1. A letter from a father to his son in senior three can briefly describe his son's growth process first. Then you can describe the impressive things that happened between yourself and your son and the feelings caused by them. Finally, you can express your expectation and encouragement to your son.
A letter from my father to my son in senior three 1
Dear son:
Today is the first time to write to you. The main purpose of writing this letter to you is to inspire and encourage you.
Son, there are many turning points in life. College is the ladder for you to step into society, but under this ladder, you should lay a solid foundation steadily, and this basic process is the high school life you are experiencing. The college entrance examination is your first turning point.
Although half a year has passed in high school, now is the beginning of your high school life, and the early stage is just an adaptation process. Therefore, from now on, you should not only study hard to complete your studies and strengthen your physique, but also learn how to behave, correct your attitude towards life, find your goals and ideals, and make a preliminary plan for your life. Strive to improve yourself, and you will have more opportunities to show yourself and achieve yourself.
As your family, although we can't accompany you every day, we will always be your strong backing. Although we are not good at expressing our feelings for you, I hope you can understand the heart that loves you. With the accumulation of time, you will continue to grow, the sky that belongs to you will become wider and wider, and you will be farther and farther away from us in the future. I sincerely hope that you will live more comfortably and better in the future and can support yourself. Son, a person's growth process is a difficult transformation process. If you want to transform into a better life, your only direction now is to study hard, work hard and try again. Knowledge changes fate. You are a very clever boy. I believe that as long as you put your heart into it, you will do better.
Love, dad.
A letter from my father to my son in senior three 2.
son
There are less than two months before the college entrance examination, and the teacher suggested that parents write a letter to their students at this time. I think this suggestion is very good. Although, I know that at this time, what parents can do for you is extremely limited, I still want to write this letter with a very serious attitude and prudent attitude. I want to tell you my past experiences and thoughts, hoping to learn from you and help you. More importantly, I want you to know that you are not fighting alone. Your mother and I have more family, and our hearts are with you.
At this time 30 years ago, my father, like you, was making a final sprint for the college entrance examination. I am well aware of the pressure and hardship at this time. The book has been turned over and over again, and the topics have been done one after another, and the papers have been one after another. At this time, people easily feel tired and irritable. At this time, just like the 5000-meter long-distance running to the last 500 meters, people's physical strength and endurance are almost reaching the limit. What's the best thing to do at this time? Dad wants to tell you as an experienced person.
First of all, we should adjust our mentality and treat the upcoming college entrance examination and the last two months with a normal heart. Although the college entrance examination is an important joint in life, it is definitely not the last decisive joint. The college entrance examination can affect a person for a while, but it cannot completely affect a person's life. Life is long, and there are many opportunities and choices. Don't take the college entrance examination and its results too seriously. If you work hard, you can have a clear conscience. No matter what the result is, dad will always love you, support you and be your strongest backing.
Secondly, look at the college entrance examination from another angle and greet it with a happy heart. Just don't regard the college entrance examination and these last two months as hard tasks, but regard it as the best opportunity to realize your dreams, the biggest test of your will, and the real adult ceremony. Let the college entrance examination and this final sprint activate your potential and test your quality. When you cross the sea, you show your true colors. As a newcomer who has just entered adulthood, only through the baptism of hardships can he grow into a real man. It can be said that the college entrance examination is the first real test, the biggest baptism and the best opportunity to forge your will. In my father's mind, I value the forging of your will quality more than just the result of the college entrance examination, because the will quality is related to the happiness of your life, and the result of the college entrance examination is only one of many nodes in your life.
Third, arrange your time reasonably, don't dwell too much on the past and dream about the future. We should make the rest of time warp every day according to our own plan, as long as we arrange the time and life of each day and make each day satisfied, so as long as the process is satisfactory, good results will naturally come. I wonder if you still remember those Taishan porters who took you to climb Mount Tai by Dad 20x? Ordinary people are tired of climbing mountains empty-handed, but they have to carry a burden of 100 kilograms, and they have to go up and down several times a day. How did they do it? You should remember that they rarely look back at how far they have gone, let alone look up at how far the worse door is. Instead, always stare at the steps under your feet, so that every step of life is not empty, every effort is not wasted, every confidence is not lost, and you go up step by step. This is a real step. This is to let them do things that ordinary people can't do. In the last two months, I hope you will study hard those Taishan porters.
Fourth, we must pay attention to the details. In ancient China, there was a saying that "drawing is difficult, because drawing is more detailed than painting". If the world is difficult, it will be easy; Great things in the world must be done in the details. "This sentence, you have three, you can understand. Difficult things are easy to start with, and big things are also started from small things. Why do details determine success or failure? It is because no matter how big and difficult things are, they all start with easy things and consist of one tiny link after another. The so-called one-on-one, pull one hair and move the whole body, so-called one-on-one, interlocking. Many people fail in the college entrance examination, not necessarily because of difficult problems, but because of minor problems, easy questions and basic questions. Because of carelessness, they capsized in the gutter. Some people even fail in some trivial matters of life, such as not adhering to good work and rest habits, not paying attention to the combination of work and rest, not paying attention to food hygiene, not arranging life and study reasonably, and not even watching the weather and changing clothes. So that their bodies are terminally ill at critical moments that they cannot appear in the examination room in the best physical state and the most full mental state. Dad, many students with good academic performance failed in the college entrance examination because these details were not done well. Dad hopes you must pay attention to it, learn from it and avoid repeating the same mistakes.
Besides, my father also wants to tell you that you are not fighting alone. My father has been fighting hard for half a century. At the end of last year, my father decided to write a book. My father has read more than 30 books in order to write this book. From February this year, my father began to write. After work, he updates almost every day. Now he has finished nearly 90,000 words. I hope I can finish it and print it into a book before the college entrance examination is over. I want to spend this unforgettable senior three with you in such a special way. My father and son worked together for our dreams.
Son, at this time, dad has a lot to say, but I know your time is precious and I don't want to waste it. The last thing I want to tell you is that empty talk is useless, and the most important thing is action. I believe that after this battle, you will grow into a man with firm will and decisive action, and you will do what you say.
I believe you can do it!
dad
A letter from my father to my son in senior three.
Children:
Haven't been home for more than two months? Dad misses you a little. Is dad old? Be sure to go home next holiday. Dad will cook fish for you.
Dad thought about it, thought of a few questions, and wrote them to you.
First, senior three is the most important year in high school. If this year does not take off, this year will sink.
You should prepare for the worst for everything that may happen during the third year of high school. You can't expect the school to improve food. The heating and air conditioning in the school are like spring all the year round. You can't expect you to have enough time to eat. You can't expect your dormitory toilet to be unobstructed and the water pipes to be normal. You can't expect your teachers to understand you when you are depressed. You can't expect your classmates' friendship. You can't expect your parents to care about you as much as they do at home. You can't control others, you can only control yourself. Peace of mind, no distractions, can be orderly.
Second, don't always think about unrealistic counterattacks, and hope to do your best in World War I.
You only have three copies, even if you use two, you can't attack Tsinghua in Peking University. However, you have two levels, and you may get 2 1 1 with 985 efforts. If you are too slow to enter the ordinary class, too slow to enter the weekly exam and the monthly exam, and too slow to muddle along, you should be prepared to bear the bolt from the blue of the college entrance examination.
Third, don't resist fatigue and don't deceive yourself.
Take a rest when you are tired, go out for a walk after class, change your subject and change your mentality. If you can't finish your homework, pay attention to the quality and don't deal with it deliberately. One or two questions are not normal, and anyone will short circuit. Don't worry too much if you fail the exam once or twice. Nobody can give up on you. Only you can give up you. If you give up now, you give up the future. A wise man draws a cross on himself.
Fourth, we should have a good attitude.
Don't let a teacher's casual criticism affect your mood, let alone care for a long time because a classmate despised your words. You can't get carried away just because of one success, let alone become dejected and despondent because of one mistake. Since ancient times, success or failure has been temporary. Laugh at the geometry of the college entrance examination. Don't forget that all your accumulation in high school is for the college entrance examination.
Fifth, don't get involved in feelings easily.
Every stage of life has its own tasks. The fruit is not delicious, and puppy love can't stay. You don't know whether you can handle it or not. Bury these beautiful feelings in your heart. If one day when autumn is full of eyes, fate comes, and you naturally reap this innocence. We should manage our life and feelings, and suppress and control this physiological impulse.
6. Maybe you have worked hard enough, but your achievements just didn't show up. At this time, just hold your horses.
Farmers can't harvest seeds until after autumn. Autumn is its fermentation period, its lag, and the tortoise's insistence on defeating rabbits and making them winners, which is why fools stand out in real life.
Seven, don't show off your intelligence, there is no IQ, only personality is different.
Never play with your mind. Talent is the most unreliable. The story of Shang is staged every day. The collection of elite education is about endurance. Never have the illusion that Lingyun will never stop. Before going to bed, reflect on what you did today. If you are ashamed, just remember a few English phrases.
Eight, don't consider leaving a few for dad when eating. Only when you are well can you study hard and win the college entrance examination. It's all small money.
Eat more cold drinks in summer and walnuts in winter. If you don't want to go home, buy some sauce beef in the supermarket, buy more drinks to supplement zinc and calcium, and prepare more fruits under the bed. Usually eat without considering the price. The first choice is to eat by yourself.
Don't be so embarrassed to associate with classmates who study better than you.
Don't be so modest. Self-esteem is not a lonely whisper. If you don't ask questions, you will win friendship. Talk to the old class when you meet the knot you can't untie, and ask the teacher if there are any knots you can't untie. In order to study, it is not taboo to be a female classmate at the same table.
Ten, manage your time, don't think that the teacher is very tight, and the study time is not short.
Every day, you should reflect on whether you are absent-minded in class, whether you are improving your learning efficiency, whether you are doing morning exercises in advance, and whether you are extending your evening self-study. In the animal world, everyone has desires, and playfulness is an attribute. You can think about some homework when you eat, run and go to the toilet. Don't have the idea of sharpening the knife without missing the woodcutter. Senior three students don't have much time.
Between life and the stadium, only by pursuing Excellence and doing the best can we enjoy the heights without regrets.
Father asked.
A letter from my father to my son in senior three.
Dearest son:
I know, you are a senior three student now, and I think, now you are also a soldier who bravely carries heavy burdens! I really admire you: on your tender shoulders, you bear too many hopes and ideals, as well as the expectations of teachers, parents and parents. I really admire you. Under such a heavy burden, you still move forward bravely. Son, the day you've been waiting for is coming!
Mom's mood is a bit complicated, with excitement and relief, a little bit of loss that you are about to leave my wings, a little bit of maybe you don't need my care anymore, and a little bit of worry that you will face life alone in the future.
Son, my mother still clearly remembers bringing you into this world. The first time we looked at each other, I whispered "You are my son" for the first time. From that day on, you gave me happiness and pride as a mother and gave me too much joy. Having an obedient, sensible, generous, caring, optimistic and wise son like you is a gift from heaven, so I cherish this fate even more, and I believe you do the same.
Over the years, I have cared for you all the way and watched you grow from a babbling kid to a handsome young man. Even if there are more wrinkles on my mother's face, I will be happy.
You should learn to face a colorful life, in which there will be happiness, success, happiness and joy, as well as sadness, frustration, frustration and pain. In the future journey of life, parents can show you the way, but they can't replace you. You can only walk step by step on your own. Believe you, after hard work, at that time, you will be able to announce loudly, proudly and bravely like a real man: I am ready!
My mother has several wishes to tell you today (don't mind my nagging).
1, cherish life
"People, the most precious thing is life. Life only belongs to us once. " Life is not only a fortune you have, but also full of the hard work of all those who cultivate you. So your life contains too many feelings, and it has already been doomed to its supreme value. No one, including yourself, has the right to desecrate its preciousness, because no one is qualified.
2. Health and happiness
Health is a blessing and happiness is a treasure. Please smile every day and try to be happy. Happiness will bring positive energy and good luck. Having health and happiness is happiness, and life has quality.
3. Be yourself
You are you, you are unique, you are fireworks with different colors, you should have your own opinions and judgments, others' suggestions are for reference only, and the direction and goals of life still need your own judgment, your own grasp and your own efforts to achieve.
5. Face success calmly and face setbacks bravely.
Efforts will be rewarded, and opportunities are always given to those who are prepared. There are many definitions of success, but I think there is a song that sings very well. "The meaning of success is to surpass yourself." Before today, you grew up under the care of your family, and your life has basically not encountered any setbacks, but the journey of life is still very long. You are a man, you must have a tough heart and be the strongest bubble in the vast sea of people. A little longer-term vision, a little stronger will, a little more cheerful personality, a little bigger appetite and a little stronger body. No matter how many setbacks and difficulties you encounter, you should face them bravely. Remember that "the sky can't fall" and "there is no flaming mountain that can't be crossed". Mom and family are your strong backing, and home is your eternal harbor.
180 days, you will face the college entrance examination. I watch your efforts and efforts every day. But remember, son, the process is more important than the result. Mom doesn't ask you to be admitted to 2 1 1, Tsinghua or Peking University. She just wants you to play your normal level and get into your favorite school and major. In fact, which university to study and what major to study cannot represent a person's success, and it is not a necessary condition to realize his dream of life. Although the college entrance examination system in China is cruel, it is unique in training people. You can taste the sense of accomplishment of overcoming difficulties and surpassing yourself in every progress. Mom hopes you can treat the upcoming college entrance examination correctly. It is a process, an experience, not the whole of life, let alone a successful gamble.
Enjoy your life! No matter how old you are or how far you go, you are my dearest son, and my mother will always love you!
A letter from my father to my son in senior three.
My son:
I always brag to people that I was never absent when my son was growing up. No, in order to witness your 18-year-old bar mitzvah, I specially asked for leave and came back by high-speed train for 7 hours. According to the requirements of the school and teachers, I still want to write you a letter. However, if you haven't written for a long time and your hands are rusty, it's difficult to find good sentences, so I have to say I'm worried about assigning new words.
Life needs a grand ceremony to place the soul, ignite the passion and give birth to motivation. Unforgettable ceremony is worth a thousand words, just like a huge "fireworks". I think 18-year-old adult ceremony is such a celebration. From the bottom of my heart, I don't want to participate in such activities and witness such a moment. Because, it is sad to think that you have grown up like this, but we are getting old day by day; Don't give up your independence, and then drift away from us, worrying and worrying out of nothing. But at the same time, I'm happy for you. I 18 years old. What a good age! I am young and handsome, full of enthusiasm, pointing out the mountains and inspiring words, which is not a problem all over the world! It's good to be young. Besides, in such a great era, I was lucky enough to be admitted to a prestigious school, met a tutor and lived a life of food and clothing. If I don't concentrate on my studies, I really failed the times, teachers, parents and myself.
Look at those celebrities. /kloc-What are they doing at the age of 0/8? Newton entered Trinity College of Cambridge University, Marx came to Berlin University to study, Lenin joined a secret Marxist group in Russia, and Zhou Enlai went to Japan to study. Bill Gates is a sophomore, and Kobe entered the NBA and started his career. Fu Mingxia 18 years old is an old world champion, a good age for further study, and a golden age for writing legends and making extraordinary achievements. Nothing is unexpected and impossible.
Son, after the bar mitzvah, are you ready for the coming college entrance examination? What kind of university you go to will directly determine the starting point and space for a person's subsequent growth such as employment, graduate study and promotion. And what kind of university to enter depends on good study and good examination. Starting from today, there are still 50 days to go to the examination room. During this preparation period, we ask you to review like a regular college entrance examination and take the college entrance examination like a review. We should make great efforts to open up the "meridians" of knowledge, make more efforts in integration, give full play to the effect of every minute and increase the value of time, try our best to do a topic, "film" the knowledge involved in the upper, middle and lower reaches, and strive to connect the knowledge points into a line to establish an overall class system. Efforts should be made to change the style of procrastination, whether it is answering questions, eating, walking or anything else, it should be compact, knowing that time is the score and efficiency is life. Write quickly and accurately, avoid unnecessary erasure as much as possible, and be accurate once and for all. It is necessary to highlight key points, protect the core, and persist in doing something and not doing something. Don't waste your energy and repeat in vain what you have mastered and can be done at a glance. We should keep an eye on the difficulties and seek a breakthrough. Sometimes it takes more than a few minutes to overcome a difficulty.
Son, after the bar mitzvah, are you ready for the coming college life? There are obvious differences between universities and middle schools. Without parents' nagging and teachers' ubiquitous discipline, we should rely more on ourselves, take care of ourselves and be self-disciplined. But many people indulge themselves and neglect their studies because of the sudden drop of pressure, and the lessons are extremely profound. "Nine Drugs of Guanyin Zi" wrote: "People don't know urgent things, but those who do many things, do other things and do strange things will suffer from poverty." It means that a person who does not concentrate on the urgent main business, but does those complicated things, unimportant things and novel things, will encounter poverty and disaster sooner or later. Therefore, it is necessary to vaccinate in advance. Get into the habit of self-study, insist on self-study for 15 minutes every day, and you can read 4,500 words, 3 15 thousand words, 1 month 13.5 words and 1 year 1642 thousand words seven days a week. If each book is about 75,000 words 15 minutes a day, you can read 22 books a year. How about reading 1 hour and 2 hours every day? Therefore, time is the fairest. Where fertilization is applied, it will blossom and bear fruit. We should form the habit of being independent and diligent in thinking. Thinking clearly, listening clearly, speaking clearly, writing clearly and doing clearly are all inseparable from the word "think". Everything in the world has laws to follow, so we should ask more questions about the people and things we have experienced, pay attention to exploring the problems behind them, see the hidden laws under the superficial phenomena, and strive to exercise ourselves into a keen and wise person. To form the habit of summing up accumulation, this is an upward step, and accumulation is a backpack for progress. We should learn to establish and persist in remembering Japan, adhere to the spirit that time is not empty, roads are not empty, and things are not empty, and regularly take stock of and review our progress and retreat, successes and failures, gains and losses, so as to achieve "learn from mistakes" and "win every battle."
Son, are you ready to face the complex and diverse society after the bar mitzvah? 18 years old is a springboard, a leap, announcing the fact of adulthood and turning a new page in life. From then on, you are an independent "legal person". You can enjoy the sacred and inviolable rights entrusted to you by the Constitution, and you must also fulfill the unshirkable obligations entrusted to you by the Constitution. Therefore, we must first shoulder the responsibility and responsibility. You must take responsibility for yourself. Success is your own success, and failure is also your own failure. Be your own creator. What you should do and can do must be borne by yourself, and you can't shift the responsibility to others. What should and can be done at that time must be done at that time and cannot be put off until the future. Secondly, be good at making friends and choosing friends. "Making friends with good people is like entering Lan Zhi's room and not smelling it for a long time; Making friends with the wicked is like entering the abalone city, which has been unheard of for a long time. " The principle of making friends should be "responding with one voice and seeking with one spirit". There are not many friends, but the essence is important. Never make fair-weather friends, stay away from those who advocate doing anything for friends, and beware of those who are extreme in character and behavior. Third, we should correctly handle the issue of marriage and love. There is no need to object to love, and there is no need to object to marriage, but we can't "use it against time." The energy of life is limited. It is not enough to spend some on love and marriage. It can be used in other aspects. Needless to say, this matter.
"If you don't come back in your prime, it's hard to get up in the morning. It is necessary to encourage in time, and time waits for no one. " Dear children, everyone who works hard is a great hero. The balance of time is always biased towards those who go forward bravely and work hard. There are no good things in the world. If you want to be happy, you must struggle. Climb to the top of the mountain and you will find more beautiful scenery there. Starting from 18-year-old adult road, I hope all you meet are bosom friends, and all you lead are smooth roads. Wish you success!
parents
The above is collected by Bian Xiao, and I hope it will help you.