The university campus is generally far from home, so children can't stay with their parents often, and they can only contact with their mobile phones. Parents want their children to contact themselves actively, which is also a manifestation of their filial piety. However, in real life, some college students do not do this, mainly for the following reasons.

First, there is not enough time.

Compared with senior three, the academic burden is less, but it is still very heavy. College students should not only learn professional knowledge well, but also participate in various campus activities, such as student unions and clubs, which take up a lot of personal time. Some students have to take some qualification certificates themselves, which is also time-consuming. There are also some college students who are busy falling in love, so they naturally have less time to contact their parents.

Second, college students and their parents lack common topics.

After going to college, children have their own lives and ideas, and they are exposed to more things. The university campus is also rich and interesting, and children are addicted to pursuing a free and independent life. When you get in touch with your parents, you always say that some parents are short-talking, and the same topic is not much. After several contacts, some children will find it boring to chat with their parents, so they will not take the initiative to contact their parents.

Third, the long-term parent-child relationship is not good to form a state of getting along.

Sometimes children are reluctant to take the initiative to contact their parents because the parent-child relationship is relatively cold since childhood, which is a habit caused by the way children get along with their parents. Before going to college, children can often go home, so parents will naturally not feel estranged from their children and will not miss them too much. After going to college, some students who have a bad relationship with their parents will escape contact with their parents and live their own lives, which is the result of long-term accumulation of contradictions between the two sides.