First, the reasons for poaching

1, feudal remnants. Once a girl becomes someone's girlfriend. Personal and psychological loyalty to this person. I feel like my boyfriend's private property. Ideology is gradually blurred. Have a natural sense of rejection of other men.

2. Social evaluation. That girl doesn't want to be regarded as a ear. Having an affair with others after choosing a boyfriend will obviously be evaluated by the society as having low social value.

3. keep up with the joneses. Many girls think that they are attractive only if they have a boyfriend around them. They feel that no boyfriend will be looked down upon in society or at school. I feel very lost. So many slightly better-looking people have boyfriends around them.

4. Resources are scarce. Because of the non-diversified values of society, our evaluation of women tends to be consistent. There are not many women who meet this value. In other words, because of the single evaluation standard, there are almost no types of beautiful women in our eyes, and even less can be found around us. So when beautiful women appear around us, they are already taken.

Second, the specific strategy of poaching.

1, time limit. No matter what kind of reasons are used, such as organizing activities, such as going out for an outing, such as learning from Lei Feng together, try to increase the contact time with girls as much as possible. Only when we have been in contact with the target girls for a long time can we show our convention and our male-dominated strategy, and we can have a platform and opportunity to show our bubble learning. Only when the target girl has time to contact with you can she reduce the contact time with her boyfriend and have the opportunity to dilute the relationship between them.

2. Spiritual wandering. Constantly emphasize female consciousness. You should be yourself. This is the core skill to break girls' loyalty to their boyfriends. Because the feudal remnants in girls' hearts regard themselves as men's assets and become a part of men's lives. At this time, we should constantly enrich our spirit. "Well, you have a good relationship with your boyfriend. I envy you, but you are a good woman at heart. You should have your own space and friends. " "You have lost the sex in your life. Your boyfriend is not your whole life, but a part of it. You have to have your own life. " Women who have their own careers are the most beautiful. Constantly wandering in this spirit, she will gradually eliminate the subconscious consciousness of her boyfriend's private property and reduce the subconscious guilt of interacting with you.

3. Safety and justice. You two have a legitimate reason to let everyone be publicly supervised. In this way, girls will have an excuse to face the excuse of interacting with you, and will not be afraid of being degraded by social evaluation and have rebellious psychology. Even in the future, we should give them an absolutely closed, safe and worry-free space. You can't lower your social evaluation because of improper reasons in communication or being found out during TD. This is the only way. Girls can only associate with you happily if they have a sense of social security.

4. misunderstanding. The following is her boyfriend's misunderstanding of her. The best way is to induce her to cheat her boyfriend. Women are naturally good at lying. Because one lie needs another to make up for it, her boyfriend gradually doesn't believe her.

I remember in My Dwelling House, Guo Haizao was taking a bath and her boyfriend called. At this moment, Song Siming answered the phone and said that Guo Haizao was in the hotel and taking a bath. When Song Siming gave it to Guo Haizao, he said he didn't say anything. Guo Haizao, pick up and say you are at home. I didn't hear it just now. Song Siming succeeded in getting Guo Haizao to lie to her boyfriend. This became the first scar and misunderstanding wedge.

5 never confess. In other cases, if you confess, there is still a chance to make up for it. However, in this case, you must never confess. This is the law of nature. Because in this case, once you confess, it is equivalent to letting a girl choose between you and her boyfriend. Out of stability, out of society and out of her own efforts, she will never promise you. Women are not good at making choices and thinking. You gave her a difficult problem. Women will choose simple answers. If I contact you again in the future, I will feel guilty about my boyfriend and you will lose the opportunity forever.

6. Differential value. You and her boyfriend must be two different people. When her boyfriend matures, you will have sunshine. If her boyfriend has money for her, you have to have happiness for her. If her boyfriend gives her stability, you should give it to her. Because, if you and her boyfriend are the same person, why do people go further and further? Your uniqueness and mystery are the key to attracting her. It is wrong for you to compete with her boyfriend in his field of expertise. But we should have our own unique field for a girl to compare with you in which her boyfriend is not good at. Such different values provide us with opportunities.

7. Come in quickly. Make use of all possible reasons, two people alone, in an absolutely safe environment, no matter how strong the mechanism is, we will push it, because the window of opportunity only appears once for us. Once you start, you must TD. It's safe for us. Because, the mentality of being pushed back is not to blame your own strength but to blame your boyfriend. Therefore, many girls who push will generally leave soon and won't let you mention it again. If we don't have a boyfriend, we can confirm the relationship once, but if we have a boyfriend, we can't be sure that her heart belongs to you three times. Push is the key battle, but it is not the decisive battle.

8. Compliment your boyfriend. Usually you two don't talk about her boyfriend. After misunderstanding, she will talk to you. No matter what she says about her boyfriend, you can't speak ill of her boyfriend. Once you say it, she will turn to defend her boyfriend, thinking that you have ulterior motives and will infer that all the bad things are caused by you. What you need to do at this time is to listen, and then induce her to pour out her heart and describe her boyfriend as a good gentleman. For example, "He loves you." Don't talk too much, so that girls feel that you have no feelings for her. At this time, it will be very effective to take the opportunity to push again. At this time, when she is sad, the best way for us is to listen and take the opportunity of TD.

9. Open-minded. Since you choose to be a poacher, you have to face a more difficult love environment and have a stronger mentality. Never show your intentions before pushing, and never apologize after pushing, which will make her feel more guilty. Don't speak ill of your boyfriend, guide her to make her own judgment. Don't make any temptation if you are not in a safe space. We must be mentally prepared to fight a protracted war and have the patience not to seek fame and fortune.

10, lure the enemy in. Is to make her misunderstand her boyfriend. How can she misunderstand? Use a honey trap, or use a honey trap to deviate. Let the boyfriend's style have a problem or let the girls feel that the boyfriend's style has a problem. At this time, the girl's mentality is to feel the betrayal of her boyfriend and pay her precious things without getting the price. Then there will be a revenge mentality. At this time, I will choose you to get back at my ex-boyfriend, and the guilt of being with you will be gone. In fact, the core of poaching is to deal with women's guilt. And reducing women's guilt is men's betrayal. There is no need to explain too much about the honey trap. You can use the wingman to have an affair with your boyfriend directly and let her find out.

I remember a buddy joking with me, saying that there are two things that men can't tolerate most: besides being teased that J.J. is not big enough when taking a bath in the school bathroom, and seeing the favorite MM being pestered by a nasty guy, her shadow haunts your eyes and his shadow haunts her when you get home. ...

In the face of great sadness, what else can we do except squeeze out a sentence "good × beaten by a dog"? What should we do?

Young man, please ask yourself: Do you really like her when your mind is clearest (after an exciting party, after you just woke up or at other times …)?

Answer: Yes! (firmly and forcefully)

Ok, come on, summon up courage, let's get rid of a person who belongs to us around him!

Children will like candy because the cake does not appear; People are attached to the beauty of gold because they have no diamonds in their hands. ...

Does it sound bad to skip someone else's girlfriend? Don't! That is the pursuit of their own happiness!

In addition to fighting for our own happiness, it is very important that we are also saving that MM's happiness. Maybe that annoying fly has some bullshit advantages, you know, just before you appeared.

Young man, be confident! I believe that when you took part in the physical examination and passed the ENT, you must have written a word on the report card helplessly-"handsome"!

Nirenberg, winner of the 2008 Nobel Prize in Physiology or Medicine, said: A person who is good at capturing details can appreciate the true meaning of things.

You should always pay attention to the places where MM often goes-don't tell me about WC and bathroom. How can a real man like us linger in a place with a strong magnetic field of the opposite sex? Besides, your sudden appearance in that place will only make MM scream ... Frankly speaking, this kind of scream will never come from your handsome. ...

Ok, please pay attention: supermarkets, small restaurants, small shops, school libraries, electronic reading rooms ... green spaces near dormitories and corridors ... bustling canteens, lonely Woods ... It is easy to get close to MM if you understand her haunting habits.

Lu Xun said: there is no road in the world, and more people will become roads. Everyone didn't realize that Sean didn't know he was stepping on the foot of the old man in Huangshi until he got the art book.

In fact, you must have tried something like this: the only way you walk every day is also the only way that others walk every day. After a while, whenever you walk on that road, you will meet many people you feel familiar with; Although you have never spoken, you are no strangers to each other.

This is the truth of "sneaking into the night with the wind, moistening things silently". Yes, let that MM have an impression on you first, and then find a chance to talk to her. Don't say anything: Hi, you look like one of my classmates. -It's so fall in price. Such old-fashioned praise will only make MM frown at you.-No mood, impure motives! Poor you, you may have been knocked out by the beautiful lady before you showed your infinite charm. )

Teach you: A woman is a curious animal. You don't have to say too much to her. You just need to do something that makes her curious to attract her attention. And sometimes pretending to be cool and not seeing MM will make her interested in you. How to deal with it specifically, you know ~

Bacon said: indecision without ideal is a sad psychology.

When you get to know MM and say something, flies will definitely appear ... buzz, buzz. ...

Yes, that's him. This fly bit him for a while, but he didn't relax, and he was full of vigilance and preparedness for you.

Look at it, have a rest, have a rest. Dude, I'm going to tell you something about philosophy-

The tighter boys hold on to MM, the less confidence they have in their feelings. Boys, on the other hand, are too confident in their feelings, and they will think that MM is a kite in their hands, and the flying line is also in their hands-this will give us more opportunities to cut the thread.

A boy who is too sensitive to his own MM will make MM resent that he is not like a broad-minded man, and a boy who is too relaxed with his own MM will make MM feel that he does not regard himself as the most important treasure. Therefore, it is not so much that our resistance is difficult to do as that he is more nervous when he is around.

Giving them a little trouble at the right time will add to the whole process. Don't rush to make MM like you, you just need to make MM dislike the flies around you first-you know, every little gap between them is actually a step closer to success.

Pasteur said: When you successfully do something, don't wait to enjoy the honor, you should do what you need again.

After a while, you talked to MM a lot, but how can you get in touch if you don't meet? Hmm (expressing hesitation, etc.) ... It would be much more convenient if we had the size of10mm ... It may be difficult to communicate with friends around MM if we want to code. Come on, I'll teach you:

When chatting or "accidentally" meeting her, you suddenly seem to remember that you need to call someone else, but you "forgot to bring yours", so you borrow MM-call yourself, and the advanced caller ID function will make it easy for you to get the MM code.

Pay attention to two points:

1, your own must not be around or have been tuned to vibration.

Don't say anything, call your friends or inform your classmates. You must say that you are calling your family. This will not only make things more urgent, but also make MM feel that you are a good man who attaches great importance to family.

As for how to design it yourself, if I teach you this again, you will be as stupid as the fly you exploit!

Shelley said: If winter comes, can spring be far behind?

You know, we are fighting a protracted war ... If it goes well, winter will come. Note: This winter is the winter of dead flies and their MM!

That guy who doesn't have enough concentration, that anxious fly who doesn't know how to master it, will make MM angry if he is not careful-seize their emotional winter and let it slip away! Our spring is coming!

Start texting MM.

Get to know him and her better.

I began to understand where MM was satisfied with the dead flies and what she was not satisfied with.

Start learning and become more humorous.

Began to bring laughter and happiness to mm.

Start expressing your disdain for other girls.

Let MM think that she knows you because she is better than any other girl in your eyes?

Start doing what the dead fly has never done for her. ...

Maybe it's a little late for me to say this, but-

Basketball, football and badminton will always belong to you, right?

Jin Yong, Gu Long and Zhang Ailing, you must have read several books, right?

You've always wanted to play online games and movies KT, right?

Pay attention to beggars on the roadside when you walk-because you have love,

When you wear clothes, you are not very avant-garde but very personal-because you are very manly,

You may not have much money, but you can't be irresponsible.

You can have no achievements, but you can't have no ideals.

You may not be very tall, but you can't be fat.

You can have a bad memory, but you can't help but understand romance-most of the time, you forget what you want to do for her, but don't be so frank and say, "I forgot, I'm sorry …"-this is the most important step.

You can keep a straight face, as if everything is under control, and quickly remedy it secretly, and such a mistake will be her surprise.

If you can't do any of them.

Then you can't learn! ? Idiot! No wonder you don't have a girlfriend yet!

Balzac said: the person who can think is the person with infinite power.

Brothers, I gave you road signs, but I can't give you cars. I gave you a plate, but I couldn't give you delicious food. Maybe, I gave you a small bullet, but you need to fight bravely!

Come on! Nothing is absolute. There is nothing wrong with loving someone. As long as you are willing, there is no wife you can't marry, only the "sister-in-law" you don't chase. ...