When we have a new view of life after reflection, it is a good choice to write out our feelings, which can improve our written expression ability. So how can we write our own experiences and infect readers? The following is my parenting experience at home and school, which is for reference only and I hope it will help you.
Parenting experience in home school * * * I am very inspiring to 1 home school! It is the height of parents' vision that determines the height of children's future growth; Parents' patterns affect children's patterns. Blindly protect children and don't let them suffer a little setbacks. The children of the future can only become people without fear, responsibility and responsibility.
Just telling the child that this is wrong does not mean how serious the consequences are. Children just do it but don't understand the meaning, which is equivalent to knowing only a little, knowing three points and not knowing the essence.
Parents who take responsibility for themselves influence their children with their actions, so that children can understand that they are consistent in words and deeds, that they should be responsible in doing things, that they should put national interests first, that they should not flinch when encountering difficulties and setbacks, and that they should have the courage and determination to overcome them! Our parents strive to be parents, strive to be themselves, and pay attention to and educate their children with a positive and optimistic attitude!
Family Education Parents' Experience 2 Education is a very far-reaching and worthy of our deep thinking. Family education is a platform for communication and cooperation between families and schools, which educates every student to grow up healthily.
Many people believe that the ultimate goal of family education is to let children get their parents' ideal scores, and to give children two points and one line of space to think about how to get satisfactory scores. In fact, this view of education is erroneous. Children will grow up one day, enter the society and participate in various social activities. Before that, the purpose of family education was not just for a score. We must teach children to develop good behavior habits and have the ability of self-study. To learn certain communication skills, the most important thing is to have a healthy personality. These educations, which have nothing to do with test scores, are chips to care about children's happy lives.
We are not trying to train an examination machine. It is necessary to cultivate children into healthy adults through various channels and educational methods, with strong self-care ability, strong ability to handle affairs and survive, and all-round development. You don't have to be proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, but all children must be able to. This is an encouragement for every child's future life. In such a large social group, our children will not feel inferior or lose confidence.
Among all these educations, quality education is particularly important, which is a gradual process. As a parent, you should instill it bit by bit, and it will gradually manifest itself over time. If a person can't even talk about quality, the rest can only be a blank sheet of paper.
At the same time, I am also glad that I chose City No.5 Middle School for my son. The school not only has quality education, but also implements after-school service for students. Colorful after-school services enrich children's campus life to varying degrees, and make children become talents with both ability and political integrity. This kind of after-school service has laid a solid foundation for children in different degrees, so that every student can improve in different degrees. I believe that in this environment, every student can find his ideal starting point.
Experience of home-school parenting 3 Thanks to the recommendation of Teacher Lu, I was lucky enough to listen to the teacher's home-school parenting lecture today. After listening to this, I felt enlightened and benefited a lot.
In the lecture, Teacher Yang provided us with some effective tips and tricks for home-school communication from five aspects: making files, organizing activities, taking photos, getting to know busy people and writing letters.
To make a file, the class teacher should fully understand every child and every family behind the child, so he should make a real file for every child. At the same time, parents feel that teachers are willing to pay attention to their children and take the first step to establish a good relationship between home and school.
Organize an activity. As a class teacher, we should always pay attention to the situation between children and parents, organize some warm parent-child activities in time, promote the emotion between children and parents, and make the communication between home and school relaxed and full of warmth.
Take a photo, often take the most beautiful photos of your child and send them to parents, so that parents can feel the happiness and joy of their children at school, and also bring them a pleasant feeling. A photo can witness the most touching or authentic side of a child at school. These wonderful moments record the most brilliant moments of children, and also let parents know their children better and lay a solid bridge for home-school communication.
To know that a busy person, as a class teacher, we should pay attention to every child and every family, and really do a good job of communication between home and school, so that parents can realize our care and love for his children. Know the busy man "Dad",
To write a good letter, the letter lies not in perfect writing, but in sincerity, in silent and warm understanding and communication. We can mobilize children to write to their parents often, so that parents and children can communicate better and children can express their feelings.
After listening to Mr. Yang's lecture, I have a new understanding of the work of the head teacher, especially the establishment of a harmonious relationship between home and school. I will try to use these methods in my future work and work hard with my parents on the road of promoting the healthy growth of students.
Home-school parenting experience 4 Like many parents, I am very concerned about my children's learning and living conditions, and I hope my children will grow up well and healthily. Although I think the child is clever and sensible, he also has some shortcomings.
Speaking of home-school education, I have read many articles by other parents, which gives me a new understanding of home education. I further understand that family education is as important as school education, and parents should actively cooperate with the work of schools and teachers. Solve the problems in the process of children's growth in time. Let children grow up healthily.
Parents should first educate their children to learn to be human. Parents are children's first teachers, and the quality of family education will directly affect children's healthy growth. Parents should pay attention to their words and deeds in daily life and educate their children to learn to be human through their own behaviors.
Parents should educate their children to develop good living and study habits. Everything a child can do in his life. Let them do it on their own. Cultivate children's hobbies and study habits. Good study habits will benefit children for life. As parents, don't be impatient, be patient, and blame and criticize children less. Encourage guidance and stimulate children's self-confidence.
Parents should spend more time with their children, care about their studies and communicate with them in time.
Parents should understand and respect their children and cultivate their self-esteem and self-confidence. Guide children to develop in a good way and correct bad habits. So as to discover your own personality.
Hometown should keep a normal heart and treat children's grievances correctly, such as children's grievances. Criticism of teachers can sometimes not be treated correctly. In fact, the teacher's criticism of the child shows that the teacher cares about him. If parents and teachers agree, it will be more helpful for children to correct their shortcomings. On the other hand, we should also see the advantages of children, even if we have made small progress, we should also give affirmation. While building children's self-confidence, don't just focus on grades. We should pay attention to children's comprehensive quality and cultivate their learning ability in all directions.
Parents should let their children experience setbacks, then analyze the reasons, explain the truth to their children, and let them stand up bravely while suffering from grievances and setbacks. Help children develop a healthy attitude and a positive spirit of struggle. The healthy growth of children cannot be achieved overnight, and learning cannot be done once and for all. As parents, we hope that the school can build a platform for home-school communication. * * * Qi Xin works together. Better promote the healthy growth of children.
I have deeply realized that being a parent is an art that needs lifelong learning. While caring about children's food, clothing and health, it is more important to guide them correctly and educate them patiently in many ways. You can't just rely on teachers, you need parents and teachers to do it together.
Home-school parenting experience * * * 5. Thank you very much for the theme that the school asked Mr. Pan to share. This theme is full of experience and wisdom. I updated my understanding of examination tools: learning attitude, methods, efficiency ... This perspective is very practical, which can effectively practice, help children find problems, and improve their learning interest and grades. But this lecture, the most important thing is to let me see Mr. Pan's heart as a father, a heart that really loves children. Helping children's growth and progress is not to meet parents' expectations, to solve parents' anxiety, or to save parents' face, but to really benefit children and accompany them to develop in an all-round way, which will benefit me more. Thank you, Mr. Pan, for sharing and for the organization of the school.
Experience of home-school parenting 6. Thank you for your trust. I am deeply honored to give me this opportunity to discuss and exchange children's family education with you. Our children can enter the happy group of Class 34 1 and meet the teachers who teach them with love. This is their fate and their luck. Here, as a parent, I want to say: "Mr. Wu, you have worked hard! Thank you for your five years of companionship and teaching! " Below, I will exchange my feelings about educating children with my parents. If there is anything wrong, please give me more advice.
Many education experts have said: "Family education is the foundation of all education". Moreover, family education is a big project, and it is often a process of wits and wits. I believe many parents have thought about this question: how should our children be trained? They are different from our generation. At that time, all we had to do was raise them. Education is a teacher's business. Today's children should not only be raised, but also be educated, not only to cultivate morality, but also to cultivate talents. Therefore, the parents of children nowadays are under great pressure, physically and mentally exhausted, and class contradictions are prominent. How to make them grow up healthily and soundly, I have been groping, but I have gained something from Jing Yi's upbringing. Now I will communicate with you from some trivial matters.
First of all, happiness is the premise of learning.
Jing Yi was actually a shy and introverted child in grade one. Just a week into school, I asked her, "What friends have you made? What games do you play after class? " She said, "I didn't make friends. I just sat in my seat after class and watched them play." Now I realize that something is wrong. What is the happiness of a child who can't play without friends? In the long run, once you get into the habit of being withdrawn, you may never change it. So I told her gently that I would play games with my classmates every day. And I communicate with her every day about how to play with friends, and her father tries his best to play games with her, such as opposing cats. I always think that happiness is the premise of learning, and unhappy and forced learning are difficult to be effective and persistent. By the fifth grade, some children were tired of learning. When children don't like to study, our parents can find another way to guide them from play. When you have the same language, your words as parents will carry weight.
Second, hard work is a child's advantage.
Jing Yi, a freshman, actually has a big problem in her study. At that time, the most common sentence she said every night was: "Mom, I don't understand!" " "Because our early childhood education advocates' ignorance' education, we don't teach her anything related to textbooks except playing. When she entered the first grade, 1-20 didn't count well, and 10 didn't understand it, and she wasn't the smart child that others said. Therefore, when other children were immersed in the 100% joy of the high school mid-term exam, my Jing Yi looked at me with a test paper of only 70 or 80 points and said, "Mom, I don't understand the meaning of the test paper." I asked her with a smile, "daughter, do you think you are stupid?" "At that time, she cried, and such a small child had a mind. Her father told her a story of "stupid birds fly first". I told her that when you are inferior to others, you should work harder than others. I believe this sentence should have penetrated into her heart by now. Because when she was growing up, I only valued the process, not the result. Whether she participates in rope skipping competitions, cadre elections or various activities, the first sentence I ask is: "Do you think you have tried your best? "If she nods, I will definitely give her a thumbs-up to encourage her. A friend may ask, "Don't ask the result? "I think as long as you try your best, the result will generally be good. Even if you try your best, what is there to blame? A child doesn't have to compare with others. As long as he is better than himself yesterday, isn't it commendable? This is the most successful thing I think I have done on the road to bringing peace. Because she works hard enough, I am not worried about her future study or even her future life, because hard work has become a habit of her.
Third, be a smart parent.
1, learn to let go
Parents should never take the place of what their children can do by themselves. Some experts once said that the less worried you are, the more relieved your child may be. There is some truth in this sentence. I have hardly tidied up Jingyi's schoolbag since she went to primary school, but her schoolbag is neatly arranged. I seldom wake her up, only throw her an alarm clock, and she is hardly late. I didn't care about going to the extra-long class on weekends, but she never got into trouble by bus, and asking strangers for directions was smoother than me. As parents, we actually need to let go at the right time. Actually, we are afraid of this and that. Holding her in your arms all the time is a lifelong risk, because you may develop her into a giant baby. Of course, letting go doesn't mean letting go. Parents must silently supervise and evaluate.
2. Be a parent with principles and a bottom line.
Teach children not to give in to some things, such as lying to avoid responsibility, or throwing things when criticized, or even running away from home. I advocate using family law to deal with such problems. However, it should be noted that the purpose of punishment is not to vent their anger, but to make them not have a second time, so they should be handled rationally and properly.
3. Communicate intelligently and be a democratic parent.
Children grow up and have their own opinions. Parents can't let him do everything in an orderly way, but they can't let everything be his temper. Therefore, communication and communication are particularly necessary in many cases. Take learning cucurbit silk this time as an example. Two days ago, Jing Yi came back and said that she didn't want to learn. I asked her why, and she said, "Many students in our class say that cucurbit has more than one key, and it will cost a lot of money to suspend school." That's what I told her. Paying money is a matter for us adults. If it is really unbearable, I will discuss it with you. What you need to consider is, do you like studying? Will you insist? Will you study hard? Is there a teacher who is suitable for you? If I get a positive answer, I will also support you. There is only one requirement: learn as much as possible! If you don't want to learn, find a reason to convince yourself and your mother, and we will quit. No matter what you do in the future, don't say that others are like this, and so am I. Learn to analyze rationally. This is the result of our communication in this Hulusi incident. I think many times we should not blindly obey our children, but we should also listen to their inner thoughts. We want democracy and choose an opinion that is beneficial to him and agreed by both sides.
Finally, as parents, we must have a correct attitude in the way of raising. Don't spoil him, because you don't owe him to have him and support him; Avoid nagging and complaining, because you want to have him and support him. He doesn't owe you anything. Only in this way can we speak equally, and the balance of love will not be unbalanced.
From July 20xx 13 to July 17, more than 40 colleagues from Huaxian County who devoted themselves to new education went to Nanjing, the ancient capital of the Six Dynasties, to attend the xx annual meeting of new education. The theme of this year's annual meeting is "home-school education". After three days' visit and study, I have a leap-forward understanding of the role of home-school education.
Through listening to the report, watching the exhibition of special achievements and visiting the school on the spot, I realized that in order to achieve the ideal effect on students' education and make every life shine, we must give full play to the role of family education instead of relying solely on the school. As Li Zhenxi, a doctor of education at Soochow University, a special Chinese teacher and president of the Institute of New Education, said, "No matter how important school education is, it is an important part of family education". Parents should be regarded as like-minded friends and comrades-in-arms, and their own resources should be used to educate students. As Yan, a tenured professor in Boston, Massachusetts, taught us, parents are resources that schools do not have, and we should make use of their strengths to make up for their shortcomings. Another example is that Professor Zhu Yongxin said in his main report that family education has its unique advantages:
First, time advantage. Children spend only 6-8 hours at school, and the rest of the time is more at home and after school.
Second, the emotional advantage, family education can use the family affection and the exemplary role of parents to educate children.
Third, resource advantages, family education can go beyond the time and space limitations of schools, and use all resources to carry out education in various ways.
Looking back on the education of students in our school, home-school education has not been done enough, and it has not been coordinated and unified, and parents have not played their due role in educating their children. Only at a parent-teacher meeting at the end of each semester. Usually, we use the class WeChat group and the school newsletter to send some notices and homework to parents. Usually, parents are informed to come to school, and most of them are students who have made mistakes. Tell parents about the students and let them criticize the students and correct their mistakes immediately. Therefore, it is very necessary for us to reflect on our own education methods, make full use of family advantages according to the actual situation of the school, join hands with parents, build a bridge of home-school education, realize the joint efforts of home-school education, and realize the greatest optimization of education:
1. set up a home-school cooperation Committee to build a home-school education platform.
2. Make full use of WeChat group, school newsletter, QQ group, etc. Strengthen exchanges and cooperation between parents and schools, and share resources.
3. Conduct home-school visits. Help parents keep abreast of students' situation and school dynamics through course presentation, program performance and other links.
Home-school parenting experience * * * 7 I am very inspired by my parents' school study! It is the height of parents' vision that determines the height of children's future growth; Parents' patterns affect children's patterns. Blindly protect children from a little setback, children can only become people without fear, responsibility and responsibility in the future; Just telling the child that this is wrong does not explain how serious the consequences are. Children just do it but don't understand the meaning, which is equivalent to knowing only a little, knowing three points and not knowing the essence; Parents who take responsibility for themselves influence their children with their actions, so that children can understand that they are consistent in words and deeds, that they should be responsible in doing things, that they should put national interests first, that they should not flinch when encountering difficulties and setbacks, and that they should have the courage and determination to overcome them! Our parents strive to be parents, strive to be themselves, and pay attention to and educate their children with a positive and optimistic attitude!
Home school * * * Parents' experience 8 Really realized the education after being a parent. From the first day I was sent to kindergarten, I have grown into a senior primary school student, and I can say that I have been groping for progress on the road of children's growth. Although each child's family situation is different and each parent's education method is different, the educational goal of each family must be the same, and we all want to cultivate our children into a noble and useful person.
When I was in primary school, as parents, we were very nervous about our children's study. Every mid-term exam, final exam, and even a quiz, we are even more anxious than our children, and always want to lay a good foundation for their study from the beginning. As time goes on, children grow up slowly, and we realize that the key to education is the cultivation of children's study habits and personality. From relying on parents to learning independently, every step is inseparable from the guidance of parents and school teachers.
We can neither leave the children to the teachers, simply let the teachers discipline them, nor interfere with their education. Only with the guidance of schools and families can children not go astray on the road of growth. Some parents may think that their children are more obedient to the teacher and everything will be fine if they are sent to school. They think it is the teacher's responsibility to discipline children. In fact, this is not the case. Children get along with classmates and teachers at school, and many lifestyles come from families. Parents are their first teachers. We need to take good care of children's personality habits. When I enter senior three, I will pay more attention to my children's mental health. Sometimes I will communicate with the child's class teacher to understand the child's state at school. After all, children don't have the perfect view of right and wrong as adults. If they have bad habits, I will ask the class teacher to guide me, guide the children's thoughts and let them move in the right direction. More importantly, trust the class teacher. To tell the truth, in many ways, teachers can understand children's behavioral motives better than our parents, so I choose to trust them completely. I believe that school education must be moving towards the goal that our parents hope.
In the past four years, I have seen the growth of children and the efforts of school teachers. School teachers communicate with parents in time, and parents try their best to cooperate with school education and let our children know more. Home-school education * * *, follow the trend, follow the trend, we need * * * to cultivate outstanding next generation and national talents!
I have three ideas about how to lead by example and be a qualified parent.
First, we must constantly improve ourselves, have a correct understanding and evaluation criteria for things and various social phenomena, always pay attention to our words and deeds, and abide by social ethics and behavior rules. Only in this way can we avoid hurting children and families because of our careless behavior.
Second, there must be tolerance without principles. The laws of nature and the overall rules of a society will not change because of a person's age. Therefore, you must not choose infinite forgiveness and tolerance because your child is young and violates these rules. When a child makes a mistake, we often try our best to help him make it up. We don't want children to be punished as they deserve, and think that this is the love for children. In fact, this is extremely wrong. This is actually encouraging children to go further and further on the wrong road. Next time they make a bigger mistake, it may be that our parents can't make up for it at all. At that time, children could only be punished more severely and hurt more.
Third, we should teach children to establish a correct life orientation and strengthen their sense of rules and responsibility. Children always leave us for the society. How to better integrate into society and adapt to society is a difficult problem that we have to face. Therefore, children must be taught how to assume their social and family responsibilities and how to abide by social rules, workplace rules and political rules. And cultivate them to establish correct values and correctly judge whether they are standardized. What parents should do on the road of life is not only to accompany them and help them ride horses, but more importantly, to let go of the reins and let their children gallop freely and realize themselves.
How time flies! In a blink of an eye, the child has become a third grade student. He is a lively and naughty boy who likes to ask questions. Speaking of children, every parent probably has endless topics. The growth of children has devoted too much effort and love to us. Of course, children have also brought us countless joys.
Fortunately, schools can provide such a platform, and through home-school co-education, they have the opportunity to exchange their children's growth and education, as well as their experiences and practices with school teachers and parents. In the process of educating children, I can't always keep a calm mind. Sometimes I get angry at my child's ignorance, or I worry that my exam results are not ideal. Whenever I encounter these problems, I don't know what to do, and there is no better guidance method.
Because I was educated at home and at school, the teachers and parents of the school built a communication platform, which made great progress for me and my children. Unlike before, children shouted loudly when they didn't listen, and children also had teachers to respond. Even the parents on duty at school told me that I couldn't sit still in class and whispered. Such a serious problem really makes me wonder how to get rid of his bad habits. It really makes me feel a lot of pressure. By learning from the teaching experience of excellent parents, I have changed my educational thinking about children, adjusted the correct educational methods, and gained a deeper understanding of educating children. After the implementation of class division, children have also made great progress. I also actively participated in the parent-child diary through the interaction and mutual assistance between our teachers and parents in Class 3 and Class 3 and their influence. Thanks to the teachers and parents of Class Three and Class Three, such as Hou, Xin and Chu Yifei's mother. They are all examples for me to learn. They have paid too much for this course. We are moved by the hard work and unremitting efforts of the teachers. If you have any difficulties, you need to write an electronic parent-child diary. Because of the limited educational level, they also gave us great help. We sincerely thank them. We are homeschooled.
In short, we should give full play to the enthusiasm of teachers, parents and children, make joint efforts, and truly cultivate children into talents that satisfy parents of schools and are useful to the motherland, so that families and schools can cooperate closely and achieve better results! Come on.