Five methods of high emotional intelligence that boys must see.

It's really easy to use

1, abnormal logic chat method

What is abnormal logical chat? For example, when chatting with girls: Female: There are many beautiful women in your circle of friends.

The normal answer is, fortunately, no.

After that, the scene will be awkward for a while. So you should be more resourceful when facing this "sending proposition".

If the answer is correct, you can say: Are you indirectly boasting that you are a beautiful woman?

Or worse, say: nothing, it won't happen again, you are the100th, haha.

Usually, some witty and unexpected answers can always bring excellent atmosphere effect.

The abnormal logic chat method uses this principle to make your answer unexpected and have enough sense of humor to make her interested in you.

2, fishing chat method

The essence of fishing chat is only six words: first conclusion, then reason.

People are curious, especially about things related to themselves.

So when chatting, you can draw a conclusion first, which will naturally arouse the curiosity of girls and guide them to continue to express themselves by constantly asking you questions.

For example:

M: I think you look like a cat.

W: Why do you say that?

2, fishing chat method

Man: Haha, I told you not to hit me (suspense, increase curiosity) Woman: I won't hit you.

Woman: I'm going to hit you if you don't tell me.

M: Because you show that you are good-looking, but you have a firm idea in your heart, you will pursue what you like, and you won't care about what you can easily get in front of you (release your curiosity).

W: Ha ha ha, you are absolutely right. You know me very well.

M: No, no, no, this is the sixth sense (humor) accumulated by my fortune-telling experience for more than 20 years.

Woman: Haha, suddenly I'm so scared. You won't bully me in the future, will you

3, emotional chat method

Actually, you don't need to know astronomy and geography to chat with girls. You just need to master a very important point, that is, no matter how small things are, you must have feelings when chatting. Because in the eyes of a girl, even if she is not interested in the event itself, she will be happy to continue chatting with you if her emotions match. Give a simple example:

Example:

When you meet a girl for the first time, if she likes you, she may ask you some questions.

For example:

"I think you are quite young. How old are you this year? "

The average boy will answer, "No, it's 28." (Direct and unemotional interaction will directly end the topic. )

We should seize the girls' interest in you and make some extensions. You can reply to her:

"Guess how old I am?" (Grasp the emotional points of girls, start interaction, and guide girls to invest)

-"Can't you see, 20?" (Girls begin to export value, enter your framework and be guided by you)

"Ha ha, my birthday will be 18 in a few days. What gift are you going to give me? "

It is not important to establish a relaxed chat atmosphere. It is important to introduce a new topic-gifts through the topic of age, so that we can continue to chat and have more intersections.

4. Open question method

Closed questions are questions that girls can directly answer with "yes", "no" or one word.

Example:

If you ask a girl if she has eaten, she says yes. That's the end of the topic. Do you like cats? The girl said it was ok. The topic just broke.

Correct demonstration:

"What do you like to do after work?" There is a lot of room for the other person to answer, such as reading, watching movies, drinking coffee and shopping.

"What animals do you like?" The other party can answer, cats and dogs, elephants, giraffes and so on.

This immediately opened the topic. Open-ended questioning is to avoid closed-ended questioning, but to let girls imagine for themselves. This is how the topic often opens.

And topic expansion method.

Don't keep opening new topics until you die; But to expand and extend a topic, so as to achieve endless topics.

For example, what can you associate with the topic of "eating" that you often say? 1. When it comes to eating, I think of Sichuan-style pork cooked by my mother.

2. Do you often eat snacks?

I'm thin now, so I dare not eat or drink.

I wasn't hungry at first, but I became hungry when I talked about food.

5. Can you cook? If you can cook, you can praise a girl's virtue. If you can't cook, you can ask her to call a master and teach her cooking skills.

Take a keyword as the central point and think about all the problems surrounding this keyword in a reverse, positive, horizontal or combined way. When you practice and master this kind of thinking with this kind of thinking, you will soon find that you have endless topics with girls, and the topics keep pouring out of your head.