If you think love is important, stay with him. If you think parents are important, then give up. I don't discriminate against homosexuals, but I think that in China, homosexuality not only brings great pressure to yourself, but also brings infinite pressure to your parents. You can live your own life in style, but your parents should accept others' cold eyes and cynicism. If you can ignore their feelings, you can move on with your life.

But then again, if you are not interested in women, try to love a woman. You didn't delay other people's lives. Do you know how painful life is with your wife? If you don't love a woman, but marry her, then you are committing iniquity, son.

So the question now is whether you can accept women. You are gay. Do you only love men now, or do you only love the men you love now? This result is different.

If you are the former, you'd better talk to your parents and hope they can understand and support you.

If you are the latter, you can try to accept others. Who doesn't feel hard-working when he is young? After that age, you will find that you don't love so much. Love yourself more than others.