1, no desire is just, mentality is king.

Remember one sentence: "Chasing girls" is just to create an opportunity for each other to get to know each other. What is the correct way to chase girls? It's actually quite simple. After you added WeChat, you simply talked, instead of telling people "I like you" as soon as you came up.

Your circle of friends can show your life and give girls a good initial impression of you: what do you do, what are your interests, Is there eye contact? ..................................................................................................................................... chats to create an opportunity for the other person to know, what kind of person you are, what attitude you have towards life, and what attracts you, so she pursues a girl. To put it bluntly, it is to make this girl curious about you and make her like you by attracting points.

To tell the truth, if you have leisure to spend a few months kneeling on a girl, you might as well send one or two interesting circle of friends and let her come into your life.

2, colorless and tasteless

To tell the truth, whether it is a boy or a girl in love, 85% of them start from "seeing color". Understand a truth, a girl can not like a handsome boy, but she can never accept a sloppy boy. You may not be handsome, but you must be clean and tidy. Improving your clothes, cultivating your aesthetic attitude and rationalizing your self-packaging are all tickets for girls to have sexual impulses to you.

3, three points ambiguous seven points mysterious

Three points ambiguous, seven points mysterious, this is the best gesture to attract girls. Don't say anything before you get together, leave some space for mystery. It is far more effective for girls to explore your life actively than for you to withdraw completely.

4. Don't miss the window period.

Generally speaking, people's emotional change cycle is 28 days, which means that the average person will not stay ambiguous for more than this interval. Then the arrival of the "window period" of a person's ambiguous peak is also traceable, generally accompanied by the following characteristics:

(1) an ambiguous nickname appears; 2. Do not exclude dating you;

3. Chatting is active and enthusiastic, and the circle of friends interacts frequently;

4. Overlapping social circles;

5. Her passion for you is unique;

6. There is physical contact between "prospective lovers";

⑦. Allow you to enter her private space (bedroom, mobile phone, etc.). ).

Remember: when more than four of the above seven signals occur, you must seize the opportunity to upgrade the relationship. Otherwise, if you miss the window period, most of your identities will be stereotyped as "male girlfriends".

5. Unfamiliar environment is the catalyst of love.

In a strange environment, people can't help grasping what they are familiar with, and so can love.

6. Details determine success or failure

When crossing the road, hold her arm and let her walk on the inside of the road; In the evening, a car with a high beam came over, subconsciously helping her block the light, subconsciously taking over what she had in her hand and helping her hold the unfinished milk tea; Silently remember what she likes and dislikes.

In the world of two people, call her a nickname, let her find her sense of belonging and pursue girls, especially good girls. At first, what people care about is not how much money you are willing to spend for her, but whether you have her in your heart and how much you really like her.

7. Even failure doesn't prove that you can't.

Many times, girls reject you. It's not that you are not good enough, but that you are really not suitable. If the pursuit fails, what you have to do is to learn from experience, not to give up on yourself.

A girl turned you down, probably just because she was going abroad, and she couldn't accept long-distance relationships. She doesn't agree with your confession, maybe it's just because the work is not smooth, and you just hit the gun; She said wait, maybe it's just because you're moving too fast, and she's afraid to talk about a relationship that will never end. ...

But if you often pursue girls in one way, but you often run into a wall, then there is probably something wrong with your method. At this time, don't go on! Summarizing the experience of success and failure can be absorbed and worthwhile when we get along next time. At least, we can strategize and avoid some minefields that could have been avoided.