This question is indeed a question that many female college students often confide to me. I have seen many cases where my classmates who have been with me for so many years have dormitory conflicts and even cannot go to school because of dormitory problems. I'll share a few, and you can see how to deal with relationships.

Story 1:

Xiao Li, a freshman, has just entered school and lives in a dormitory for six people. At first, everyone was sisters and friendly. But it didn't take long for trivial things to emerge one after another. When someone's hair is stuck in the water pipe and someone snores at night, you start to despise me and I despise you. Because of his straightforward personality, Xiao Li directly warned people with hair loss to tidy up their hair and pay attention to snoring at night. Originally she wanted to. I did it for everyone, but in the end everyone ignored her. She was very upset.

My suggestion: it's no big deal, and the students didn't mean it. Can remind, pay attention to communication methods. Sometimes being too direct actually hurts each other's face. Learning some communication skills can avoid misunderstanding.

Story 2:

Freshmen are smart, excellent in study and outstanding in appearance. Because I concentrate on my homework, my classmates in the dormitory ask to play together, and they are often rejected. In addition, handsome guys frequently call the dormitory to borrow various mouths to find her. The dormitory is more and more resistant to her. Once, when she came back from self-study, she locked the door and knocked on it for a long time, but no one answered it for her. Or did she find an aunt at the boarding house to solve it? Later, she simply transferred to a dormitory. She was very sad. Am I wrong?

My answer: people are social people, and if they leave the group, they will definitely be excluded. Coupled with its outstanding advantages, it is not low-key, which naturally makes people jealous. Solution: in the new dormitory, keep a low profile, put down the queen's figure (rejecting others is simply disdain for others, and busy homework is only one aspect), and do more activities with dormitory students to increase understanding.

Story 3:

Swallow, a freshman, heard from the senior that the dormitory relationship is very important. As soon as I entered the dormitory, I gave a box of the best apples I bought at home to my classmates in the dormitory. I was especially generous to my classmates in the countryside and gave them food and drink. I occasionally bring a lot of valuables to the dormitory. As a result, after a while, instead of being nice to her, everyone spoke ill of her in various ways. She is very wronged. Where did I go wrong?

My answer: friendship is not bought with money, sometimes it is too flattering, which can only make people feel stressed and misunderstand that you are showing off. Suggestion: communicate sincerely.