The first rule of college love is: take what is lacking. There is often a kind of person that girls don't take too seriously. It was the boy who found a girlfriend as soon as he entered college, and soon began a relationship. But in my buddy's eyes, it is really sour envy. The best way is not to get together in a hurry, but to have a certain popularity in schools, colleges and classes. The popularity here is more about word-of-mouth designation. Then at least everyone has a good impression on you. Rule 2: Be sure to be with people who are better than yourself. Excellence here means more than learning. In my opinion, I will be a man with high emotional intelligence, cheerful and sunny personality, my own hobbies and a bright future. With someone better than you, she will definitely teach you something more important than feelings. The third rule: improve yourself to the greatest extent. If you only have academic achievements, you are just a nerd in the eyes of others. If you have only talent and no achievements, then you may not be able to satisfy the second law unless your talent is outstanding enough to realize the second law. If you are talented and accomplished, but your emotional intelligence is not high ... You see, this proves that when you meet one or two points, there are actually three, four, five, six points and so on, so the fourth rule: never be satisfied with the status quo. Only if you are not satisfied with the status quo will you constantly ask yourself to move forward instead of standing still. Only in this way can you stand out from ordinary people. Rule 5: irreplaceable. In my opinion, irreplaceable synonyms are probably different. If your rarity is rare for most people, then such things are treasures. If in your own opinion, I am noble, today you love to ignore me, tomorrow I will make you unattainable. Then there is a good chance that you can actually be replaced.