1. Stay away from people who are glib and full of bureaucratic jargon. When I was in college, there must have been such a person around me: dressing up all day is a briefcase in a suit and tie, full of bureaucratic jargon, "Hello, Chairman Li, Hello, Minister Zhang". What skills are not just licking teachers, lowering grades, and being full of snobbery and superiority when interacting with people? When you meet such a person, I advise you to stay away from him. I don't advise you to make friends with him, let alone fall in love with him. University-is the second development and construction period of your world outlook. What kind of people you make friends with and fall in love with will often greatly affect your future life and social thinking mode. When you fall in love with such a person, he won't teach you what maturity is. On the contrary, it will make you mercenary and annoying in the eyes of people around you. When you fall in love in college, you can find those capable members of the opposite sex to make yourself excellent. But don't look for people who are "incompetent and only posturing". It is a fact that the people near Zhu Zhechi and Mexico are black. Note: such people often hang out with unhealthy students' unions. 2. It is best not to choose a long-distance relationship. I just suggest that you don't choose a long-distance relationship, but if you feel that "mutual love is really strong and you have enough patience and ways to deal with problems", then this long-distance relationship will also bring you growth. But the reason why I don't suggest it is because of the high risk of long-distance love, low sense of love, short company time, and vicious behaviors such as derailment and deception. After all, the university is a stage where you can enjoy the beauty of love quietly, regardless of material things. If you fall in love through the screen, you must learn to experience loneliness alone in college. You should learn to restrain your inner jealousy, and at the same time keep a distance from the opposite sex around you and be loyal to love. Nine times out of ten, long-distance relationships are sad. If both parties are not higher than their peers in emotional intelligence and intelligence, then most of this relationship will be exhausted.