1. Learn to accept each other's imperfections.

The perfect partner obviously doesn't exist. Everyone is an independent individual, and no one has to become what the other person imagined. Active change is long-lasting! Force each other to change the way they actually hurt others and themselves, and learn to accept each other's imperfections, so that the relationship can last forever.

2. Cultivate the same interests and learn and grow together.

When two people are together at first, it may be a small point, but if they want to be together for a long time, they need to cultivate more attractive points between them! For example: playing games, reading books and cooking together. The more * * * similar, the more * * * the same topic, grow together and make progress together.

Always praise each other, not blame and complain.

Anyone likes to hear positive encouragement and praise. After being recognized and praised, people will be more motivated to become better. Don't be stingy with your praise and praise, let the other person feel love, respect and need.

4. Don't make meaningless comparisons

We always habitually look outside, so we think that other people's boyfriends/girlfriends are good and others are one-sided. Comparing them has no meaning except to make each other angry. If you have time, it is better to improve their ability! ! If you really can't accept it or can't run in, stop loss in time, otherwise meaningless complaints and comparisons will be difficult to be healthy.

5. Keep a proper sense of distance

No matter how good a relationship is, it is impossible to stick together for 24 hours. Maintaining a proper sense of distance is conducive to the healthy development of feelings, otherwise it is easy to get bored and fall into disgust with each other.

6. Have your own opinions and judgments

If you are not a person with strong opinions and judgment, don't tell too many details about your relationship with people around you, because anyone's evaluation is only from their point of view, and feelings are two people's business. Drink water and you will know! ! It may shake your attitude. You are no longer a child. You should have your own judgment and learn to be responsible for your choices.

7. Love yourself before you love others

Learn to love yourself before you can love each other better. You can't get the desired result by blindly paying. If you are in full bloom, butterflies will come. Only by managing yourself first and enriching yourself can we know how to love others correctly.

8. Don't be too restrictive.

I have met many couples, and there are too many unreasonable rules and regulations to make the relationship last. I'm afraid everyone is an independent individual, and no one likes being bound. It may be a little fun between lovers at first, but after a long time, it will inevitably make people sleepy.

9. Know how to communicate when you meet something.

Cold violence is the number one S hand in feelings! Solve it in time after things calm down! Cold treatment will only weaken the feelings of both sides. When two people fall in love, how can there be so many principled questions about right and wrong? Many of them are trivial. If you can't even cross these hurdles, how can you last forever?

10. Don't give up your principles and bottom line.

Never feel that you are the most special one, nor that you can easily change a person. Don't fall in love with the so-called virgin mentality. It is important to change and grow yourself. To be a man, you should have a bottom line of principles, and so should falling in love! Accept what you can't change. If you really can't accept it, think about it.