First, expectations are too high, so you will be disappointed. What do we often hear from teachers in high school? When you go to college, you will be completely liberated? Every high school teacher will tell his students such things, so in many students' psychological university is our paradise on earth. We thought we could get a diploma without going to college, and we could fall in love aboveboard in college. So before we enter the university, we are all full of yearning for university life, but after we really enter the university, we will feel very disappointed, because our previous expectations are too high, so no matter what kind of school we see, we will feel a little disappointed. Because our university should have classes on time, and I don't have much time to play for us, so many people think it's different from what we said before.
Second, it is not suitable for group life. From elementary school to high school, most of our students spend their time in their hometown, so we can go home every day and tell our parents what happened at school. If we have problems with some classmates, we also have a home as our safe haven, which makes us feel very comfortable. Many people start to live in groups after they go to college, and it is difficult to adapt to such a life. There are also some college students who leave home for the first time and are completely out of tune with their parents' care. They are often homesick, so they are often depressed and disappointed with college life.
We won't be disappointed in them when we don't expect anything. The reason why these college students are disappointed with their college life is because the goals set before are too high and it is difficult to complete after they go to college, so they feel that such college life is not what they want.