2, choose a goal, short-term and long-term, including the love of academic life, and then do it little by little, aimless life is a waste of life.
3, get along with people, be patient with small things, but stick to principles. Talking about others behind their backs is the work of an elderly aunt. When they hear what people around them say, they answer in two words-"hmm" or "oh", and then forget it.
4. Take part in some activities or clubs, choose ones that suit you and are passionate, but don't expect to get any benefits from the organizations you participate in. The wealth you get is an experience and many friends.
5. Training outside the course belongs to your hobbies, reading and exercising, and online chatting and shopping are not included.
6, the computer is not difficult to master, cockroaches are not so terrible, learning to repair computers, patting cockroaches with slippers can make you live better, but it is no harm to pretend to be a computer idiot in front of boys.
7. Cultivate good hygiene habits, not cleanliness, but you don't need to ask others by your own standards.
8, put away the temper of the young lady at home, don't be unnecessarily angry about the little things in life, very tired, have the energy to wash clothes more.
9. It is not good to pay attention to current events and indulge in romance novels and soap operas.
10, don't always be alone, don't rely on anyone, understand that no one can live without anyone, and don't forget that you live a collective life.
1 1, there is no need to compare with people around you, regardless of looks, figure, family, your own is good. You can lose weight, but don't hurt your health. You can exchange beautiful clothes with friends around you, but you can't follow blindly.
12. Try to keep the same routine as your roommate. If they are different, don't influence others. Say hello when you are outside at night. Lofty and aloof don't have to be used in the dormitory. You can't promise not to get sick in the middle of the night for four years.
13, many same-sex friends. Many times, friends of the same sex are more rare than friends of the opposite sex, and they will not feel when they have them. If you have seen this summer, you should understand that women are the people who know women best, and your heterosexual friends and boyfriends can't really be willing to accompany you to study underwear and buy sanitary napkins all the time.
14, it's not a bad thing to have many friends, but it's not a good thing to have too many friends to remember or lose track of time. There are two kinds of friends, the former few and the latter many.
15. Get to know your brothers and sisters. They will help you in your life and study. What you meet is what they have experienced.
16. Laugh with everyone when you are happy, and cry with your best friend when you are in tears. There are several friends of the opposite sex who can give you a shoulder when you are sad, but remember that friends are friends and lovers are lovers'.
17, don't abandon the intimate couple on the roadside. Others will only say that they can't eat grapes and that they are sour. When you are in love, you are just one of them.
18, when you can fall in love, you might as well talk about it. Neither study nor the future is an excuse to refuse. Love on campus is hard to last, but the first love is that the sooner you get hurt, the better.
19, skin care products that suit you are good, and so are boyfriends.
20, four years of life, you are bound to fall in love with someone, and there will inevitably be someone you don't love to love you. The person you love, strive for it, but don't be a third party, and don't fall in love with a married man. Be kind to those who love you. If you don't love, you don't love and don't delay.
2 1, for the sake of feelings, leave if you are injured, and leave if you hurt others. The story of breaking up or being friends is just for acting and is more straightforward.
22. Have the courage to leave people who are not suitable for you. Don't pay attention to what others say. Correcting your mistakes is the best choice.
23. Say "hi" when you meet someone who left you, and say "hi" when you meet someone who left you, but you don't need to know each other's recent situation, because you are no longer relevant.
24. It is common to fall in love with a good friend at the same time. It is not shameful to weigh what kind of man you fall in love with, whether to give up your friends for love or to give up love for friends.
25, don't look at chastity bigger than the sky, and don't care, just remember that protecting yourself and loving yourself is not the whole of life.
26. Don't forget to ask him to take safety measures when making out with the opposite sex. Yuting will ruin your health. If you don't want to get uterine fibroids, please don't go to the operating table easily.
27. If you want to find someone to spend your life with, there are three kinds of people, please think carefully: literary youth is best not, and his romance is only suitable for love; Don't be a feminine man. You'll understand after reading it. Don't talk to strangers. For your future happiness, you'd better choose a man who grew up in a happy family, which is related to his belief in love and marriage.
28. No man or woman is worth smoking and drinking for, and it is not worth tattooing and cutting your wrist. It's terrible to know that your heart has healed, but your body's injuries can't go away.
29. After breaking up, don't cry all day and act like a dissatisfied wife. No one will sympathize with you.
30. Mom learns to cook during the holiday, not for others. You need to support yourself in the future.
3 1, often call your family, discuss major issues with your family, and solve minor issues by yourself. You don't have to cry every time you call. You are no longer a child. Don't even ask your mother how much washing powder to put in washing clothes.
32. Drink less coffee, eat more fruit, have three meals regularly, and don't worry your parents.
33. You can travel during the long vacation. Your former classmates are all people you can rely on. After entering the society, you have more and more money and less time.
34. Don't stay up late if you have nothing to do. Take good care of your skin if you stay up late. You don't need to try to teach yourself all night. That's a way to waste your life.
35. Pursue the taste of life, not taste, unless you can make a lot of money.
36. Keeping a diary and recording your life can clarify the process of your growth and let yourself know your own way.
37. Don't forget to bring home special products for your roommates when school starts. Usually, a little effort will bring you endless benefits.
38. It is beneficial to go to the library frequently and open books, and make full use of free resources.
39. Think it over before meeting the net friend. After all, life belongs to life and network belongs to network. Vagueness and fantasy will make life better.
40, learn to control, at least to control their own desires, whether food, clothing, housing or other, society does not need pure fairies, nor will it accept women wrapped in desires.
4 1, learn to match clothes and makeup, and you can refer to your friends. It's not important now, but it will be important later. At the same time, remember that not everyone can wear miniskirts, and not everyone is suitable for halter tops. Listen to the opinions of people around you.
42. Learn to wear high heels and take care of your hands.
43. Test your drinking capacity with your friends in the dormitory to avoid losing face in front of others and being dragged around like a dead body.
44. Knowing how to protect your own interests is your own courage, and humility is not necessarily a virtue.
45. Life is not as simple as you think, nor as complicated as a novel. Treat people sincerely and be wary of others.
46. Being talented is a good thing, but being too talented will only hurt people around you.
47. The world is not almond soaked with honey, nor cake sprinkled with arsenic. In the meantime, only you know. No matter what happens, please don't cry, don't make trouble and don't hang yourself. Don't forget, only a few people care about you, and most people are just watching the clown's performance.
48. Be compassionate, don't quarrel with others, and don't start a fight. That's for street bitches.
49. Don't forget that you are a woman. No matter how you look, make yourself beautiful and live a refined life. Temperament can't be concealed by appearance.
50. Read these patiently before you think. Do you know how to start your college life?