1, don't shut yourself off.
At the beginning of college, I was lonely. At first, I always felt that I came from a small place and felt inferior, so I closed myself in my own land in Xiaotian. A person to study, a person to eat, a person to do all kinds of things.
But then I found out that I was not alone because others didn't want to contact me, but I closed myself from beginning to end. I seem to be covered in thorns, and I don't want others to come near me. So, later, I let go of my troubles, smiled and greeted others more, and everything became better and my loneliness was swept away.
2. Communicate with classmates more.
Many times, we choose not to talk to "protect" ourselves. In fact, this is exactly the wall I built, and I separated myself from others.
Later, I gradually communicated with my classmates and found that everyone was so friendly and not as terrible as I thought. With communication and communication, friends will naturally be found. In this way, loneliness disappeared.
3. Good relationships are all "troubles"
Many times, many of us have a misunderstanding in interpersonal relationships: we are afraid of bothering others. This is actually a very wrong concept. Fear of disturbing others is actually a kind of self-isolation, doomed to loneliness.
A good relationship is established in the process of disturbing others. It is you who bother others that will bother you, so that there will be a benign interpersonal relationship. You are always afraid to disturb others, and others will think that you are an omnipotent person. This idea of "being afraid of bothering others" is also a wrong view, which hinders your relationship with others.
Open your heart, go out, communicate with people more, and build a harmonious interpersonal network in mutual troubles. In this way, loneliness will say goodbye to you. Believe in yourself, you will do it.