1. Have enough money or the ability to make money. People who don't have any spare money or earning ability, and men who study with the money saved at home, don't date at this time.

You can like people, but don't ask others to like you. This is the law of nature. Male animals must have the ability to compete with the same sex to win the opposite sex. You know, it may fail.

3. Men are in a weak position, if they can't change their economic situation temporarily. At least when you have no ability, you shouldn't fight for a woman who is won by many people. What you have to do is to study well and strive for financial ability as soon as possible. Of course, you can also observe how people soak up.

The cost of the date. As a girl, I don't think it should be completely thrown to men. But I think as a boy, I should take the initiative to carry this burden on myself.

If you really have no money, then the following is the most economical training process for you to get an excellent mm in college (although I don't agree with costing and socialism, our policy is a harmonious society, but we always take care of the disadvantaged groups). Don't think it's simple. People who don't want money are always more complicated than those who want money. Of course, their sense of accomplishment is also excellent.

Before hitting on mm, you must:

1. From the beginning, your grades should be very good. Good enough to point out your favorite mm. It's best to stick to scholarships every semester.

2. Excellent English (this is very important). Read foreign books and foreign newspapers (not available online, such as nytimes.com and ftchinese.com), and regularly read fashion magazines (online reading is free), such as Vogue and Elle. You should be familiar with all the most famous brands in the world, don't make a mistake. If you make a mistake, you should ask humbly. Don't look at Ruili and so on, it's even worse. I don't want you to buy this, but I know luxury brands are not a sin. It has its beautiful artistic elements. You can't help being admired by buy buy, but you should learn to appreciate it. At least Mm likes listening to this.

3. I have a role in the student union and other places, and often appear in large-scale activities organized by the school. Exercise your communication skills.

Be good at some arts. You'd better sing. Can draw. At least you can play basketball, and you are good at sports. These are not gifts. You can practice without spending money. )。 Besides, your handwriting should be good. Nowadays, fewer and fewer people write love letters, but you look more emotional.

5. Actively learn a musical instrument. The cheapest is the guitar (it costs about 700 yuan to buy a better one, and the maintenance cost is very low). This is also very popular with girls. You'd better write a little song. (The practice time is not long either. You can download music scores online. Ask you how to play. )

6. Don't try to wear long hair and nails. Remember to shave and shampoo every day. It may not be extravagant, but it must be clean. As for beauty, men have at least one facial cleanser and one mousse. Personally, I like short crew cuts very much. It's refreshing It's handsome to stand up with Mu Si on a date.

7. Clothes can be cheap, but not too bad. There can only be three sets of clothes per season. Do not exceed 10 pieces, but none of them can be worn out. In view of our economic ability, we can't go with the flow. Always buy simple styles. For example, in summer, you need at least two or three generous black or other solid color T-shirts (no exaggerated colors and Logo, even if you buy Nike, don't let me see that the letter is bigger than your head. At most, a small one with decorative patterns will do. Not too thin, easy to deform. Not too small, but wide enough. The neckline should not be too small. It must be pure cotton. ) A pair of comfortable low-waisted blue jeans or a pair of loose pants. Let me see where your ass is. Don't wear that style that doesn't know where your crotch is. A pair of sweatpants (you can wear them in other seasons). A pair of shorts. That's enough. Summer is coming. I don't advise students to wear suits. I can't afford a good one because I'm poorly dressed. I think the suit should cost at least 4000. Other prices cannot be considered at all. It's cheap to wear, just like selling insurance. There is nothing to do at school. Don't wear pants. Every season, you need a light blue shirt without any pattern and logo (if you don't buy it well in white, you will look like a waiter). The collar is hard enough. The back of the collar should be tightly attached to your neck. Clothes should not be too thin. Don't let me see your two points. And don't wear vest inside. Pure cotton). A pair of black casual pants (that is, pants similar in style but casual in material). 100% cotton) This suit can be worn in a slightly formal occasion or at ordinary times, such as a lecture or school social activities, which will be more mature. Put it aside for later use. . Oh, then you need a belt. Tie (don't wear it unless someone else wears it, remember to keep the tie an inch away from the belt). I can't say that much. Anyway, the view is that it is comfortable, does not follow the trend, is simple and unpretentious, is made of natural materials, and refuses messy, cool and lovely decorations, including waist chains, earrings, necklaces and rings, which few people wear well. Especially cheap decorations. . .

8. Where were we? . . Oh, language. Don't speak any language with an accent. If so, try to change it. If you can't speak well in Guangzhou, try to speak well and don't say anything strange.

9. Insist on reading newspapers every day. In addition to textbooks, you can also read famous books from various countries. Popular novels on the internet. Top ten bestsellers. Read everything except biographies of celebrities, marketing and any inspirational books (including what: how to become an attractive man if you are a successful businessman, etc.). , are for people who are unsuccessful and ugly).

10. Don't eat garlic if possible. . . Accept any popular food.

1 1. Support online games, but remember that playing or surfing mm online will consume a lot of your energy. Then soak in the internet. . Hehe, you know. This real success rate is only a little higher than winning the prize. Of course, there may be a sense of accomplishment. By the way, you must be a computer expert. Remember.

12. Love this society. This school loves all beautiful things. There should be no hostility or anger, otherwise. . Please live alone.

13. There are many more, which I can't remember at the moment. Anyway. Being a noble but interesting person doesn't cost money, if you really want to do it.

Without the above premise, I can't guarantee the quality below.

Warning: You can imagine what will happen if you calculate the costs, inputs and benefits in love too carefully.

When you start to fall in love, suppose you have a crush on a certain mm, yes, except for those well-known methods. .

1. Write a card to her at any festival to let her know that you exist. A card is a postcard. The cleaner the better. Don't write poetry unless you are really a master. Copy a short sentence at most and write it at the back. Don't write sensational things. That's disgusting. You know, she probably doesn't remember you. Write something slightly beneficial. For example, I'm really happy to see you often recently. Then:. . . . Happiness or something. Don't be ugly, don't alter the text. It would be more subtle if we met every day.

Buy a nice cake for her birthday (I suggest buying a cheesecake, but it's more expensive. Buy an ordinary one. You can ask for a kilo if it doesn't exceed 60 yuan. Remember to ask about the packaging in advance. If it's too ugly, change to another one. Pay attention to her roommate. The gift can be, 1 1 rose. Pay attention. Teach you how to save money. Go to the market to buy that bottled rose. There are three packs for ten dollars. There are five or six in a pack. Be sure to carefully select those with thick and straight roots. The petals are wrapped in white. Open a small package and see if the rose petals are damaged. Buy ten roses. The peddler removed the thorns. Buy two little stars. (10 RMB) OK. Completely wrapped in newspaper and carefully brought back to the dormitory. By the way. Go to the flower shop to buy: a transparent colorless plastic wrapping paper, two purple or green wrapping papers (remember that paper is not plastic), and a ribbon. Ask the flower shop to wrap it for you, or go back to the dormitory to wrap it yourself. The transparent plastic bag is inside. Other wrapping paper is wrapped outside. Remember. Never wrap books and plastic paper on flowers, which is vulgar and cruel. Flowers should be completely relaxed and tied only with ropes. It would be better if you packed it yourself in the dormitory. Tear off the white bag on the flowers, and then put a big bucket of water to soak the roses from head to toe for half an hour (the sky is unnecessary). Then cut off 2cm branches. Gently wipe off the moisture on the branches and leaves and suck it dry. Pick 1 1 a good flower (for life), and arrange the roses and the stars in the sky. Tie up all the roots with a small bag to prevent water leakage. Then. . . Think for yourself. Just wrap the flowers. That's great. Flowers full of water are much more beautiful than those outside. Because most flower shops 100 to 300 flowers, it is not beautiful to wrap them for a while. I ordered a lot of broken branches and leaves. And colorful plastic wrapping paper is scary. It's expensive. Of course not. This rose cake does not exceed 100 yuan. Oh, remember to send it to the dormitory. It's better for everyone to have a look. Nobody, just put it in the reception room. Make the rest of the roses public. . . Let's put it in the sun. When it is dry, put it in a beautiful bottle and give it to her. Or bookmark it.

3. remember. No matter where you travel, go back to your hometown and bring something to her when you leave school. Moreover, this thing had better have the following functions: all the sisters in the dormitory can eat it, which is delicious, such as special products and snacks. You can enjoy it in the dormitory, but you won't be seen by your classmates and say, ah, I have one, too. Ten dollars at the school gate is so cheap. Anyway, don't buy clothes, cosmetics, daily necessities, anything that can last for a long time.

4. About. Be sure to tell her at least three days in advance that you are going to ask her out. And tell her a definite time and what to do. For example, I want to invite you to dinner on Wednesday night. You must be sent back to the dormitory before half past zero. Personally, I don't like places like McDonald's and KFC. Personal suggestion: you can wait for her somewhere. It's best not to take the bus together. Awkward. I recommend Xihu Road (Beijing Road) Dahe Sushi, if you like it (please arrive earlier than mm). You can apply for a membership card on the spot (with a discount). Then tell mm that we can merge slowly. You eat noodles, if you are really not full. But mm should not eat much. Because some dishes are expensive. I suggest you at least come here in advance to get a takeaway menu to see the price. It's more appropriate to take the initiative when you get there. I estimate that under normal circumstances it should be around 100 to 120. Then. You should tell her that I want to go to the movies. The movie tickets have been bought. Tip: Many cinemas, including the Qing Palace on Beijing Road, are half-price on Wednesdays. Remember to buy two cups nearby when Daiwa comes out (there is 7- 1 1 nearby, and the price is relatively stable. Ask her what she wants to drink. Drink it at the movies (cinemas are expensive). At night. Send her back to school after reading it.