First, the personality is incompatible.
When we go to college, we will meet people with different personalities. If we don't meet often, we will get along well, but once we are assigned to the same dormitory, contradictions will arise. In the same dormitory, it will be more difficult to get along with each other because of the differences in roommates' personalities. Personality is born to a person and it is difficult to change the day after tomorrow. So when two people with different personalities are together, there will be differences, so the relationship between them is definitely not good.
Second, I don't know how to be modest.
Lack of humility is also one of the reasons why college roommates don't get along well. When encountering minor problems, roommates don't know how to be modest, which will magnify the problems and deepen the severity. A lot of times lies in modesty, one step is heart, one step is emotion, one step is soul, and one step is reading. As the saying goes, to say the least, there are blue sky and white clouds behind us. As long as roommates know how to be modest, the relationship between roommates will get better and better.
Third, young people are young and energetic.
College students are teenagers and early twenties, and their minds are not mature enough. Sometimes I will be impulsive, impatient and don't know how to adjust my roommate relationship, so my roommate relationship will deteriorate. Sometimes two people have contradictions, and young people are competitive, so the contradictions deepen.
Fourth, I don't know how to communicate well.
Not knowing how to communicate well is also a reason for the bad relationship between roommates. Often a small matter will turn into a big contradiction because roommates don't know how to communicate well. When unpleasant things happen, roommates can't calm down and talk, and they can't communicate in time, so the relationship between roommates will deteriorate. As time goes by, the roommates who have contradictions become more and more alienated.
The relationship between college roommates is very important. After all, you will live in the same dormitory for several years. It will be an annoyance if several roommates don't get along well. You can't see it when you look up, so everyone will be unhappy. Therefore, we must do a good job in the relationship between college roommates and live in harmony in order to make college life more exciting.