Dear Dad:
Tomorrow is Father's Day. I want to write you a thank-you letter.
I know, I know, you must have said to me again, "What the hell are you writing? I don't have time to watch. I didn't see you work so hard when I was studying. Hurry up and do something useless all day! "
Dad, sit down and let's talk.
Remember when I asked you: How old were you when I was born? You used a particularly humorous tone to make fun of your stupid past. You said that when I was born, you were only 23 years old, and you were afraid to hug me for fear that you would make me cry. Take me out for a walk. When people ask whose child this is, you just say it's a relative's and let me call you uncle. I immediately burst into laughter ~
Tell me, how can I stand such a "stupid uncle"!
Maybe it's because you dragged me with this "baggage" when you were too young, took many detours, and had a small interpersonal circle, so you didn't treat me as harshly as other people's fathers, and no famous writer said that you had to work hard to win your love, but you became my closest old friend in my life.
You will support me to do what I like. I remember that when I was in junior high school, I always used my evening self-study time to go skating, which was particularly rebellious. Every time you catch me, you gently remind me to combine work and rest. Skating is ok, but don't delay my study. But every time I didn't listen, once my mother found out and slapped me with a hanger. I cried my eyes out, and you dragged me back to my room to comfort me. You made me feel my mother's feelings, and you made me understand what empathy is.
It was because you and your mother were too young to give birth to me. I go out early and come back late every day and work hard for my family. Later, I developed an independent personality. When I was in kindergarten, I would take care of my brother and carry him to pee. In 1 grade, I will go to school, wash clothes and do housework by myself.
So that when I go out to college, I know how to take care of myself and don't need to adapt like other children (running away from home and crying to go home). In fact, I don't have to worry about you at all. I am much more sensible than other children of the same age.
When I was a college student in other places, the first thing you said when you called me was "What's the point? Is there enough money? It's not enough for Dad to transfer 2,000 yuan to you. " In fact, every time I hear this sentence, my heart is very warm.
Even though I "pretend" that I have enough money, I still feel that I am the richest man in the world. Because I have an "ATM" that I will never worry about not spending enough money.
I remember doing sales once when I was working outside. A customer makes things difficult, constantly compares and criticizes, and visits several times a week. My friends advised me to give up, but I thought to myself, "The more picky I am, the more I want to buy. As long as I use the right strategy, I will definitely win this order. " Finally, naturally, I changed my mind and insisted on persuading her to finally win the first order in my sales career.
When you are in love, the first person you want to share with is you. I don't know why, but I think you will feel the joy and worry in my heart. You asked me, "Is he good to you? As long as he is good to you, as long as you like it, there is no house, and Dad will buy it for you. " Hearing this sentence, I was pleasantly surprised. I choked and tried to respond to you: "Dad, he is very kind to me. He is trying to raise money to buy a house. You don't have to worry. " Then you snorted and turned your head to one side to play with your mobile phone. . .
I know you are particularly afraid that your little princess will be cheated away.
Now I am very happy with him. Thank you for letting me know what I want.
What I especially like to hear from you now is: "Sit down and let's talk it over". Because every time we sit down, we will talk 1~2 hours. From far away to the end of time, you will talk to me about your past, present and future. You will tell me the stupid and crazy things you have done. You said you didn't know how to communicate with your superiors. You said that every time you talk to the leader, you have to scratch your nose with your hands, and there is nothing to say. You are afraid to say hello to others when you meet the leader. Another time, the leader asked you to share your management ideas on stage. You can't overcome your fear, you run away from home and even leave your job, because these stories make me laugh for a long time.
Tell me, how can I stand such a "stupid uncle"!
It is because of such a silly uncle that I have formed an optimistic character. I always like to giggle. I am a pistachio in the eyes of my friends. When you encounter something, first think of the good side, the positive side.
You are the "Uncle Shiba Inu" in my eyes. Once a man gets married and has children, he will gradually become a Shiba Inu who can walk upright.
In fact, the daily life I described in my father is also the daily life of Uncle Inuya Shiba Inuya. Of course, as children, we don't understand the pressure of work and the choice of life, but I can see the contribution of Uncle Inuya Shibata and my father. This simple feeling warmed my whole childhood!
Thank you for putting up with such a silly Uncle Inuya.
Happy father's day.
Your precious daughter.
June 438, 1965