The topic of love will no longer be regarded as a scourge by teachers and parents. At least, the school or teachers will tell you that we neither support nor oppose college students' love. Just like voting, I don't vote for or against it. I abstain. Agree, oppose and abstain, which is everyone's choice.
Love is a topic that students are generally concerned about. How to talk about college love? I am not a love expert, and I have no "rich" college love experience, and I have no way to do what Mr. Chen Yinque did: "I don't say what foreigners have said, what the ancients have said, and what people have said today, and I have said it myself." Let's talk about our feelings for the students to discuss and criticize.
First, falling in love in college is also a kind of learning. Love is a process in which two or more people contact with each other, communicate with each other and get to know each other. For example, you accidentally like several people or are liked by several people. In this process, we gradually learned to get along with the opposite sex except mom and dad. This process of getting along is usually much more difficult than getting along with ordinary classmates and roommates. The longer we spend together, the harder it is to get along with each other. We generally have to face many social relations. Love is one of the extensive social relations. The relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend in love is one of the seemingly simple but extremely complicated relationships. I think it is the most complicated of all social relations. Because, you will pay sincere feelings selflessly for love. Such a complicated relationship is difficult to deal with. Once mishandled and frustrated, it is usually very sad.
In the work of counselors, I have encountered several cases of jumping off a building because of lovelorn love and schizophrenia because of lovelorn love. I have experienced, faced, intervened and dealt with it personally. This is not an alarmist. At the same time, I also met more than a dozen pairs of students who entered the marriage hall because of college love, including my college classmates. Therefore, how to fall in love in college is a course worth learning, and of course it needs to be learned. If you are in love, you must cherish the opportunity to learn. Because this learning process is to prepare for your marriage. Just like when we graduate and look for a job. Usually we all have graduation internships. We will encounter many problems in the internship. The problems you encounter in college love today are the problems you will encounter in marriage tomorrow. It's done today, and it will be done tomorrow. If we can't handle it well today, we may not be able to do it tomorrow.
Second, find a suitable "dating" place. Huiling Lake, in front of Yifu Building, above the playground and at the foot of Xiushan are all good places for dating. Similarly, cinemas, Jiefang Road, Caishiji and Yushan Lake are also good places for dating. However, I want to say that the best place for dating is the library. Yes, it's the library. Dating in the library makes love more bookish. It is often said that you are full of poems and books. Have a good love, have a good love in the library, and let the learning process of love really become a process to promote the learning progress of both sides. Dating in the library is a dating book, dating study. Love should also be accompanied by study. Love, also can't forget to learn. Isn't it a pleasant thing to study and make progress together in the library? If he (she) doesn't want to date you in the library at all, then I don't think we need to continue talking.
Third, it is best not to show love casually. Teachers often feel that if they met a pair of students holding hands and falling in love on the road, the students would let go as soon as they saw the teacher. Now, walking on campus, students see the teacher and ignore him. Teachers often have to bend their heads and take detours. Because those students who are in love show love not far ahead-not holding hands, but cuddling and kissing. The teachers were embarrassed to face it directly, so they had to make a detour. Students will say, the teacher is too boring, what age, cuddling and kissing on the road, not even Xiu Xiu love? In fact, Xiu Ai En can definitely do it. However, there is no need to do this for fear that others will not see it. Teacher Wu Hui from the School of Humanities of Jiangxi University of Finance and Economics said in a letter to her daughter, "Feelings are not for fun, and love is not for show. True love is deep, not shallow, truly selfless, not greedy. "
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Fourth, college love is beautiful, serious and cautious. If students can find someone they like in college and enter a happy marriage hall, then I think teachers will bless you, too. As long as you are happy, the teachers will be happy for you. College love is beautiful and serious. If "love" comes, face it bravely and take it seriously. Both boys and girls should think clearly: "What can and can't be done, think clearly on the way to the date." Love should be very cautious. If you like him (her), you should be prepared to change your personality and habits. Some people say that marriage is not 1+ 1=2 or 3, but 0.5+0.5= 1. The same is true of college love.
Students, if you are serious about dating in college, I wish you all the best.