1. The request will be accepted.

Don't be duplicitous. When he clearly wanted to pick you up, he showed indifference and blamed others for not understanding you. Make generous demands on him with the universal formula of "sweet name+demand+weakening" "Come and pick me up after work, it's too late, I'm afraid", which not only reduces misunderstandings, but also arouses boys' desire and need for protection.

If the other party gives you a gift and accepts it with a clear conscience, remember to give the other party good feedback ~

2, will express praise.

Don't be stingy with expression, praise with high emotional intelligence, such as the following two tricks:

Praise each other quietly with PYQ, so that he can get a sense of satisfaction and accomplishment, and he will be more motivated to do it next time.

Universal formula: "body cool+behavior+feeling+praise from others+I think so"

Baby, I'm really touched that you are so busy picking me up. No wonder some people say that meeting you is my blessing. I think so too.

3. Take each other as a mirror

You are hot and I am hot, and you are cold and I am cold. You are good to me, and I will give you positive feedback. Only in this way can boys know what kind of effort is equivalent to what kind of harvest.

Don't be arrogant and indifferent when he is nice to you, but fight back when he is indifferent to you. Use the mirror law to set your own boundaries and rules in your feelings.

4. Love him with his love words

Everyone has his own love language. Men and women think differently. They don't understand each other's sweet words. No matter how good they are 1, they may not feel it. Language barrier. Give him what he wants, not what you think he needs.

I love you, but I love myself more.

Girls should be independent, don't be too sensitive, keep a moderate distance, give each other a breathing space to continue to invest and improve themselves, and make themselves better and better, which not only makes each other comfortable and relaxed, but also makes them love and care more about you.