She has been working part-time in university, as a tutor and part-time in school. She doesn't go home to do four or five hundred jobs for a month in winter and summer vacations, and her living expenses are all on her own. Only when I go home in the last few days of the summer vacation will I not come back for the New Year. It was not until the winter vacation of my senior year that I spent the Spring Festival at home for the first time in four years.
From freshman semester to senior graduation, I haven't taken the living expenses from home. I also earned money to buy a mobile phone for myself, and my tuition depends entirely on student loans.
When I was in college, I scrimped and saved. Dinner is often steamed stuffed bun with 50 cents, and breakfast is also steamed stuffed bun with 50 cents. I bring my own cup to drink boiled water, and I never buy soybean milk, porridge and the like.
This girl is herself more than ten years ago.
She has been wearing high school uniforms and takes turns wearing them every day. She won't change it unless there is an accident. She only changed four clothes. Every day, except for class, I eat in the canteen, and I have never seen her buy snacks or go out to play.
Her grades are average, but she studies hard and reviews her lessons every night. Usually, she is introverted and seldom communicates with everyone. Once, she might have had some problems at home or something. She calls for a long time every day, and what she says seems to be disorganized, but she just doesn't say it. Once I asked her what was wrong, and she said nothing.
At the beginning, our dormitory boss said, why don't we help her? Finally, we discussed it for several days, but finally we didn't help her. She didn't need all of us to pity her, so we didn't give her any obvious help. The boss of our dormitory only made some changes to her in some details. For example, we buy a rice cooker in the dormitory and cook something for her to eat at night.
For example, when we go out to play on holidays, we will invite her to join us and won't eat expensive things. For example, when we drink milk tea, we will see whether to buy two get one free or buy three get one free, and we will give her the one we gave.
Also, when we go to buy shoes, we will see if we can buy a pair for free, and finally deliberately buy her size; Because her shoes haven't been changed for a long time.
We all buy daily necessities together, and toothbrushes and the like are bought by the dozen, so we can use them together in the end.
I remember one time when school started, my father sent me to school, and then I saw that she had just arrived at the entrance of the dormitory building, so I gave her the luggage and I went to help her get it.
After graduation that year, she still said thank you to us in the group.
I think that is my most meaningful university. As for what experience it is, maybe in those years, our dormitory has never had a perfect understanding because of one thing.
Because of her, we have this knowledge. Money is really important to a person.