1. Interpersonal conflict is a common interpersonal maladjustment, which means that college students' interpersonal relationships do not conform to their basic understanding of interpersonal relationships, thus leading to disharmony in college students' interpersonal relationships. Some college students often take drastic actions to solve the small things that happen around them; Some students don't show weakness, don't have the heart to let the heat conflict with each other, and even take revenge measures, resulting in psychological barriers.

2. Interpersonal disharmony may occur at any time, but whether this disharmony will evolve into interpersonal conflict often depends on the emotional control of the parties. College students with good emotional control ability can control their emotions well when interpersonal conflicts occur, and adjust and guide their communication in time to develop in their desired direction; On the contrary, college students with poor emotional control ability can't control their emotions, which leads to interpersonal conflicts.

Poor communication

Poor communication is also an important manifestation of interpersonal incompatibility. In the process of college students' interpersonal communication, some college students go their own way and never associate with others; Although some college students have a good desire for communication, they can't do it well, which often causes misunderstandings and obstacles in interpersonal communication. Poor communication is the most common source of conflict among college students, and poor communication ranks first among the sources of conflict among college students.