There are several people in a dormitory, and everyone's schedule may be different. Some people like to go to bed early and get up early, while others like to stay up late.

In this way, there is a problem. Going to bed late will affect going to bed early, and getting up early will affect getting up late. It's really crazy to brush your face and wash your face. Over time, it will inevitably lead to dissatisfaction between both sides.

It may be difficult to unify the schedule, but you can try not to affect others. Those who sleep late can wash in advance, and don't wait for their roommates to sleep.

Get up early lightly. Clothes and toiletries can be prepared the night before to reduce noise.

Also, it's best not to play the sound outside, which really affects others.

In short, don't influence others for your own convenience. It is also convenient for yourself to think more about others.

Finish the chores that should be done

Dormitory is everyone's living environment, and everyone has the obligation to maintain it. Every dormitory has sanitary arrangements, such as daily or weekly rotation.

When it is your turn, you should be serious and responsible. Don't mop when it's time to mop the floor, and don't dump when it's time to take out the garbage. When the supervisor reminded you, you still confidently said, "XXX didn't do it last week."

Such behavior affects the living order of the whole dormitory. Maybe the roommate will not be dissatisfied on the surface, but he will be disgusted with you in his heart.

What is reflected behind this is a person's selfishness, laziness and untidiness, and no one wants to make friends with such a person.

Don't take sides.

In collective life, the most disgusting thing is ganging up.

Who do you have a problem with today? You belittle her in front of others and drag others to isolate her.

This is a very immature performance. The contradiction between you and the other party is a problem between you. Never rise to the whole group.

Even if you can win people's hearts in a short time, you are narrow-minded and untrustworthy in the hearts of others. Who knows if this will happen next time you have a conflict with others?

Another thing is that you get close to some people in the dormitory and alienate others.

You only deliver food to these people, and you often whisper to her, which will make others feel embarrassed and alienated.

You can get along well with some people, but you should consider the collective feelings in public.

Learn to share

Sharing is the best way to build a relationship with roommates.

This kind of sharing includes material sharing and learning sharing.

The most common material sharing is snacks and hometown specialties.

It's almost two years since graduation. Looking back on dormitory life now, the most harmonious thing is when we share food with each other.

Every time someone starts sharing food, it can make us stop what we are doing and talk.

Food is a topic that everyone can talk about.

The most common way to share learning is to help each other during the final review.

In a dormitory, there must be good students and poor students. Don't think too highly of those who study well and look down on those who study poorly.

When they don't understand, you are willing to teach generously, which is really popular.

I used to have a senior in my dormitory. She not only studies well, but also is willing to teach us methods, so she is very popular.

Every sharing will make roommates feel very comfortable and warm, thus forgetting some small frictions before.

Take an active part in group activities.

Many people say that they can't fit in with their roommates. If you look closely, you will find that these people like to be alone and never take part in group activities.

You should never think that group activities are a waste of money and boring. In fact, group activities are the best way to integrate with roommates.

Go back to the dormitory to play with your mobile phone after class every day, and naturally there will be less communication.

And group activities just break this pattern and let you go out and communicate in different ways.

Maybe in group activities, you will find different aspects of your roommates and get to know each other better.

Group activities include birthday parties, sleep parties, shopping and so on. These activities seem boring, but they are the first step into each other's hearts.

If you really don't want to take part in these activities, don't refuse to spoil everyone's fun. Learning to politely refuse is also a kind of wisdom.

help each other

Living under the same roof, there will always be times when you need help.

Never be afraid to trouble your roommate. If you are afraid to ask others for help, it means that you don't want to help others either.

The relationship between people is established in mutual suffering.

If you are sick, you can ask your roommate to accompany you to the infirmary.

If you are late, you can ask your roommate to sign in for you.

If you are unhappy, you can talk to your roommate.

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By analogy, the next time a roommate needs help, she will be willing to come to you. Deepen your's friendship by helping each other.

Remember, no one in this world is an island. Don't always wrap yourself up so tightly. Only by opening yourself can you gain good friends.

Respect your roommate's privacy.

Everyone has their own privacy, don't pry for curiosity.

For example, if your roommate is sensitive to a certain topic, you should not deliberately poke her sore spot, let alone expose her scar in front of everyone. This will not only embarrass her, but also leave a bad impression on others.

If you accidentally know your roommate's secret, keep your mouth shut and don't make it public.

And roommates live together, and it is inevitable that they will borrow things.

If you want to borrow it, be sure to say hello to each other. Don't think that familiarity can be casual. This is a sign of respect for others.

Don't rummage through your roommate's desk and wardrobe. Respect the privacy of others and respect yourself.

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In fact, it is not just a roommate relationship, all interpersonal relationships are connected by * * *.

Respect is the premise, and respect includes respecting others' lifestyles and principles of doing things.

On the basis of mutual respect, think more about each other. When encountering friction, don't think the worst of others, be more understanding and tolerant.

In addition, don't speak too fast, learn to praise and affirm others.

Also, everyone has their own way of life. Don't use your own values to guide others' lives.

In fact, the three or four years of college are fleeting. The fate between you and your roommate is those three or four years.

After graduation, everyone went their separate ways, and few of them overlapped.

Even some people will never see each other again after graduation.

When you step into the society, you will meet all kinds of people, good and bad.

Some people are more difficult than your roommate 100 times, and some relationships are dozens of times more complicated than roommate relationships.