As the old saying goes, where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, because there are usually four or six people in university dormitories. If you live in groups, there will be many contradictions. I will stay in the dormitory most of the time except for classes every day. If it takes a little longer, your different personalities, different viewpoints and different living habits will all show up, which will inevitably lead to contradictions. For example, some people like to go to bed early, some people like to play games at night, and classmates who go to bed early will be affected; Now, if someone likes to wash dirty clothes together, it happens that someone in the dormitory is cleaner. There are many such problems, such as personality incompatibility, which is also very easy to produce contradictions. Some people are calm and like to be quiet, while some students just like to be lively and talk all the time in the dormitory, which is very easy to produce contradictions.

How to solve it: 1 First of all, we must communicate, do something together to get to know each other, be willing to listen and express our feelings, try to understand rather than rush to judge and evaluate, be open to different lifestyles and values, be willing to make concessions and try to understand the facts.

2. Respect the roommate's privacy, personal space and personal habits. Don't boss your roommate around, and fully respect others on the premise that his living habits don't affect you.

3. If you can't solve the problem after communicating with your roommate, you can find an accommodation manager or counselor.

Ask for help or change dormitories.