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A few days ago, my tutor celebrated his 60th birthday, and all the other disciples came to celebrate. It happened that ten of me made a table. During the dinner, everyone first exchanged greetings, got to know each other's work, and then talked about family and children.
The longest brother Z is eight years older than me, and now he is the vice president of a design institute. By rights, life should be quite chic. But he looked sad and said that life was sad. We don't understand.
He explained that his child was almost six years old and was about to go to primary school. In order to get him into a school with good conditions, he bought an expensive house near that primary school years ago. In fact, his and his wife's work units are very close to the community where he lives now, but for the sake of their children, they must be far away.
Later, we learned that Brother Z didn't spend less money when his children went to kindergarten. The tuition in that kindergarten is 30 thousand pounds. We asked, why is this happening? Presumably there should be enough kindergartens in the community. Brother z sighed and said, you can't let your child lose at the starting line.
At this time, Brother A, who has been silent for a long time, suddenly said that people are not sprinting for 100 meters in this life. How important is the starting line? There is still a long way to go.
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Brother A was born in a very remote mountain village. It is said that there is no decent way to and from there now. His family has been farming for generations, facing the loess and facing the sky all the year round. In such a poor and relatively closed village, no one expected that a college student would be born.
Brother A said that he didn't know until he came to Changsha to study in college, and there was such a thing as going to kindergarten. In their place, they study in preschool for at most one year, and then go directly to the first grade. That preschool is available or not. Children in the city still play with mud and stones when they go to kindergarten, receive bilingual education or special training.
His primary school teacher is an all-rounder, taking them from grade one to grade six, and concurrently teaching all courses. But when it comes to everything, there are actually only four courses: Chinese, Mathematics, Nature and Morality. So when they were in primary school, they never made such a clear distinction between Chinese teachers and math teachers. They have only one general name, that is, the class teacher.
Later, when I was in junior high school in the town, I did badly in my first English exam because I had never studied English. He said it was the first time he cried because of his study.
Later, I seem to have hung up. I was learning English at dinner, reading English before going to bed, and even reciting words when I went to the toilet. At that time, there was no so-called extracurricular tutoring book, and all the learning depended on that textbook. Finally, Brother A said that he could recite almost the whole book.
Since then, Brother A has triumphed all the way. In junior high school and senior high school for six years, he ranked second in the school, and no one dared to call him the first. After the college entrance examination, he was admitted to the best major in his university at that time, civil engineering. During his undergraduate and graduate studies, he worked hard as always. After graduation, he went to a good construction company. Recently, I heard that he will be promoted to chief engineer soon.
Brother A said that sometimes when his old man drank wine, he would pull him with emotion: If you were born in a rich family and had better study conditions, you would definitely enter Tsinghua, and your life would be better now.
Every now and then, Brother A will smile and say, Who knows? Perhaps, we will just enjoy ourselves, and it is still a question whether we can be admitted to the university.
Yes, being born rich does not necessarily lead to success. Similarly, being born in poverty will not be doomed to failure. If you are a hero, you are not afraid of your background. If you work hard and persist, God will always give you a corresponding gift, and everything is still in your own hands.
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Occasionally I hear someone complain: this is the only condition in my family. It doesn't matter if I want money or not. what can I do? However, who said that family conditions are not good, and losing at the starting line can make you feel at ease all the way? When you encounter difficulties and failures, you attribute all the reasons to your family background?
Don't be so naive, okay? We are all adults, you know, losing at the starting line is never an excuse not to work hard halfway. If we indulge ourselves, no matter how high the starting line is, it will be futile.
A person's life will eventually be completed by himself. Strong parents can make things easier, but at the same time they will lose some important abilities in personal growth. We should know from an early age that everything now belongs to our parents. Parents can help you when you are in trouble, but we can't always count on them. What we want, we must finally win it by ourselves.
Suddenly thought of a problem, don't let the children lose at the starting line. Who uses this sentence the most? In fact, if you think about it carefully, there are only two industries, real estate and training institutions. On second thought, I think all the reasons are self-evident.
Life is a marathon. It is impossible for all runners to stand on the same starting line, and the one standing at the front may not necessarily win the race.
We can't choose our origins, and we can't choose the realistic predicament that hinders our progress. But we can choose the direction to go. Is it running? Are you going? Is it climbing? Or stay where you are? But anyway, please don't say to yourself casually, my life is here.
As long as there is tomorrow, today will always be the starting line.
First, as long as you don't give up, you will have a chance! Don't sink, you can choose to rise in any environment. As long as you believe in yourself completely, any difficulty will not last long.
Second, people are ordinary because they can't surpass themselves. Man can do it because he believes. People take pain so seriously because you haven't experienced enough. People suffer from pursuing the wrong things.
Third, maybe some roads are easy shortcuts, maybe some roads can make you have unlimited scenery, maybe some roads are stable and have a back road, but the protagonists of those roads are not me. At least I think those roads are not what I want.
Fourth, don't be afraid to do something wrong. Even if you are wrong, you don't have to be sad. There are right and wrong in life, not to mention many things. In retrospect, right or wrong doesn't matter.
The most tiring thing in the world is to live in hypocrisy. Overcoming yourself is the most tragic failure, and defeating yourself is the most precious victory.
Although we can't change our life, we can change our outlook on life. Although we can't change the environment, we can change our mood. When you feel that no one loves you, others see you as poor and unattractive.
Seven, don't care about other people's eyes, don't always look at other people's lives, regret your choices, stick to what you think is right, and do what you want. Life has no fixed trajectory. No matter what kind of life you choose, as long as you are strong inside, you will be wonderful.
Eight, personality determines fate and chooses to change life. Life without stress will be empty; Youth without stress will wither; Life without stress will be miserable.
Nine, only don't want to do, nothing can't be done. Change yourself and challenge yourself, from now on. Life is too short. If you don't give up today, tomorrow may not be.
Ten, diploma is just a train ticket, Tsinghua is a soft sleeper, undergraduate is a hard sleeper, specialist is a hard seat, private is a standing ticket, adults are crowded toilets. When the train arrived at the station, everyone got off to look for a job, only to find that the boss didn't care much about how you got here, but only about what you would do.
You'd better learn something when you feel sad and miserable. Learning will make you invincible forever. Life is like this, you have to have troubles and sorrows, and then you can laugh when you cry and say I'm fine.
12. Where there is no will, people always yearn for it. Where there is will, Chang Zhi will be established, and those who stick to a goal are the easiest to succeed. The most precious thing in life is time; The most brilliant thing in life is career; The happiest thing in life is to struggle.
13. Only wealth can perceive the richness of the world, only kindness can perceive the beauty of society, only openness can feel the happiness of life, and only success can appreciate the grandeur of life!
There are many choices in life. Be careful at every step. But one choice can't decide everything. Don't hesitate, don't regret making a choice. As long as we can persevere, victory is ahead.
15. The most terrible enemy is that without firm belief, tenacious perseverance can overcome any obstacle. Don't lose heart, as long as you persevere, there will be results in the end.
16. Adversity gives people precious opportunities for tempering. Only those who can stand the test of the environment are truly strong. Great men since ancient times have struggled out of adversity with indomitable spirit.
Seventeen, there is still a long way to go, and we must resolutely go on if we are alive. Success and failure are temporary. Falling down in success is failure, and standing up bravely in failure is success.
As long as there is tomorrow, today will always be the starting line. If fate does not care for you, please don't hurt yourself. Work hard while you are young. Don't feel sorry for your bragging skills as a child. Just because you are in a bad mood alone doesn't mean that the whole world needs to be sad with you.
Nineteen, the great thing is not the size of strength, but how long it can last. Where there is a will, there is a way. If you fail, you will never lose your will. If you give up time, time will give up on him.
Twenty, born in sorrow, died in happiness. If you want to surpass your present achievements, you should not limit yourself, but be brave enough to accept challenges. For the timid, the real danger is not to take risks!
Twenty-one, millions of people fail, and there are failures when they don't do things thoroughly. They often stop doing things when they are only one step away from success. Overcoming yourself is the most tragic failure, and defeating yourself is the most precious victory.
Life is too short. If you don't give up today, tomorrow may not be. Only after experiencing all kinds of hardships in life can we realize the value of life.
Smile and hug every day and be a warm woman like a sunflower. This society is unfair, don't complain, because it's useless, people always make progress in reflection!
On the road of life, even if you lose everything, as long as there is breath, you have no reason to despair. Because everything lost is likely to be recovered at a new level.
Two allegorical answers to the 100-meter race
100 meter race-every minute counts
Interpretation: Race against time, the two-part allegorical saying of the 100-meter race, and the two-part allegorical saying "the two-part allegorical saying of the 100-meter race". Describe it quickly.
Appearance: "Biography of Tao Kan in the Book of Jin": "It is often said that the sage of Dayu cherishes every inch of yin. As for people, it is appropriate to cherish the difference between yin and yin." "
1, Level 8 workers learn from their masters-strive for perfection.
2. The clay idol crosses the river-it is difficult to protect himself.
3, broad beans bloom-black heart
4. Confucius moved-all books (lost)
5. Break the casserole and ask the question to the end
6, monk umbrella-lawlessness
7, the tiger falls in Pingyang-bullied by dogs
8, gild the lily-superfluous action
9, the arrow is on the string-I have to send it.
10, frog in the well-myopia
1 1, looking for a needle in a haystack-nowhere to find it.
12, draw water with a bamboo basket-use a sieve.
13, put it straight.
14. cross the bridge when you come to it.
15, moth to the fire-self-destruction
16, 100-meter race-every minute counts.
17, pull out the seedlings and encourage them-eager for success
18, enemies meet-especially jealous
19, sesame blossoms are getting higher and higher.
20, the new official took office-three fires
2 1, blind lamp-waste wax
22, rabbit tail-can't grow.
23. You can't steal chicken-eat rice.
24, Wang Po sells melons-self-selling boast
25, tiger ass-untouchable
26. A tiger pulls a cart-who dares?
27. When a mouse crosses the street, everyone shouts.
28. The sparrow is small, but it has all the organs.
29, the thatch on the wall-the wind fell on both sides.
Plan 30, 36-Walking is the best plan.
3 1, a blessing in disguise?
32, Han Xin point soldiers-the more the better.
33, Zhang Er monk-scratching their heads.
34. Borrow and pay back-it is not difficult to borrow again.
35, cats cry mice-crocodile tears
36. jiaozi was skinned-revealing the stuffing.
37, carrying water-hanging two ends with one heart
38, casting pearls before swine-in vain
39. Eight Immortals Party-God Chat
40, overlord toast-do not do it.
4 1. nailed to the board-can't run away.
42, drum up the door-please fight.
43, straw as a lamp-carelessness (core)
44, bamboo shoots unearthed-increased.
45. Chop tofu with a kitchen knife-both sides glow.
46. Hit the nail on the head-play hardball
47. Mountain drumming-famous all over the world (Ming)
The dog bit Lv Dongbin-I don't know what to do.
49. Guan Yu went to Maicheng-pride goes before a fall.
50. An iron rooster-penniless
5 1, the egg hits the stone-overreaching.
52, Jiang Taigong fishing-willing to take the bait
53. Step on watermelon skin-where to slide?
54, fifteen buckets to draw water-seven up, eight down.
55, the mouse drills the bellows-both ends suffer from gas.
56, stay green-not afraid of no firewood.
57. Look at people under the door-look down on people.
58. A clay idol crossing the river is difficult to protect himself.
59. Spilled water can't be collected.
60. Riding a donkey and reading a songbook-we'll see.
6 1, send goose feathers a thousand miles away-gift is light and affection is heavy
62. Meat buns hit dogs-there is no return.
63. There is no tiger in the mountain-the monkey is the king.
64, Si Mazhao's heart-everyone knows.
65. My nephew plays with lanterns-as usual (uncle)
66. It is determined by the weight of what the tortoise eats.
67, crooked mouth telling stories-oblique (evil) theory
68, shallots mixed with tofu-one clear and two white
69, the young monk chanting-unintentional.
70, Zhou Yu Huang Gai-wishful thinking
7 1, driving ducks to the shelves-thankless.
72, rolling pin blows fire-I don't know anything.
73. Blind people wear glasses-decoration
74, monkeys fishing for the moon-an empty busy.
75. A scholar meets a soldier-the reason is unknown.
76. Two heads are better than one.
77, the young monk chanting-have a mouth unintentionally.
78. Monks teach monks-be tolerant of others.
79. Marry a daughter-in-law in the New Year-double happiness.
80, the deaf see dumb-ignore.
8 1, rivets on copper sheet-one is one and the other is two.
82. Walking in the alley with a bamboo pole on your back-go straight.
83. Soak Rhizoma Coptidis in bitter water-add bitterness to bitterness.
84. I untie the cable and you push the boat-go with the flow.
85. Put the onion in the pig's nose-pretend to be an elephant.
86. Only government officials can set fires, and people are not allowed to light lamps.
87. Pig Bajie looks in the mirror-not alone inside and outside.
Flying a kite broke the line-it's hopeless.
89, the storm in the pond-event
90. Speak without lights-slang
9 1, sailing against the current-hard support
92. The Eight Immortals crossed the sea and showed their magical powers.
93. Orientals wear tall hats-pretend to be big.
94. Go to the Fire Temple for rain-go to the wrong door.
95. Playing with an axe in front of Luban-as blind as a bat.
96. The old lady ate jiaozi-swallowed it.
97. Rainstorm in the sun-false love (sunny)
98. Sell dog meat by hanging sheep's head-insincere.
99. Cross the river with a beard-too modest.
100, singing without reading the songbook-outrageous
10 1, watch the sunrise from the top of Mount Tai-as far as you can see.
102, chopping wood with lanterns-Ming chopping
103, carrying lanterns down the mine-treading on thin ice.
104, jump on the stage to join in the fun-take part in accidental amusement.
105, push the car up the steps-a hurdle and a hurdle.
106, a big girl in a sedan chair-the first time
107, borrow a dime and pay back a dime-within a penny.
108, rolling pin blows fire-I don't know anything.
109. Blowing the trumpet by the window-it's very famous.
1 10, crab crossing the street-bullying
1 1 1, shoes without tapered stitches.
1 12, Cheng's axe-just these three strokes.
1 13, deaf ear-decoration
114,21day no chicken-bad guy
1 15, Huang Lian boiled rock sugar-the same sweet and sour.
As long as there is tomorrow, today will always be the starting line.
First, any qualitative change in performance comes from the accumulation of quantitative change.
Second, don't make excuses for failure, just find reasons for success.
Third, action is a good medicine to cure fear, and hesitation and procrastination will continue to nourish fear.
4. Greed is the truest poverty, and contentment is the truest wealth.
Most people want to transform the world, few people want to transform themselves.
6. When a person starts to struggle from his own heart, he is a valuable person.
7. A firm belief will win strong people and then make them stronger.
Eight, let us use the golden key of thinking to open the door of doubt and break into the hall of creation.
Nine, concentrate on doing one thing all your life.
Before you leave, turn on all your engines and tell yourself that I am the number 1! Go all out and win wholeheartedly.
1 1. Perseverance is the main factor of success. As long as you knock on the door long enough and loud enough, you will eventually wake people up.
12. Without contempt, patience and struggle, there is no conquerable destiny.
Thirteen, success never likes to meet lazy people, but to wake them up.
Fourteen, the strength developed by a person with faith is greater than that of 99 people who are only interested. Endurance is superior to brainpower.
Fifteen, even if you climb to the highest mountain, you can only take one step at a time.
Sixteen, people who are afraid of suffering suffer all their lives, and those who are not afraid of suffering suffer for a while.
Seventeen, there is no despair in the world, only desperate people.
As long as there is tomorrow, today will always be the starting line.
Great undertakings are not accomplished by strength, speed and physical agility, but by the strength of character and knowledge.
Nothing is more infectious than enthusiasm. Being able to touch the stone is the essence of sincerity.
No matter how long the road is, you can go on step by step, no matter how short the road is, you can't go without taking your feet.
22. Behind every effort, there must be a double return.
Twenty-three, you are unique and like yourself. You are God's gift to the world, and you are your own number one, becoming the number 1!
Twenty-four, the fruit of autumn does not belong to the flower friends in spring, but to the cultivators in spring. You sow the seeds of creation in the spring of life, and you will surely usher in the autumn of golden life!
Twenty-five, there is no despair, only desperate people.
Twenty-six, there are customers after customers, and the beginning of service is the beginning of sales.
Twenty-seven, there is only one way to choose-that is the way to give up; There is only one way to refuse-that is the way to grow.
28. A great man is great because when he is in adversity with others, others lose confidence, but he is determined to achieve his goal.
Twenty-nine, a few more minutes to prepare last night, and a few less hours of trouble today.
Behind every effort, there must be a double return.
The most important thing is not to look at the blur in the distance, but to be clear in front of you.