However, this incident of losing contact has undergone a dramatic reversal, and the reason is even more jaw-dropping.
It is said that Luo Wanlu was arrested on suspicion of theft on the afternoon of his arrival in Hong Kong (July 29th) and appeared in court on the afternoon of July 3rd1.
According to the news from the Hong Kong Eastern Network, Luo Wanlu, an undergraduate student of Shenzhen University's 20 13 School of Information Engineering, stole cosmetics and drugs worth about 2,400 Hong Kong dollars (about 2,000 yuan) in three stores, and was arrested after being discovered by the store staff.
Prior to this, Luo Wanlu had been missing since she left Shenzhen last Saturday (July 29th) afternoon 1: 23, so in recent days, her relatives, friends and classmates have been using all social forces to search for her whereabouts.
Now, people have found it, but what everyone faces is such an embarrassing and humiliating result.
Luo Wanlu, a native of southwest Guizhou, is the only daughter in the family. She graduated from School of Information Engineering, Shenzhen University at grade 20 13, and will enter Shenzhen University for postgraduate study in September this year. How did such a charming girl with high IQ suddenly become a thief?
According to his father, Luo Wanlu went to Hong Kong to buy some cosmetics for her mother and hometown before the holiday every semester when she was an undergraduate at Shenzhen University.
It can be seen that Luo Wanlu is still a filial and caring child on the surface. But where did she get the money to buy cosmetics?
If it is his own scholarship, or if he earned it hard, his heart is commendable; If you want it from your parents, there is nothing wrong with it; It would be a shame if it was really stolen. This behavior, to put it mildly, is vanity; To put it bluntly, it is dereliction of duty.
Objectively speaking, there are not a few children with high IQ, low EQ, high education and low morality like Luo Wanlu.
I think there are many reasons for this phenomenon, such as the lack of self-cultivation, the lack of family education and the lack of school education.
The lack of family education is of course related to parents' doting; As for the lack of school education, for a long time, schools, like some parents, only know one-sided pursuit of grades and enrollment rate, and relaxed ideological and moral education for students.
Excellent grades, selfish personality, lack of personality, how much promise can such children enter the society? I think a person with bad moral character, even if he is talented, will not go too far and fly too high.
As Professor Yuan Jinmei of Clayton University in the United States said to the expelled graduate students, a scholar must first learn to be a man; A scholar must have character and spiritual connotation. Indeed, morality should be the guiding light for learning and being a man. Without morality, no amount of knowledge can win success and applause.
Therefore, first learn to be a man and then learn, first learn to cultivate one's morality and then cultivate one's morality.
Russian writer Chekhov said that people should be intellectually enlightened, morally naive and physically clean. Admittedly, as a person, talent is important, but morality and reputation are more important.
Especially for girls, morality and reputation are the best dowry. No high-end cosmetics and gorgeous clothes can improve your social status, only good moral character and innocent reputation.
From this perspective, if the situation is true, Luo Wanlu's mistake is not only low-level, stupid, but also fatal.
It is said that the most important thing for girls is self-reliance, self-reliance and self-love. If you want to be such a person, you must first be "moral, not confused by things." In this way, we will not be addicted to the temptation of material and the love of superficial glitz and go astray.
As contemporary youth, what should we pursue most besides studying? Does it matter? Is it enjoyment? Or vanity?
I thought it should be the bright starry sky above my head and the inner moral code.
Luo Wanlu, life is long, be careful; There is no limit to the sea, and turning back is the shore!