During the summer vacation, parents in many cities send their children to summer camps featuring "hardship". Living conditions are getting better and better. Why do parents make their children "suffer"? As parents, how to educate their children to get better development?
Recently, the Social Investigation Center of China Youth Daily conducted a survey on 5,546 people through Sina. com。 It shows that 52.9% people think that children need to receive frustration education since childhood, and 56. 1% people think that no matter how rich they are, they should control their material pursuit.
Li Xiao, a college student in Hebei Province, still remembers the first time she entered the school. When she dragged her bags into the dormitory, her roommate Xiao Song was sitting in a chair drinking coke and shouting hot while drinking. Her father hangs mosquito nets on her bed, and her mother squats on the ground while sorting clothes, saying when to wear what clothes, how often to change clothes, and send them to the laundry when they are dirty, and so on.
"She has gone to college and can't do anything. Do you want her parents to take care of her all her life? " Li Xiao said. Later, everyone took turns on duty in the dormitory. Every time it was Song's turn, he worked hard to clean the table and sweep the floor.
According to the survey, 59. 1% people think that children in families with too much wealth often cannot be truly independent, and 60.8% people think that children in such families lack the spirit of struggle.
Not long ago, Bill Gates publicly announced that he would donate all his $58 billion property to his charity fund, leaving no money for his children.
In the survey, 73.5% people agree that all property should not be left to children, 12.4% people hold the opposite attitude. In addition, 67.5% people think that children from families with too much wealth are easy to pursue enjoyment and lack motivation and spiritual support; 62.7% people think that too much wealth will make children playful and will not make progress; 54.2% people think that family wealth will lead to their lack of sense of responsibility and understanding of society.
"Children with good family conditions have no worries about the economy. As long as they work hard, they will stand higher and go further than their peers. " Xiao Xia, a student at China Communication University, said.
According to the survey, 44.3% people think that a well-off family can provide a good educational environment for children, and 27.7% people think that children from such families are well-informed and active in thinking since childhood.
Regarding China's parents' education concept, 22.6% people think that parents are busy saving money for their children all their lives, 44.5% people think that parents should "pay the bill" for their children's education, 56. 1% people think that no matter how rich they are, they should control their children's material pursuit, and 2 1.6% people think that they should try their best no matter how hard they work.
In the survey, 66.0% people think that children should be trained to "work hard on their own" and earn a living by themselves from an early age, 65.7% people think that children should be educated in daily behaviors and emotions, and pay attention to the cultivation of daily behaviors and habits, and 64.5% people think that parents should encourage their children to do their own things without relying on adults as much as possible.
8. One of the following statements is in line with the original intention
A. The public thinks that children need to receive frustration education from an early age, so that children can get better development.
B. Xiao Song's example is to show that "no matter how rich you are, you can't be rich in children. No matter how much money you have, you must control your child's material pursuit. "
C. Bill Gates donated his charitable fund because "too many children from wealthy families are easy to pursue enjoyment and lack the motivation and spiritual support to move forward".
D. "From an early age, we should pay attention to cultivating children's awareness of' spelling skills' and their ability to stand on their own feet", "Educating children in daily behaviors and emotions, and attaching importance to the cultivation of daily behaviors and habits" has become the common cognition of most people.
According to the original data, one of the following judgments is incorrect.
A. Parents want their children to "suffer hardships" in order to make them develop better.
B. Children from families with too much wealth are easy to pursue enjoyment and often cannot be truly independent.
C. About half of people think that wealthy families can provide a good educational environment for their children.
D. Cultivate children's awareness of not relying on adults, doing their own things, and "practicing their internal skills" and their ability to stand on their own feet.
10. Please summarize what methods can "make children develop better"? (4 points required) (3 points)
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Reference answer:
8.d？ (a) 52.9% of people think that the public; B. Xiao Song's example shows that "children from families with too much wealth are often not truly independent and lack fighting spirit; C. there is no reason for bill gates to donate property; D From "66.6% people think" and "65.7% people think", it can be concluded that "it has become the general cognition of most people". )
9.d) From an early age, we should cultivate the consciousness of "working hard by ability" and the ability of self-reliance. "Children don't depend on adults, they do their own things", and when to train them was not clearly stated in the selection. Just say "the time to educate children". )
10.① receive frustration education; Wealth should also control children's material pursuit; 3 Let children be truly independent; (4) Cultivate children's spirit of hard work; ⑤ Cultivate a sense of responsibility and let them know more about society; 6. Cultivate children's awareness of "working hard by ability" and their ability to stand on their own feet; ⑦ Pay attention to the cultivation of daily life behavior habits; Encourage children to try not to rely on adults and do their own things? (Rating: 3 points and 4 points, 1 2 points, 3 points and 2 points)