Caring for Lingling like jasmine seems to be a cold, arrogant and mean girl. When I walked into the classroom for the first time, I felt a chill when I saw the cold figure in her eyes, which was extremely inconsistent with that age. I even have an exclusive mentality in my heart, but I think my responsibility is to teach and educate people, so I wait patiently for opportunities and look for educational opportunities. Through a period of observation, I found that Lingling was a clever boy, and her academic performance was satisfactory, but she was mean and indifferent to others, which led her classmates to alienate him. As a class teacher, I know that this vicious circle will have a great impact on her outlook on life and values, which will make her personality and mind unsound. From other teachers who are familiar with her family, I know that her personality has a lot to do with family education. Her mother works outside the home and lives with her father for a long time. Although her father loves her, it is far less than the delicate maternal love. Her father's limited knowledge leads to improper educational methods, and sometimes even fists and feet are added. For this reason, children gradually become indifferent and hate everything around them. "Rome was not built in a day." I know that hard work, how can I melt the ice in her heart? Hugo thought for a long time and suddenly realized, "Love is the sublimation of emotion, which shines on the earth like sunshine, giving all things the power to grow and making all things flourish." To this end, I decided to take "love" as an opportunity to enlighten her, satisfy her and change her. I had the first conversation with her, and she was unusually calm. Although it was just a casual chat, she only used a few words to deal with me, and the first conversation ended in failure. A few days later, when I changed my composition, I found that her article was fluent and delicate in language. Why not seize this opportunity? I wrote with a note: "son, you are really great!" From your article, we can see that you have quick thinking and beautiful writing. It is an honor for the teacher to read your composition, and the teacher appreciates you very much. " After writing it, I put it in the upcoming book. I have a hunch that she will have something to say to me this time. Napoleon said that the deepest need of human nature is to long for the appreciation of others, let alone children. As expected, the next day after class, she left a note on my desk, which read: "Thank you for your praise. You are the first teacher I have ever met who praised me. I am very touched. " After reading the note, I was secretly complacent for a long time. I know the ice in her heart is slowly melting, but it takes time. I can really walk into her heart because she has a conflict with her classmates. In those days, I found that she was always unhappy. I know something must have troubled her. "Son, the teacher found that you are in a bad mood these days. What difficulties did you encounter? Can you tell the teacher? Let the teacher also give you advice. " I wrote this note and stuffed it into her pencil box. "Teacher, I recently had trouble with a classmate, and they all ignored me. I feel very lonely. " She wrote back to me soon and said. Children need love, in addition to the love of teachers, it is more important to love between peers, otherwise, study and life will lose color and become dull. I quickly replied to her: "Son, the teacher can understand your feelings at this time. The taste of loneliness is really hard. It's hard for you. " It is inevitable to have occasional friction with classmates. Your mood can be adjusted after things happen. The key depends on what kind of mentality you use to face and solve. If you have a broad mind, you will not feel troubled, on the contrary, you will feel troubled. Son, the teacher said this in the hope that you can tolerate others. At the same time, the teacher also believes that you will do the same after reading this note. As long as you always have a tolerant heart, students will open their hearts and accept you. At that time, you will find that life is so colorful. Come on! The teacher will always support you! "While leaving a note for her, I quickly found several capable students in the class, and asked them to tell other students to accept her with an open mind and not to let her feel the warmth of the class and the friendship between classmates. One day I caught a cold, so serious that I couldn't talk in class, so I asked my classmates to do their homework. After class, Lingling found me and gave me a note, which read: "Teacher, in class today, I found that you caught a cold, which seems a little serious." Do you have any medicine? You should pay attention to your health. Teacher, you have worked hard! "After reading it, I couldn't help but burst into tears. I firmly believe that the hard ice in her heart has melted into a trickle, nourishing the hearts of herself, her classmates and her teachers. Finally, I can see a sunny girl active in every corner of the campus. Love notes are so amazing!