The first kind of people: people who laugh at your efforts.
In college, there is a kind of person who doesn't work hard. The key is to laugh at those who work harder than him.
For example, when you go out for self-study with your schoolbag on your back and play games, they still remember to say, "Oh, I went to the library again. Anyway, it's all about playing mobile phones. The places to play are different, so they are going to the library. "
When you return to the dormitory after self-study, they will also say, "Ah, our seniors are back, and the final exam depends on you."
If you don't do well in the final exam, they will also say, "Look at you studying by yourself every day. Have you learned it or not? "
In short, these people can always find reasons to ridicule you. Their efforts seem to be an abnormal thing and a "shameful" thing in their eyes.
Therefore, in college, you must stay away from such people, or you can completely ignore their existence and don't take their ridicule to heart, because it's not worth it.
The second kind of people: people who are bursting with negative energy
There are many such people in the university. I still remember when I was reviewing for the postgraduate entrance examination. At the beginning, a little friend reviewed the postgraduate entrance examination with me.
However, it didn't take long for us to review each other, because I really couldn't stand her bursting thoughts of "negative energy".
Walking along the road with her every day and sitting in the canteen to eat, she would say, "Hey, I feel like I can't finish reviewing. It's too difficult. I don't think I can pass the exam. "
If, in this case, it is understandable to say once, it is also a sense of urgency to learn from yourself. However, if you talk in your ear every day, you can only say that this person's negative energy is really bursting.
In fact, there are many people like this classmate in college. No matter what they face, they will feel "I can't do it" and "I can't handle it". Most importantly, they will also feel that "neither you nor anyone" is a bit too much.
Therefore, you must stay away from such negative energy people, because if you get along with them for a long time, you will be easily infected and become an extremely unconfident person.
The third kind of people: people who are not self-motivated.
The third kind of person actually includes the first kind of person, because people who don't work hard generally can't see people who work harder than him or her, and ridicule becomes a matter of course.
They may skip classes and spend the good time they should have studied hard on sleeping, playing games and clubbing.
In short, they can do anything except study.
Therefore, in order to live a complete college life, you must stay away from such people, because you may not be able to afford it. Maybe, they haven't graduated yet, and their families have arranged jobs for them. Maybe, after graduation, they will inherit millions of property when they go home.
They go to college just to experience life. What about you?
The fourth kind of people: people who speak ill of others.
It is human nature to speak ill of others and like gossip. After all, curiosity is everyone's.
Therefore, it is understandable and harmless to gossip occasionally, but if you always gossip about others and speak ill of others behind their backs, the problem will be big.
It's said that girls get closer by gossiping about others. I'm not a girl, and I don't understand. This is exactly what I heard. If I accidentally hurt my female compatriots, I want to apologize to you here. This is really not my intention.
Therefore, in college, you must stay away from such people who speak ill of others behind their backs, because if they speak ill of others in front of you, they may also speak ill of you in front of others.
Even if you have to get along with this kind of person, don't tell others everything, because it may not be long before your privacy will become a talk for him to close the distance with others.
These are the four kinds of people we should stay away from in college.
If you really stay away from these four kinds of people, will the university have no friends and be lonely?
In fact, don't worry at all!
First of all, these four kinds of people often combine the above "characteristics". For example, people who love gossip are mostly people with negative energy; People who love to laugh at others' efforts are also people who are not motivated.
Secondly, there will be more excellent people in universities. If you also try to be a better person, you can certainly make the same excellent friends.
Finally, I have said many times in other articles that "low quality gregarious is better than high quality solitude", which is true. It is better to work hard and achieve a better self than to get along with others for the sake of getting along with others!
Because only cattle and sheep will flock together, and wild animals like to be alone!