In our life, someone said, "I regret going to college for four years, but I regret not going to college all my life." Pushed all of us to the end of the contradiction. So what's the difference between those who go to college and those who don't?

In fact, in my opinion, the fundamental gap between not going to college is the gap in values. Because the knowledge in many textbooks can be gradually learned in the society, because many manufacturers in the society now have on-the-job training, and most simple work can be completed through social training or through their own learning. In addition, if we don't work in this major after graduation, our knowledge will gradually fade with the passage of time, so the difference between going to college and not going to college is almost zero in terms of knowledge.

Then he still has a certain gap. The intuitive result of this gap is values. That's what we call a philosophy of life or a philosophy of dealing with people. Maybe everyone knows that from primary school to middle school, our perception of values and others' feedback on their attitudes have reached a preliminary form. You can say that our value judgment has taken shape.

But as we all know, the university is a small and micro society. In middle school, we are only exposed to social relations on campus. It is based on the simple interpersonal relationship between teachers and students and other social contacts, and has really accumulated our values of life. ? In college, besides, we are exposed to social and other interpersonal relationships. We will be exposed to more trendy ideas and a large number of knowledge explosions. Let our thoughts and values be completely subverted, or generate new understanding. In this way, it will have another influence on our outlook on life and values. Of course, these influences are good and bad, and most of them have played a positive and correct guiding role in our outlook on life.

Therefore, apart from the differences in basic knowledge, the most important aspect of the gap between people who study in universities and those who don't study in universities is their values and attitudes towards life. Look carefully, a person who goes to college and a person who doesn't go to college have absolutely different attitudes towards one thing. Of course, it may not be appropriate to express it in words. ? If you can feel it personally, or encounter similar situations in your life, you will know how different this attitude will be.