There are fifty or sixty students in key high schools every year. Although Mr. Zhang's son is in grade seven, he can pass several exams 100. But she made a mistake and often told people that her children were not as good as others' children.
How can I get into No.1 Middle School at this rate? She said with great concern A teacher Wang followed: Is No.1 Middle School the end of life? Teacher Chang next to him echoed: Yes! Is college the end of life? Teacher Zhang didn't speak, and several other teachers were temporarily silent and stopped talking.
I listened, and then I limited myself to thinking: as a parent, Teacher Zhang and all parents have the same idea! Parents only care about their children's grades and have been living in anxiety. Everything is just in their hearts because they have no action at all.
An online friend of mine, a few years ago, we often contacted. His surname is Shi, who was originally a teacher in the system, and later resigned to Beijing to specialize in high school discipline training. He has two sons, neither of whom embarked on the normal road to study, but the eldest son 18 years old got the bachelor's degree certificate of higher education self-study exam; At that time, his youngest son was six. He said he didn't want him to go to school, and he taught himself. I haven't contacted him for five or six years, and I don't know his recent situation, but his idea is right, but it is not accepted by most people.
Some people may say: Mr. Shi is an educated man, and it is feasible for him to do so. However, there have been such examples: a few years ago, there was a news report that a girl followed her parents who worked in the field. Girls are old enough to go to school, and because it doesn't matter, they can't find an acceptable school. In desperation, her parents had to let her study at home, and her parents took time out to teach her every day; A year later, a miracle appeared, and the girl actually studied for two years a year; The girl's parents are ordinary migrant workers! They have no profound culture.
Ten years ago, a student from Jiaxian County, Henan Province was admitted to the Chinese University of Hong Kong. She only attended high school for three years. Before high school, her mother taught at home. Why? Because my mother was laid off, had no job and had no money to go to kindergarten at home, my mother took on the task of teaching her to learn.
Some people may say that the example given is quite special. I want to say that the most important thing in education is personalization. Different people use different educational methods, but school education is not like this. Dozens of people use one method, ranging from 40 to 50, from 50 to 60, 60 to 70, or even 70 to 80. How many people can really understand? Teachers in the front line of education know very well how many students really do their homework every day. I'm afraid it's less than a third. Also, parents only say that children should do homework, but how much do parents know about the specific content of homework? On the contrary, parents say that homework should be checked by the teacher. Why do parents want to check? Teachers' salaries are paid by the state. Is it for nothing?
What is said here is that parents play a very important role in a person's growth, but most parents don't realize it! It seems that educating children has nothing to do with themselves, but schools and teachers; Also, don't just stare at the present, but take a long-term view. The narrowness of school education lies in the loud slogan-think about students' lives. In fact, I can't wait to squeeze them dry now and control them now. There are too many things that are not allowed to be done, only learning is allowed. You can also say that you can't do anything but study.
Aim at the finish line was written by one of my classmates, so I won't say anything about it. Just from the title, we can see the author's understanding of education, and the end point is the goal, not what people say, "don't lose at the starting line." Life is a "marathon", it is not important to start, the key is to choose what way to reach the finish line.