True love should talk like this! !
Who says reason and sensibility can't exist? Try the following suggestions. Rational mind can also lead perceptual actions to create sweet love ~
1. Ask for help.
A rational brain tells you to be independent and rely on yourself, but in love, you can properly unload your strong appearance and actively seek help from your partner.
Let TA know that you need TA. Although you can solve it yourself without TA's help, it will be better with TA's help. Feelings can be relied on, and there is nothing wrong with being weak occasionally ~
Say more sweet words.
Words such as "love you", "miss you" and "sweet words in love are essential and very good" will appear repeatedly, and even a rational brain will feel happy when tasting sweets.
Enlarge the affection between two people through sweet words, and add icing on the cake to love.
Act like a spoiled child.
Spooling is undoubtedly an essential skill in feelings, and the sweet and greasy tone will inevitably make people soft and addicted. Proper coquetry in love will not appear artificial, and it will be cute to show some childishness occasionally, which can make the rational love that has been calm for a long time pop up pink bubbles ~
You can also pretend to be jealous and let the other person coax you into adding some fun to the dull feelings ~
4. Have closer contact
Intimacy is transmitted through body language, which is more powerful than simple language.
Tidy up TA's messy hair, inadvertently kiss TA's cheek, hold TA's hand when crossing the road, and give TA a big hug every time we meet. ......
Look for more opportunities for intimate contact in daily life, and the collision of hormones will dilute the indifference brought by reason ~
Take more pictures
Every sweet moment is worth remembering, and the memories of any two people completing one thing together are worth cherishing. Freeze this beautiful picture with photos, and when you browse again, it seems that you have returned to that exciting scene, which is twice as sweet ~
Intimacy when taking pictures will leave a deep impression on the rational brain ~
6. Cultivate the same hobbies.
Rational love often requires everyone to pay more attention to their own lives, have their own hobbies, and don't pay too much attention to and interfere with each other's lives.
But feelings need to be managed. If two people cultivate the same hobbies, they can have more and closer intersections in each other's lives. Love and the same topic are sweet without sugar ~
7. Don't hesitate to praise yourself.
As a rational person, you can calmly and objectively analyze each other's advantages and disadvantages, which can just praise the advantages of TA and enlarge its attraction.
Praise will enhance goodwill, and your praise for TA will be called the motivation for TA to be good to you, which will make the feelings of two people go further ~
Prepare a little surprise
The small surprise here can be a sense of ceremony on a special day, a small surprise gift, a candlelight dinner on a working day, a long-planned encounter, a farewell trip, or a different sense of contrast in any peacetime.
Life is plain, but romance never dies.