Why is the breakup rate of senior graduates so high? Zheng Jiao, a junior college graduate, is now an intern in Lingnan Youth Daily, but the newspaper has not signed a contract with her. But she chose to stay, hoping to develop in the newspaper. ? Although my major has nothing to do with it, it is my interest. ? She works as an American editor in a newspaper. Because she is not a professional, she often feels a little overwhelmed and can only learn while doing it.
Many graduates feel that there is still a big gap from the actual work after they really take up their jobs. ? Among the students I know, many people choose to charge in the library at the last stage. Those who find the right job should review the relevant theoretical basis, those who find the wrong job should supplement their knowledge base, and some students are preparing for interviews and job hunting. ? Xiao Ceng, a graduate, said.
expert opinion/advice
Graduation charging is not only manifested in supplementing knowledge, but also in the change of mentality. Near the last period of graduation, it will be more and more urgent and realistic for graduates to think and plan about employment, spouse selection and family. The accumulation of contradictions can easily lead to their psychological appearance? Traffic jam? Phenomenon. Feng, a teacher in the psychological counseling room of a university, said: Graduates should have enough confidence and believe that after four years of growth, they have enough ability to solve problems. At the same time, we should also take the initiative to communicate with people around us, talk to family members and ask friends for help. Isn't it also important? Terrible workplace? Being troubled by such illusory troubles, objectively analyze your working environment.
We were lovelorn together on graduation day?
A beautiful campus is a hotbed of love, but once the vows of eternal love meet the iron wall of reality, they often become vulnerable. According to statistics, the graduation breakup rate of college students reaches 80%.
Jun He Yi, the envy of his classmates, met his freshman year, held hands with his sophomore year, and walked all the way to his senior year. But as graduation approaches, they are faced with the choice of breaking up. They are not from Guangzhou and have their own families to take care of each other. Do you want to go together regardless of everything? They all have no bottom in their hearts. ? Now we can only take it one step at a time. We have an agreement: try to find a job in Guangzhou, but if there are better development opportunities in other places, we will still separate. After all, everyone is still young and should choose a career. ? There are not many days left, and I spend every day at school. They all cherish it. ? Even if we are separated, we will still remember that somewhere, there was once a person who warmed his heart in college for four years. ? They held each other's hands tighter.
expert opinion/advice
In fact, college couples facing graduation should not only consider whether they work in the same place, but also consider family factors. After leaving campus, love seems to be more than just two people's business. Do parents agree? Right? All these have caused the reasons for college students' couples to break up. Love on campus is pure, but it also means that it is more difficult to grow up after entering the society without a realistic foundation. Tan Xiao, who witnessed many breakups after graduation, was very emotional: In fact, this is always a kind of helplessness. People prefer to sit down and talk about problems. Of course the other party will understand. ? The director of the psychological counseling room of a university said that people with different personalities have different methods, and introverts should explain the situation euphemistically and never use excessive words; For those who tend to go to extremes, their tone is relaxed and they can do their work through classmates and friends. After breaking up, you will enter a new role with pain, and you will see a world behind you.
Gossip message board
I have to leave a few words after graduation. Is it gratitude for nostalgia? Is it to warn future generations? Or you can unload your baggage and let it go.
Liang Xiao: Hey, it's hard to get together after graduation. Some people may never meet again.
Zheng Xiao: It's only a short year in the university town, but it's very good here, especially the library. I think we had to borrow books from every campus in those days. There are many books in the library here, and it is air-conditioned. Don't turn off the lights at night. Everyone should cherish it.
Xiao Chen: I feel that the pace of graduating from college is getting closer and closer. In short, I can't tell you how many things are holding me back. I still miss many people, but I think my heart will stay here forever.
Xiao Yuan: During the interview, I realized the importance of mastering professional knowledge. Therefore, the most important thing is to set goals as soon as possible, be down-to-earth, focus on your major and expand your knowledge.
Concluding remarks
Every corner of the campus has stories and their figures. Graduates are about to leave, and their figures will not appear again, but the stories of the past will remain, waiting for future generations to repeat themselves. Tea won't get cold when people are gone.