College students' views on premarital sex.
As a junior female college student, my view on college students' premarital sex is that opposition outweighs support. I will elaborate my views below. As a girl, I know that boys and girls are not equal on this issue. The cost of premarital sex is huge, especially for girls. First of all, trying things after marriage in advance and stealing forbidden fruit, girls promise boys that they must be out of love for each other and want to tie each other firmly, but they don't know that untimely sexual behavior will make the novelty of both parties disappear gradually, which is not conducive to the development of their love. Secondly, once college students have sex, the possibility of accidents will be greatly improved, from girls to gynecological diseases, and then to girls who may be pregnant. College students' couples have no economic foundation, and if they don't go to regular hospitals during abortion, they may even lead to infertility. This is a huge and irreparable physical injury to girls. Thirdly, although it is 2 1 century and people's thoughts are gradually opening up, all conservative thoughts still exist in most people's hearts. Most men have a "virgin complex". They said they didn't want to marry a virgin in the future, but they were willing to have sex with their girlfriends. The results of this contradictory survey undoubtedly make people feel sad for girls. The girl did not hesitate to pay everything for this man who may not be her husband in the future, but she may be discussed and laughed at by her classmates around her. This kind of psychological damage is also great. Moreover, most girls associate with boys in the hope of their future marriage, while most boys don't necessarily want to marry their girlfriends. However, today's college students are mostly post-90 s, and this generation is maverick, pursuing individuality and despising the secular. Coupled with adulthood, it is the age when youth is in full bloom and spring is budding, and sexual needs are understandable. When two people are deeply in love, stealing forbidden fruit may be more conducive to emotional communication and sublimation. Nowadays, young people are more open to some traditional ideas and can accept college students' premarital sex. Shanghai Jiaotong University distributed condoms to college students free of charge several years ago. Although this phenomenon cannot be understood as a kind of support for college students' sexual behavior, it can be regarded as a kind of protection for college students. Since this phenomenon cannot be banned, colleges and universities can only give correct education and guidance to minimize its harm and disadvantages. In short, female compatriots, please don't be fooled by the sweet words of boys, and don't be affectionate. We should treat premarital sex rationally, and don't be confused for a while and regret it for life. Here, I also advise all the boys, please contribute to answer, love your girlfriend. If you love her, please protect her!