1. A university is a university for one person. When I was in high school, I had to do everything with my classmates, eat in groups, and even go to the bathroom with two people. But different universities, everyone has their own arrangements, may need different courses, may join different clubs, and no one is exactly like you. It's normal to have a class alone, eat alone and go to the library alone. I didn't adapt at first, but then I gradually felt normal. We should learn to be independent and be alone, so that we can grow.
Don't reveal your heart to others casually. There are many people you know in college, but they are superficial friends, and few people can get in touch with you deeply. In high school, everyone was in the same class for three years and spent more than ten hours together every day, all in the same place. Of course, it is easy to have close friends. When I first came to college, I was as naive as I was in high school. I met a senior who I like very much. She told me that I could tell her anything that bothered me. I also naively told her the truth, and she patiently answered for me. I finally realized that my secret had become her joke after dinner. If you don't want to get too hurt, don't open your heart to others. No one will really sympathize with you.
3. Establish your own contacts and learn to deal with others. Only in this way can you have a satisfactory college life. We all know that the university is a small society, and it is very important to establish your own contacts. When I first joined the club, the president and chairmen were talking politely and drinking wine at the group building dinner. I was disgusted at first, and I still don't agree with this practice. But I know that with connections, many things can be easily changed. For example, one of my classmates doesn't like his current major. He wants to change his major. He is very popular. With the help of the president of the student union, it is easy to change majors. Even if you want to expand your contacts, choose a good friend. Network is not how many people you know, but how many people can know you.
Learning is your own business, don't blindly follow others. There are many people who don't study in college. They often watch plays and play mobile phones in the dormitory, and few people get up at 8 o'clock on Sunday. If you want to study, you must learn self-discipline. Don't watch others don't get up, and your thoughts start to be lazy. Everyone has different goals. Think clearly about your goals, what kind of person you want to be in the future, stick to your goals and go your own way. Four years in college is a crucial period for self-improvement, which deserves our serious consideration. I hope everyone can have a wonderful college life, live up to their youth and strive to pursue their dreams.