Article 1
Li, a female college student, is very beautiful. She has a lot of netizens, and everyone chats well. Gradually, she found herself with one of the boys. A casual meeting made the girl more interested, because she found that the boy was much better than expected, and from then on, online love became real love. After getting along for a long time, girls found that many girlfriends of boys were cheated from the Internet in this way. That boy has been cheating on her, which is a bolt from the blue. Li Can couldn't accept this fact in his heart, and he had no intention to do anything, and even wanted to cut his wrist and commit suicide.
This kind of network psychological disorder of female college students belongs to situational depression. She gave her true feelings to an unreal person. After really getting along, she found that he was not as good as online at all, and he didn't feel as good as online, just on the surface. I didn't expect that boy to be a person who cheated girls' feelings on the internet. Therefore, it causes psychological barriers and even wants to commit suicide. From the perspective of boys, this is also a kind of network psychological barrier. He often cheats online girls, which shows that he has inferiority complex in his daily life. This kind of person especially wants to get attention. They have a good appearance, like "embroidered pillows and rotten straw." He boasted about himself online, but in fact he had nothing. The network is virtual and can make people fantasize at will. Some boys think they are Prince Charming, while girls think they are Snow White. Excessive fantasy leads to morbid psychology.
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Xiao A and Xiao B are juniors in an art college and live in the same dormitory. Soon after entering school, the two became inseparable friends. A is lively and cheerful, and B is quiet. Little B gradually felt like an ugly duckling, while little B felt like a beautiful princess, and she was very unhappy. She thinks that A is better than herself everywhere, steals the limelight, and often treats the little ones coldly. In the third year of college, Xiao participated in the fashion design competition organized by the college and won the first prize. When Xiao B learned the news, he was first in pain and then in jealousy. While Xiao was not in the dormitory, he tore A's entry into pieces and threw it on Xiao's bed. After Xiao found out, she didn't know how to treat Xiao B, let alone why she should be treated like this.
It's a pity that Xiao A and Xiao B changed from inseparable to enemies. The key to this tragedy is jealousy. Because jealousy is a morbid psychology that harms others and oneself, it seriously affects one's physical and mental health. The ways to overcome it are as follows: 1. Recognize the dangers of jealousy. On the one hand, people who are jealous of others affect their physical and mental health, on the other hand, they don't have enough energy to think about how to improve themselves because they are addicted to jealousy all day. 2. Overcome selfishness. To eradicate jealousy, we must first eradicate the "nutritional basis" of this mentality-selfishness. Only by abandoning selfish distractions and broadening our minds can we treat others correctly and accept ourselves. 3. Correct cognition. Evaluate others objectively and fairly, and also evaluate others objectively and fairly. As long as a person objectively understands his own advantages and
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Not long ago, Li, a 2006 clinical major student from Science and Technology College of Jiangxi University of Traditional Chinese Medicine, had a dispute with her boyfriend near the school and proposed to break up. Her boyfriend cut his throat and died. According to eyewitnesses, at the time of the incident, Yang chased the deceased with a knife of more than ten centimeters and cut it at his throat. After killing his girlfriend, Yang held the deceased for a long time and refused to leave until 1 10 the police came to the scene and took him away.
The psychological development of college students is still unstable. Stepping into the university is equivalent to stepping into half a society, so they feel uncomfortable, afraid of failure and rejection, and their psychological contradictions are particularly prominent. If these contradictions are not solved well, they may become the psychological basis of college students' crime. At present, college students' criminal psychology is complex and diverse, which is manifested in criminal motivation, values, personality disorder, individual psychological deviation and so on. Various reasons show that the criminal psychology caused by these obstacles and deviations is related to psychological imbalance, psychopathy and mental illness caused by social employment, family economy, personal love and other factors. In recent years, college students' personal injury crimes such as fighting, homicide, and * * * have occurred from time to time and are on the rise. At present, it is the second largest case after college students' theft, which deserves attention and vigilance. Psychologists call on schools, families and even society to give more psychological care and guidance to college students in study, life, love and employment, so as to slow down and resolve their psychology. The psychological development of college students is still unstable. Stepping into the university is equivalent to stepping into half a society, so they feel uncomfortable, afraid of failure and rejection, and their psychological contradictions are particularly prominent. If these contradictions are not solved well, they may become the psychological basis of college students' crime. At present, college students' criminal psychology is complex and diverse, which is manifested in criminal motivation, values, personality disorder, individual psychological deviation and so on. Various reasons show that these obstacles and deviations lead to the relationship between criminal psychology and social employment, family economy,
Personal love is related to psychological imbalance, psychopathy and mental illness.
Article 4
Wang, a junior in a university, is always worried that someone will interfere with him when reading in the classroom, so he has a strong sense of insecurity and can only sit in the corner or against the wall, otherwise he can't read with peace of mind; I hate the behavior of a classmate playing radio at my roommate's place, and sometimes it is simply unbearable. Especially when I take a nap in the afternoon, I am always worried that the sound of the radio will interfere with me, so I can't sleep and often have a bad rest. But I am embarrassed to have a face-to-face conflict with him, because I think it may be my own fault to lose my temper over such a trivial matter. I can't get rid of this psychological dilemma for a long time, and I am very distressed, which has seriously affected my daily life and study. I am about to graduate, and I am at a loss. I'm worried that I can't find my ideal job, and sometimes I'm too lazy to think about it in the future, for fear of causing trouble. My study is average, and I am in the middle of the class. Seeing that other students are preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination, I want to take the exam myself, but I can't concentrate on my study. Inferiority, lack of self-confidence, negative attitude towards life, thinking that everything is terrible. My family is in the countryside, and the economic situation is average. I think I have the responsibility to shoulder the burden of my family, but I feel powerless.
Experts analyze that in this case, students' psychological difficulties are actually caused by various stressors. First of all, students are about to graduate from college, and the difficulty of choosing a job constitutes the core of his stressor. The psychological tension and predicament caused by the pressure of choosing a job is essentially caused by the gap between the visitors' own ability and their ideal goals. The greater the gap, the greater the psychological pressure. Average academic performance, lack of confidence in themselves. But living in the countryside, I feel responsible and must find a good job. Therefore, my psychological pressure is considerable and increasing day by day. Secondly, the pressure of choosing a job makes visitors feel insecure psychologically. Behavioral genetics believes that when people are subjected to * * *, they will make certain reactions. In the face of pressure, tourists take a negative coping strategy-avoidance. Although I don't think about it, problems and pressures still exist, although it is only a confused state; Thirdly, the pressure of choosing a job makes the visitor's psychology extremely sensitive and fragile, which is directly reflected in his daily study and life. Even if there is a little movement, reading in the classroom or taking a nap in the dormitory will be disturbed; In severe cases, even if there is no interference, visitors will be suspicious, worried and afraid of interference; Fourthly, job-hunting pressure and sensitive mentality easily make visitors face interpersonal conflicts, which is the inevitable result of negative coping strategies such as avoidance and repression. When getting along with classmates, visitors themselves realize that it is only a trivial matter, but they just can't control themselves. When something or someone causes their disgust and unhappiness for many times, they will naturally attach their negative emotions to it, thus affecting interpersonal harmony and communication. In fact, this is because visitors deliberately avoid the main real pressure, which leads to the transfer of pressure sense and pressure energy.