Clothing is the most vivid self-introduction. Dress according to your age, physical condition and professional characteristics. The basic dress should be fit, decent, appropriate, innovative, personalized, clean and hygienic. College students are mainly neat and generous.

2, behavior etiquette

In life, beauty comes from all aspects. Elegant and generous behavior is the modeling of dynamic beauty and static beauty of human body, which comes from people themselves.

Standing posture: correct and healthy standing posture, the body center of gravity should be placed on the back of your feet; Knees together, abdomen and hips, waist and chest; Shoulders slightly flat back; Stump your neck, close your chin, and raise your head: naturally hang your arms at your sides, or put your lower abdomen in front of your hands.

Sitting posture: the correct sitting posture is straight and upright, and the distance from the desk and chair should be about one punch; Knees together, not legs apart; The feet are naturally vertical to the ground, and it is not allowed to straddle the front, or the legs stretch in tandem, or even reveal an inside picture. Put your hands together, palms down or clenched, and put them on one side of your body or above your knees.

Walking posture: when walking, look up, look straight ahead, and put your shoulders flat.

Step 3 communicate etiquette

People in China pay attention to "listening to what they say and observing what they do", and regard language and speech as the important content to examine their character.

In the process of conversation, eyes should be gentle, generous and kind, eyes should look up more, eyes should be fixed between the other person's eyes and nose to show their attention or interest in their speech, but also reflect their frankness.

Internal self-cultivation training

1, cultural literacy

College students should study etiquette knowledge hard, understand and master the basic requirements of society for people in etiquette, and arm their minds with etiquette theory. Most educated people understand science and culture. They are meticulous in thinking, thorough in analysis, handy in dealing with problems, quick in thinking, fluent in language, confident and steady, and attractive in social communication, which makes people feel that they have benefited a lot from knowledge and are happy and comfortable physically and mentally. On the contrary, people with low cultural literacy lack self-confidence, giving the impression that they are dull, dull or arrogant and shallow.

In real life, it is often not that some people deliberately do things that are not in line with etiquette from the beginning, but that they don't understand etiquette and can't correctly understand various things, occasions, activities and so on. Raising awareness is the starting point of strengthening etiquette cultivation.

2. Moral cultivation

Only virtue can be polite, and no virtue can be rude. Morality is the foundation of etiquette. In real life, people who are hypocritical, selfish, haggle over every ounce, self-centered, jealous, demanding and complacent cannot be sincere and polite to others. Therefore, only by striving to improve moral cultivation can people's etiquette level be correspondingly high.

3. always reflect on yourself.

Introspection means that a person should always reflect on himself at ordinary times, which is determined by the characteristics of etiquette cultivation. As we all know, etiquette cultivation is a process of self-knowledge, self-dissection, self-education, self-transformation and self-improvement. In this process, the influence of necessary external conditions is indispensable. Introspection is a regular and conscious self-examination and an important way to improve the ability to judge right and wrong. "I rescue three times a day" is a Confucian cultivation rule, which is also applicable to contemporary college students.

4. Pay attention to practice

People's understanding comes from practice, and whether it is correct or not can only be tested through practice. Therefore, college students should practice etiquette, cultivate their beautiful hearts with etiquette, influence others with their own etiquette behaviors, shorten the distance between people with etiquette, and win others' respect for themselves.

Advantages of college students' common sense of social etiquette

1 helps to improve college students' interpersonal skills.

Generally, college students live a collective life far away from their parents in their hometown and are equal with other students. Therefore, it is necessary for them to adapt to the new living environment through interpersonal activities and gain friendship in the process of communication. In fact, whether they can establish good interpersonal relationships with others during their college years has a very important influence on a person's growth and study.

Social etiquette is a special language. If college students learn and master the basic knowledge and norms of social etiquette, they can successfully open the door to various communication activities and establish harmonious interpersonal relationships.

2. This is helpful to the moral education of college students.

By studying etiquette classes, college students can better understand society, better understand the laws of social existence and get in touch with people. Better understand what choices a real person should make. People's quality is the result of constant self-selection.

3, can better adapt to society.

In today's society, people's communication scope has gradually expanded from interpersonal communication to large-scale public communication, from face-to-face close communication to long-distance communication without meeting, from slow-paced low-frequency communication to fast-paced high-frequency communication. This change in interpersonal communication in modern information society puts forward higher requirements for the content and way of human social etiquette.

Modern social etiquette of college students II. The improvement of modern social civilization naturally promotes the improvement of people's quality, and high-quality people pay more attention to etiquette culture. Learning modern social meaning of etiquette in today's society is far-reaching. Let's take a look at the importance of college students learning modern social etiquette.

Learning etiquette is to meet the needs of opening up.

The national policy of opening to the outside world has broken the long-term closed environment and made people deeply realize that sitting in a well and watching the sky is a frog in the well, and it is difficult to adapt to the situation. Only jumping out of the well, going abroad and going to the world is the consciousness that modern people should have. If you want to get out of the narrow and closed environment, you should not only have some necessary professional skills, but also know the rules and norms of how to get along with people. These norms are social etiquette. The study of etiquette can help you go to the society and the world smoothly, better establish your own image, and leave a good impression of being polite and gentle.

Learning etiquette is the need to adapt to the development of market economy.

The development of market economy has brought about extensive division of labor and commodity circulation, promoted interdependence and cooperation between people, organizations and regions, and brought about fierce market competition. The situation that "the emperor's daughter is not worried about getting married" and "the wine is not afraid of the deep alley" is gone forever. For an enterprise or service industry, it is more necessary to actively adapt to this change from "seller's market" to "buyer's market", and this change always needs specific people to implement and operate. If these practitioners don't understand modern social etiquette, it will be difficult for them to gain a foothold in the market. For example, it is impolite and even misunderstood for suppliers to go in directly without knocking at the door in advance when selling products. In the atmosphere of market economy, people should learn more social etiquette not only for themselves, but also for their organizations, so as to help them go to the market smoothly and gain a firm foothold in the market.

Learning etiquette is to meet the needs of modern information society.

The rapid development of communication technology and means in modern information society is changing people's traditional communication concepts and behaviors. In particular, people's communication scope has gradually expanded from interpersonal communication to large-scale public communication, from face-to-face close communication to long-distance communication without meeting, from slow-paced low-frequency communication to fast-paced high-frequency communication. This change in interpersonal communication in modern information society puts forward higher requirements for the content and way of human social etiquette. How to realize polite communication under this communication condition and create the realm of "harmony between people" is another meaning of learning etiquette.

Learning etiquette is the need to be a modern civilized person.

We live in a big socialist family, and everyone is a member of it. China advocates that every citizen should strive to be a "four haves" new person, that is, a person with morality, education, discipline and knowledge. To be a "four haves" newcomer, then learning the necessary etiquette knowledge is also one of them. We often pay attention to a passing gentleman or lady, because their elegant temperament or chic behavior deeply attracts us. So how to make a good impression when interacting with others? At the very least, learning more social etiquette can avoid your timidity and shyness in the communication field, point out the maze in the communication field, add more confidence and courage to you, and make you polite, polite and popular as a modern person.

Functions of Modern Social Etiquette

As the norms and principles of human behavior, social etiquette must have its inherent functions. Social etiquette has four functions: the first is to shape the image; The second is to communicate information; The third is to contact feelings; The fourth is to enhance friendship.

Create an image

Shaping image is the primary function of modern social etiquette, including shaping personal image and organizational image.

Humans live in the world, and it is impossible to have nothing to do with the world, but there are all kinds of interpersonal relationships that are closely related. Interpersonal relationship is actually a kind of social relationship, which has two aspects: first, everyone lives in a certain country and belongs to a certain nation and class, so everyone is in a macro relationship; Second, everyone has their own interpersonal relationships, such as relatives, friends and colleagues, superiors and subordinates, so everyone is in a micro-relationship, and everyone gets along with others in social life with their own specific identity and role. Sometimes people treat people as individuals. At this time, it is purely a personal image, and sometimes people get along with people on behalf of the organization in the form of individuals. At this time, it is the organizational image. Therefore, people always appear in two images in modern social communication, one is personal image and the other is organizational image. As far as its function is concerned, social etiquette not only helps to establish a good personal image, but also helps to establish an excellent organizational image.

Personal image building

In most people's social life, people always appear in life as individuals. Humans often represent their own meaning, such as living in a family and living among friends. People always live in their best image, but sometimes there are many obstacles when people get along with each other, such as so-and-so being informal, so-and-so being rude and having a bad attitude. So how can human beings make their existence more meaningful and be a popular and liked person? Standards and conditions are diverse. Some people like smart manners, some people like elegant temperament, some people like straightforward personality, some people like being orderly and so on. In a word, everyone has his own taste, but in any case, social etiquette can always help you shape a pleasant personal image. What's more, in today's society, under the premise that people generally attach importance to temperament, people also generally attach importance to many standards of the number of people. These standards are the norms of social etiquette, so what kind of personal image is popular?

Generally speaking, a person with noble taste, elegant temperament and elegant manners is always welcome.

High taste means that a person's temperament and taste are far from vulgar. If you want to cultivate your noble taste, you must know etiquette, and those who don't know etiquette can't be noble people. The so-called courtesy, and then the gentleman also. For example, only when one knows how to respect others can one be kind to others in life and think of others everywhere. In action, we can produce beneficial and unpaid behaviors. If a person thinks about himself all the time and has no one else in his heart, he will inevitably haggle over every ounce of money in his life, even at the expense of the public and selfish interests, and even become arrogant and evil. This kind of person is naturally a narrow-minded villain.

A person with noble taste must be an open-minded and selfless gentleman. He not only understands the cultivation of external etiquette, but also pays more attention to the tempering of internal quality.

Etiquette is a pearl in the treasure house of traditional virtues in China and the essence of ancient culture in China. Being in the state of etiquette should be the people of etiquette. Knowing books and being polite to people should be the basic qualities of contemporary college students. However, there are still many impolite, impolite and uncivilized behaviors in the university campus, and there are many phenomena that are extremely disharmonious with college students' etiquette cultivation and spiritual civilization construction. It can be seen that the social etiquette education of college students has special significance across the times and centuries. Because social etiquette education is not only the need of quality education, but also the strong requirement of social civilization and progress.