Nominally, they jumped out of the farm gate and no longer need to be farmers, but in fact, it is difficult for them to jump out of the farm gate completely, and the countryside is still their stumbling block. At the same time, it is difficult for them to integrate into the city, because the housing prices in the city will make them feel at a loss, like an outsider.
It is difficult for rural children who have gone to college to go back to the countryside in this life. They will be laughed at for reading for nothing when they go back. However, it is also difficult to integrate into the city. It is not so easy to take root in the city. House prices alone are enough to deter many people. Therefore, many people will think that the city can't keep the body and the country can't keep the soul.
For many children from rural families, having the identity of a college student not only broadens their horizons, but also binds them more and brings them great pressure. The more you know, the wider your horizons will be. In fact, people's anxiety will be more serious. There is a saying that if I have never seen the sun, I can stand the darkness.
This is the case with rural college students. They see the wider world, but they can only see it, but they can't walk in. In order to make more money, they will accept the 996 exam paper, work hard in the workplace and work overtime. They also see the importance of the starting point. Some people's starting point is the end point of many people's life struggle, so they will be very anxious and try their best to "chicken baby" and worry that their children will lose to others.
However, no matter how hard they try, college students from these rural families are always one step behind others, because others are the accumulation of generations, and they are the first generation to enter the city, so they have to work hard on their own, and no one can help them. They can't afford to lose because there is no cost of trial and error. Once they make a mistake, they will collapse.
Therefore, young people in society, if they come from rural families, will find it difficult to get along successfully even if they go to college. Their maturity time is much later than that of urban children. The university only gave them an identity, but did not provide them with the mentality and confidence of being rich at home.
For many rural college students, the city is their yearning, but not all of them can integrate into the city and take root in the city, so some people will eventually return to the countryside because they can't afford to buy a house in the city, and the city can only leave their youth and sweat, but not their bodies and dreams.