College students will encounter setbacks in all aspects of college life. But relatively speaking. There are three main reasons for college students' frustration. One is the family, which mainly includes the relationship between family members, the family's economic situation and the difficulties faced by the family. As college students, they are generally adults, and students will have certain family responsibilities while enjoying their rights. The relationship between family members is directly related to the pressure of college students. Generally speaking, family members are harmonious, and the more United family members are, the more positive and optimistic college students are, the stronger their ability to withstand pressure and the less setbacks they suffer. However, when family members are tense and not United, college students are generally more negative and pessimistic, have weaker ability to resist pressure and suffer more setbacks. It can be seen that the better the relationship between family members, the more United family members are, and college students will generally suffer less setbacks. Moreover, the financial situation of the family will also be related to the frustration of college students. Generally speaking, students with relatively poor family economic conditions will face greater setbacks, and they will often face more tense living expenses, more tense classmates' relationship and stronger self-esteem, which will often make them suffer more setbacks. Secondly, academically, as a college student, the primary purpose in college is to study. As college students, the pressure brought by study is long-term, and so is the frustration brought by study. We need to face the long-term academic pressure correctly. Some people may say that the task of studying in university is very easy and there is not much academic pressure. This view is short-term and we should take a long-term view. If a college student evades studying during college, refuses to face academic pressure and setbacks, and indulges in other things blindly. Then, it is conceivable that this college student will face even greater setbacks in both job hunting and postgraduate entrance examination. On the contrary, if a college student correctly faces academic pressure, although he will encounter many academic setbacks during his college years, he will face relatively few setbacks when looking for a job or taking the postgraduate entrance examination. Thus, as a college student, it is inevitable to suffer setbacks in study, but we can try our best to reduce academic setbacks, which requires us to study with a rigorous attitude, be strict with ourselves and learn to arrange our time reasonably. Never neglect your studies at ordinary times, but pay attention to your studies until the end of the semester or graduation. The third is emotion. After entering the university, love has become a compulsory course for most college students. Most college students will fall in love at least once in college, and their chances of falling in love are frustrated, such as rejection of confession, quarrels between couples, breakup of couples, emotional disputes between couples and so on. College students should learn to improve themselves when facing emotional setbacks. Is that I will become more mature and know how to cherish the people I love and those who love me. Learn to face emotional problems correctly and find the best solution for two people. Of course, college students will face more than the above three kinds of setbacks in college life, but we believe that if students solve the above three kinds of setbacks one by one, then I believe their college life will be very exciting.