Access to knowledge and information
One's knowledge obtained directly from books is limited, and interpersonal communication is an effective way for one to obtain knowledge. Through communication, people can gain knowledge, experience and lessons that are beneficial to them from others, and constantly enrich and improve themselves. The more people you know, the more ideas you exchange and the more information you get. Good interpersonal relationship plays a positive role in enriching knowledge and broadening horizons.
Healthy development of body and mind
Interpersonal relationship is an important factor that causes people's emotional changes. Good interpersonal relationship is one of the important standards of mental health. Through communication, individuals gain a sense of security and enhance the intimate relationship between people. Everyone has a need to belong. Through mutual communication, we can talk about personal joys and sorrows, thus enhancing the exchange of ideas and emotions between people and creating attachment. Facts have proved that "deprivation of communication" is as harmful to people's psychology as "deprivation of feeling". Ding Ding, a famous medical psychologist in China, once pointed out: "The most important thing for people's psychological adaptation is to adapt to interpersonal relationships, so people's mental illness is mainly due to the imbalance of interpersonal relationships."
Martin seligman and Eddina, American psychologists, found in a special study on "the feeling degree of college students' self-happiness" that the happiest college students feel the same, and the most special thing is that they all have very good interpersonal relationships. Therefore, interpersonal communication is the basic guarantee of a person's physical and mental health.
(3) Self-improvement
Confucius once said, "Learning alone without friends is ignorance." With the development of self-awareness, people gradually learn to look at themselves and the world outside themselves with their own eyes. Through interpersonal communication, we can improve our understanding of ourselves and others. The wider and deeper the scope of communication, the more complete the understanding of the other party and the deeper the understanding of oneself. Only by fully understanding others and deeply understanding yourself can we get others' understanding, recognition, care and help and realize self-improvement.
Complete socialization
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This is a process in which individuals acquire social qualifications by learning social knowledge, skills and culture. Without cooperation with others, individuals cannot acquire the knowledge and skills they need in life. Good interpersonal relationship can make people accumulate experience in communication, learn the necessary knowledge, skills, attitudes and morality in social life, realize their position and responsibility in society, learn to get along and compete with others on an equal footing, and then stand on their own feet in society, get social recognition and become a mature social person.