Contemporary college students are not self-disciplined. In life, self-discipline is very important for a person. Self-disciplined people get twice the result with half the effort, while those who are not self-disciplined can give up halfway. So, what are the manifestations of contemporary college students' lack of self-discipline? Let's take a look.
Manifestations of contemporary college students' lack of self-discipline 1
People who are not self-disciplined love to talk more, which is a very immature performance.
People who love to talk a lot always hurt others unconsciously in too many words, but they don't know it. The most terrible thing is that they still feel good about themselves, feel good about their words and talk a lot.
An employee once said to me: I feel that I always put my foot in my mouth, knowing that I didn't mean it like that, and I am often misunderstood, which makes me very anxious.
I said: dogs bark all the time when they see little people, which makes you feel particularly disgusting. I can't wait to smash it and drive it away. The rooster only wakes us up on time in the morning, which can bring people a good voice.
So, what to say depends on the occasion. Why do you always say the wrong thing? Some words depend on timing and discretion, otherwise it will not only hurt yourself, but also hurt everyone around you.
Let's think back, because you talked too much, because you made a mistake, you didn't have a mature standard, not because you had a problem, but because you didn't have enough self-discipline.
People who are not self-disciplined always want to take shortcuts.
The news that online news became rich and famous overnight spread all over the network, which led many young people to have such an idea now.
I want to tell you that no one can succeed casually. Any successful person and rich person you see must have worked ten times harder than us ordinary people, but you don't know them.
Eight years ago, I got on my friend's Mercedes. I was particularly envious at that time, so I told my friend, when can I drive a Mercedes?
At that time, my idea was that he didn't have to do anything every day, and his life was very chic. It's childish to feel like a boss.
Later, through my own efforts bit by bit, I became one with him. Seriously, I don't think I can describe it. Without eating, everyone else is enjoying TV series, movies and leisure time. He can only struggle because no one understands the sadness behind him.
They won't tell you how difficult it is, just as I won't tell you how difficult it is now, but I have also driven a Mercedes. What can it do? I'm afraid I'm the only one who knows the sadness behind it.
When we fantasize about getting rich overnight and the shortcut to success, please remember that there is no shortcut to success. I can't think of a better shortcut except becoming excellent, self-disciplined and working harder.
Really smart people know how to achieve their goals step by step, and they will exclude all irrelevant things from the outside world to avoid influence.
I am willing to spend more time on stupid kung fu, such as writing, which is a very time-consuming job. I think writing can make me calm down, think about my own direction and define my own goals, which is particularly important for self-improvement.
Under the precipitation of time, concentration and persistent passion can make me more self-disciplined in everything.
People who are not self-disciplined often have excessive emotions.
I used to be a very emotional person, and I often let myself suffer indignities because of trifles. When I look back, I find myself stupid because of the reflection of these emotions.
Contemporary college students' lack of self-discipline II. Always make plans.
People who are not self-disciplined cannot implement and act after making a plan, and then they have to make a new plan, and so on.
Can't last.
It is difficult for people who are not self-disciplined to stick to one thing for a long time, and they will give up their plans and efforts for some other reasons, resulting in giving up halfway.
Life is irregular.
It is difficult for people who are not self-disciplined to get up, sleep and eat on time. Cook for yourself. It is more difficult to complete painful lessons such as study and fitness.
Poor memory and carelessness.
People who are not self-disciplined can't devote themselves to the things around them, which leads to carelessness and memory difficulties.
Can't abandon the temptation of the moment.
Know that long-term games are not good and know that you can't work hard. But I just can't force myself to give up the short-term temptation.