen Chow here.

Because, he carries the memory of our time.

The name Stephen Chow has been with us for 20 years, from primary school, middle school to university, to work, and finally to get married and have children. He has been with us for a quarter of our lives, and has gone through ups and downs for 20 years, 80 spring and autumn periods and 7,200 alternate days and nights.

When I was a child, I couldn't understand a Chinese odyssey. I didn't understand why the Supreme Treasure cried and said that conversation. How did Xia Zi die? I can't understand the meaning of hiding and what it means.

There was a sincere love before me, and I didn't cherish it.

You will regret it when you lose it. The most painful thing in the world is this.

If god gives me another chance.

I will say to that girl, "I love her.

If I have to add a time limit to this love, I hope it is ... ten thousand years.

Too many people who saw this movie as a comedy movie at the beginning will be moved and have a deep understanding if they taste it again later. Everyone will feel the same way, and they will always regret losing it. Obviously you are by my side, but I don't know how to cherish it until I can't get it anymore. However, it's too late. Sometimes, after a turn, an idea and a goodbye, it's gone forever.

● The furthest distance in the world.

● Not the distance between life and death.

● But

I stand in front of you.

You don't know I love you.

A lot of love in the world is actually around us, but we can't feel it well, which leads to drifting away and eventually losing it.

May you keep your eyes open and cherish the people in front of you.

04

Having an idol is a kind of spirit.

Leslie Cheung died 14 years ago, Ka Kui Wong died 24 years ago and Bruce Lee died 44 years ago.

These three people, representing the idols of most people in three different times, also enjoy a high reputation at home and abroad, showing the beauty of the East to the world on the international stage. In today's era, some younger children may not know them or remember their respective influences on China and the world.

People in the 1960s, 1970s and 1980s were most impressed by Leslie Cheung, Ka Kui Wong and Bruce Lee, and each of them had made great contributions in their own time. I am most familiar with Bruce Lee in the 1960s, Leslie Cheung in the 1970s and Ka Kui Wong in the 1980s.

How many people embarked on the road of Wushu fitness because of Bruce Lee's kung fu, how many people persisted in their dreams because of Leslie Cheung's encouragement, and how many people found their goals in life because of Ka Kui Wong's lyrics. How many people have changed themselves and got rid of the life without fighting spirit and hope in the past, which is why so many people like them and miss them.

Donnie Yen said in an interview: "I have been a die-hard admirer of Bruce Lee since I was a child. I love his movies and martial arts, admire him for promoting the national spirit of martial arts with art and national prestige, and hope that one day, like him, I can promote China martial arts through movies. Influenced by Bruce Lee, Donnie Yen practiced martial arts since childhood and eventually became a generation of kung fu superstars.

Leslie Cheung once commented on Eason Chan: "I think Eason Chan is good, especially Happy Ferris Wheel is really good; Once I saw Eason Chan smoking, I said to him, "Eason Chan, you have a beautiful voice. Do not smoke. I have given up smoking. At Leslie Cheung's suggestion, Eason Chan quit smoking and practiced singing hard. Today, few people haven't heard Eason Chan's songs.

Li Ka-shing once asked Lin to rewrite "The Days of Our Life" and write "University Question" as the school song of Shantou University, hoping that students can understand the truth of learning and the ethics of being a man, and tell them that life is more than perseverance and struggle. Dream is a meaningful pursuit. Success is not only giving and having, but taking responsibility is the highest achievement. Power needs to be shared to connect the past and the future. Living out the glory of life is worthy of the Spring and Autumn Period.

Students who take the postgraduate entrance examination in Shantou University said that whenever they encounter learning bottlenecks and feel bored and tired because they don't want to study, as long as they listen to Ka Kui Wong's songs, they will feel that the difficulties will pass, and their mood will immediately calm down and renew their motivation for learning.

They have a great influence not only on China, but also on the world. It was Bruce Lee who declared the strength and physique of the orientals to the world, broke the derogatory name of "the sick man of East Asia" and proved that China was a sleeping tiger. It was Leslie Cheung who showed the world the unique gentleness and melancholy, kindness and tolerance of the orientals, and made the world have a deeper understanding of China. It is Ka Kui Wong that brings warmth to Africa and shows the world that China is a country that longs for peace and hates war.

Some people are alive and he is dead; Some people died, and he is still alive. There is no doubt that Bruce Lee, Leslie Cheung and Ka Kui Wong all belong to this category. Although people are dead, they live in the hearts of countless people.

05

There is such a question and answer in Zhihu.

● Q: Is it harder for a person to fall in love with someone?

A: It's not that the more mature you are, the harder it is to fall in love with someone.

The more mature you are, the more you can tell if it is love.

This answer is suitable for answering most questions. Just like my sister, I have always liked it since I debuted in Han Geng 05. With the growth of age, rich experience and mature thinking, the more I can understand and distinguish what is idol and what is idolization.

An idol is an ordinary person who can bring you positive energy, give you sunshine when you are sad and painful, make you feel warm, give you motivation and hug when you encounter setbacks and hardships, and give you short-term dependence. It is an ordinary person who gives you energy from the heart. And idolization is an ordinary person with amazing skin, empty soul and no thoughts. He can't bring you warmth, give you strength or even hurt your ordinary people.

In life, we may chat with friends and speak ill of a star because we don't understand. A friend suddenly changed his face on the spot and even quarreled with you loudly, which led to the interruption of feelings. If so, it can only show that you are very lucky, and it may just happen that the star you mentioned is the idol that ta likes. This situation is actually very easy to solve. You will be fine if you solemnly apologize to ta afterwards.

Because we all have this emotion, and it's not surprising. I can say a thousand things about my alma mater, but you can't, not this school. You say it, and I'll try my best to find you. Like the attitude towards idols, you can call me ugly and stupid, but you must never say that my idol is wrong, otherwise, you can try. (ˇ? ˇ)

06

I have no objection to my sister taking time off to go to Guangzhou to see Han Geng, and even support her. I'm not saying that I support her to leave all her jobs and come to Guangzhou as soon as she hears that Han Geng has an appointment. I only support her after she arranges her work and emergencies.

Life is too grandiose now. As soon as some people hear that there is a fan meeting, regardless of the willy-nilly, they immediately leave their jobs and leave without handing over the work and progress, which leads to work delays and even serious losses to the company's interests. This behavior is irrational.

Moreover, you'd better evaluate your financial strength before you are ready to embark on a journey. If this time is too far, the ticket price is too high, it is better to save money and wait for the next time. You also want idols to see the best of themselves!