After setting an ideal, all you have to do is make up your mind and stick to it. Ordinary people will say, shouldn't we talk about how to design and implement the scheme? But not with me. Listen to my explanation of determination, and you will understand.
The so-called determination must be a whole process, from desire, to scheme design, to implementation, to improvement, to implementation, and continuous progress. The so-called ambition of ordinary people, such as I want to be a scientist, is just a wish. Often you ask him how you want to achieve it next, what price you need to pay, and what desire you want to give up, and he doesn't say a word. To tell the truth, this oath is nothing more than greed and hypocrisy in my opinion. Greed is wanting, not giving and inaction. Hypocrisy means that they blame others, let others see his ideals, and praise him to gain fame and fortune. Even if it's just to maintain a face.
So you need to make up your mind and think, like a cat catching a mouse, look at him, think about him, and point your tail at him (in a straight line with its prey). So, you are a little slack in execution. You only need to be responsible for this ambition, your heart is greedy. If you are responsible for this ambition, your greed will be destroyed. If you hesitate, you will hesitate. Neglect is neglect. ......
Charge: determination is actually to constantly sharpen yourself in the process of implementation and set out towards the goal. As for methodology, I can provide you with some. But if people with conscience tell me something, they already know how to do it and how to learn how to achieve their goals. As follows:
1. Why do you want to set this goal? Is it in line with your life goals and value orientation?
Second, how to break this goal down into small phased goals, such as one day, one week, one quarter and one year. Generally speaking, you know what you have to do every day. You don't have to be particularly careful, but you need to know where you are going.
Third, revise the goal, adjust the plan and accumulate your own implementation experience.
Fourth, study related books, biographies of celebrities, reference books, film and television materials, etc.
Tip: I suggest you set several directions first: 1, career (occupation) and ability (doing things); 2. Psychological aspects (relationship with oneself) and life aspects (marriage, family, children, etc. ); 3. Physiology, physical health, and efforts to nourish qi. The core is your values and psychology. As for the others, they are indispensable. Just like a car, you can run fast with low fuel consumption, but the psychology that determines why you go reflects your value.
I don't think it's wrong for someone to advise you not to aim too high. But this is only for ordinary people, and only for some aspects, there is no mistake. If you really care about your inner self, after you practice for a period of time, you will find that this is the only way for you to aim high. This ambition is just like that of the Buddha.
I recommend you to read Wang Yangming's Biography. At present, I am studying "Xin Xue". When the conscience is bright, the outline is grand and wisdom is born from it. When I say wisdom, I don't mean the intelligence of the brain. It's different. This is the foundation of the foundation. Generally speaking, if you pay attention to the inside, keep exploring and have the opportunity, you should be able to understand what I said at the age of 25-28. Because you have had some experience in society and the taste of people's hearts, then you need to choose human nature (if you follow it, you will become an adult) or a fairy (if you go against it, you will become an immortal). Human nature, even if you are bad, I will become bad, otherwise I will be bullied and fall into the painful path of reincarnation. Human nature is better; Sendo, even if you are bad, I can be selfless and inclusive. This is a road of self-improvement, but it is not easy to find and realize. But if you enter it, you will feel comfortable and happy as a person.