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Instrument refers to a person's appearance, which is the external expression of a person's mental outlook. A person's hygiene and cultivation habits. Clothing and image are closely related to maintaining a dignified and generous appearance.
1. personal hygiene: hygiene is the key to beautiful appearance and the basic requirement of etiquette. No matter how beautiful the dress is, no matter how luxurious the clothes are, if they are unkempt and smelly, they will inevitably destroy a person's external image. Therefore, everyone should develop good hygiene habits, such as sleeping, getting up, washing face and feet, brushing your teeth at breakfast and dinner, washing your hair and taking a bath frequently, and paying attention to personal hygiene such as gfd, changing clothes and washing your hands frequently. Don't clean your personal hygiene in front of people. For example, picking teeth, picking nostrils, digging ear wax, manicure, rubbing dirt and so on. These behaviors should be avoided by others, otherwise, it is not only unsightly, but also disrespectful to others. When talking with people, keep a certain distance, and it is best not to speak too loudly, which will splash on the population.
2. Dressing: Clothing reflects a person's cultural quality and aesthetic taste. Specifically, it is necessary to be natural, decent, harmonious and generous, and to abide by some established norms or principles. Clothing should not only adapt to its own specific conditions, but also always pay attention to people's dress requirements in objective environment and occasions, that is, dress should give priority to time, place and purpose, and work hard in all aspects of dress.
The content/manner of speech
As an art, speech is also an important part of personal etiquette.
1, courtesy: be sincere and kind; The sound size should be appropriate, and the tone should be peaceful and calm; Respect others.
2. Terminology: honorifics, words expressing respect and courtesy. Such as "please", "thank you" and "sorry" in daily use, and the word "you" in the second person's address. The first meeting was "long heard"; Long time no see; Please criticize it as "teaching"; Trouble others call it "disturbing"; Seeking convenience is "borrowing light"; The client acts as "please" and so on. Efforts should be made to form the habit of using honorifics. At present, the polite expressions advocated in our country are ten words: "hello", "please", "thank you", "sorry" and "goodbye". These ten words embody the basic language form of speaking civilization.
Etiquette and manners
1, Conversation posture: Conversation posture often reflects a person's character, cultivation and civilized quality. Therefore, when talking, the two sides should first look at each other and listen to each other. They should not look around, read books and newspapers, look tired and yawn, otherwise they will give people the impression of being absent-minded and arrogant.
2, standing posture: standing posture is the most basic posture of people, is a static beauty. When standing, the body should be perpendicular to the ground, the center of gravity should be placed on the palms of the two front feet, chest out, abdomen in, jaw in, head up and shoulders relaxed. Arms naturally droop or cross in front of the body, eyes straight and smiling. Don't bend your neck, waist and legs when standing. In some formal occasions, it is not advisable to put your hands in your trouser pockets or cross your chest, let alone make some small moves unconsciously. This will not only appear stiff, give people a feeling of lack of self-confidence, but also lose the dignity of etiquette.
3, sitting posture: sitting is also a static shape. A dignified and elegant sitting posture will give people an elegant, steady and natural aesthetic feeling. The correct sitting posture should be: straight back and relaxed shoulders. Women should put their knees together or tilt their knees together; Male knees can be separated, but not too big, generally not more than shoulder width. Put your hands naturally on your knees or on the armrests of your chair. On formal occasions, you should be gentle when you sit down, dignified and steady when you get up, and you can't rattle tables and chairs and create an embarrassing atmosphere. No matter what sitting posture, the upper body should be kept straight, as the ancients said, "sitting like a clock." If you insist on this, no matter how you change your posture, it will be beautiful and natural.
Celebrity stories of civilization
First, Ceng Zi avoided the seat.
"Ceng Zi is not in his seat" is a very famous story from the Book of Filial Piety. Ceng Zi is a disciple of Confucius. Once he sat next to Confucius, and Confucius asked him, "The king of the sages has supreme virtue, and he needs mysterious theories to teach people all over the world and make people live in harmony. There is no dissatisfaction between the monarch and the minister." Do you know what they are? " Hearing this, Ceng Zi understood that Confucius wanted to point out the deepest truth in his heart, so he immediately stood up from the mat where he was sitting, walked outside the mat and respectfully replied, "I'm not smart enough. How can I know?" Please ask the teacher to teach me these truths. "
Here, "avoiding the seat" is a very polite behavior. When Ceng Zi heard that the teacher was going to teach him, he stood up and went to the mat to ask the teacher for advice to show his respect for the teacher. Ceng Zi's polite stories are told by later generations, and many people learn from him.
Second, it snows at the city gate.
Shi Yang (1053~ 1 135) was a gifted scholar in the Northern Song Dynasty and a musician in Nanjianfu (now Fujian). After winning the Jinshi, he gave up being an official and continued his studies.
Cheng Hao (1032~ 1085) and Cheng Yi (1033 ~107) were famous scholars, philosophers and educators at that time. They are all founders of Neo-Confucianism in the Northern Song Dynasty. Their theory was inherited by Zhu in the Southern Song Dynasty and was called the School. Shi Yang admired Cheng Cheng's knowledge and went to the school in Hao Cheng to learn from his teacher. Four years later, Cheng Hao died, and he continued to learn from Cheng Yi. At this time, he is 40 years old, still respecting teachers and studying hard.
One day, it snowed heavily and it was freezing. When Shi Yang encountered a problem, he braved the cold wind to ask his classmate You Zuo (1053~ 1 123) to go to the teacher's house for advice. When he came to the teacher's house, he found the teacher asleep in the chair. He couldn't bear to disturb him, for fear of affecting the teacher's rest, so he stood quietly outside and waited. When the teacher woke up, the snow under their feet was one foot deep and covered with snow. The teacher invited Shi Yang and others into the room to give them a lecture. Later, "Chengmen Sydney" became a widely circulated model of respecting teachers.
Third, Kong Rong let pears.
Kong Rong has five brothers and one younger brother.
One day, I ate pears at home. A plate of pears was placed in front of everyone, and my brother asked my brother to take it first. Guess what pear Kong Rong is holding? He doesn't pick the good ones, he doesn't pick the big ones, he only takes the smallest ones. Dad was very happy after seeing it. Although the child is only four years old, he is really sensible. He deliberately asked Kong Rong, "There are so many pears, you should take them first. Why not take the big one and only the smallest one? " Kong Rong replied: "I am young and should bring the youngest;" The big one is for my brother. " Father asked him again, "You have a younger brother, isn't he younger than you?"? "
Kong Rong said, "I am older than my brother. I'm my brother. I should leave the old one to my brother. "
You see, how well Kong Rong speaks. His father smiled: "Good boy, good boy, really good boy."
Kong Rong is four years old and knows how to make pears. Make way for brothers, make way for brothers. Everyone speaks highly of him.
Fourth, the Prime Minister apologized.
During Hawke's tenure as Prime Minister of Australia, he had an argument with an old man about pension in a shopping mall. Hawke called the old man a "stupid old man" on impulse, so the old man took him to court. Hawke held a press conference and publicly apologized to the old man for his uncivilized language. He said, "I was sad that day, but that can't be the reason why I used that wording." If I really hurt him, I would like to apologize to this gentleman for it. Please forgive my rudeness. "
5. Lenin makes way
Once, Lenin went downstairs, and in the narrow corridor of the stairs, he met a female worker carrying a basin of water upstairs. As soon as the women workers see Lenin, they will make way for Lenin and prepare to go back by themselves. Lenin stopped her and said, "Don't do this. You're halfway done, and I'm empty-handed Please go first! " He said the word "please" loudly and kindly. Then he leaned against the wall and told the girl to go upstairs, and then he went downstairs. Lenin is undoubtedly a great man, but he is not rude because of his lofty position, which shows his great quality.
Six, "submit to humiliation" Lincoln
Once, American President Lincoln and his son Robert drove into the street and met an army crossing the street. Lincoln casually asked a passerby, "What is this?" Lincoln wanted to ask which state's regiment it was, but he didn't make it clear. The man thought he didn't know the army, so he replied rudely, "This is a federal army. You are such a fucking idiot. " When Lincoln was reprimanded by an ordinary passerby, he only said "thank you" without scowling.
Seven, the origin of the unjust verdict
Ke Liping, the conductor of Shanghai No.22 bus, once won a very special award-the "grievance award". One day, when a young man bought a ticket, he deliberately spat on a fifty-cent bill and threw it on the floor of the carriage. While other passengers accused the young man, they also quietly looked at Ke Liping. She bent down to pick up the paper money, wiped her phlegm with a napkin, and then politely handed the ticket to the young man. Ke Liping's behavior was praised by the passengers. The young man felt very ashamed and apologized to Ke Liping. Afterwards, colleagues reported the matter to the team, and the team leader specially awarded Ke Liping the "grievance award" to encourage the team's ticket sellers.
Eight, respect respect.
In the Northern and Southern Dynasties, there was a man named Lu Xiaohui, who was brilliant, knowledgeable and polite. He has a long history under several kings and can be said to be a man of great power. However, he never thinks highly of himself and visits his officials. Regardless of the size of officials, he treats them with courtesy and does not put on airs at all. If the guest leaves, he will stand up and personally escort him to the door.
An assistant saw this incomprehensible scene and said to him, "Lu Chang is a historian with a high status. He is polite to everyone, even to the people." It's beneath his dignity, and he gets nothing. Why bother Chang? " Lu Xiaohui smiled disapprovingly and said, "If you want to take it first, you must talk to it first. I want everyone to respect me, then I must respect everyone. "
Lu Xiaohui followed this principle all his life, so he was respected and supported by many people, and his achievements far exceeded others.
Nine, a model of civilized etiquette
Dr. Sun Yat-sen is a pioneer of bourgeois revolution in China and a model of civility and courtesy. He believes that bad habits such as spitting, growing nails and not brushing your teeth are all acts that violate civilization and manners and are not commensurate with the civilized tradition of our Chinese nation. He advocates the civilization of "sincerity and loyalty" and pays attention to "every move is subtle"
X. Respect teachers
On a rainy spring day, Zhang Leping, the author of the comic book Sanmao, held an umbrella in one hand and a cake in the other, and went to visit Lu Yinsheng, an elementary school teacher whom he had not seen for more than 50 years. Lu Yinsheng once gave Zhang Leping a topic to guide him to draw political cartoons, which was the beginning of Zhang Leping's study of cartoons. Although more than 50 years have passed, Zhang Leping still remembers it vividly. Teacher Lu in his 80s looked at Zhang Leping and asked, "Who are you? Who are you looking for? " Zhang Leping said, "My name is Zhang Ping, and now my name is Zhang Leping." Teacher Lu was very excited: "It's hard to miss me for decades!" Zhang Leping said, "You taught me to draw my first cartoon, and I have never forgotten you!"