I think our daughter is born cool. I used to scoff at anyone who said anything like cool thin in front of me. Isn't personality an influence? But I slowly realized that I was wrong, and I was a little wrong.

My daughter was adopted by me. It is a miracle that I didn't freeze to death outdoors in the cold winter. According to the only clue note on her, I knew it was the sixth day of her life.

Since she was a child, she has been very quiet, not crying or making trouble, and others praise her for being sensible. Growing up, I found that she didn't like to laugh either. Other children will learn the language in a few months. No matter how you teach her, it's hard for her to talk. Only when others already know the short sentences will she say something repetitive. I thought there was something wrong with her health, and it was okay to go to various hospitals for examination.

Grandparents also like her very much. As soon as she got home, the old man not only didn't complain at all, but also immediately went out to buy her a full set of clothes, daily necessities and the best milk powder. My mother also said that her grandchildren have never enjoyed such treatment.

When they grow up, the old people are basically self-sufficient in the countryside and seldom buy anything to eat. She likes chicken feet and beef. As long as I hear that she is going, grandma will definitely buy a lot in advance and cook it for her in the refrigerator. But after she went, she stopped calling her grandparents. Grandma hugged her very affectionately, and she just smiled at most.

It's nothing. We don't live with old people. Grandma often sends us some eggs and side dishes. When grandma came, she slept in her room. She said nothing, so she took a pillow and slept on her other side. I really don't know what to say, but grandma doesn't care and never says anything.

There is also a father, who is in his teens and has never called him "Dad". Dad can describe him as a pet in his bones. As long as he feels good to her, he won't hesitate. She is so bad at math that he doesn't blink in 70 thousand courses. When I buy baked sweet potatoes outside, I always want to take some back to her. When my brother goes to school, he always lets him ride a bike by himself, saying that children should bear hardships and exercise. Speaking of her, I suddenly feel unsafe to ride a bike. He greets him eight times a day and enjoys it.

But no matter how good her father is to her, she is also a black face. I've been wondering if she has a memory. In memory, her father abandoned her, but this is just an abandoned memory. I wonder which father abandoned her.

She hates everyone and feels that everyone owes her. When I was in primary school, every time she had any activities at school, she would have a holiday in the afternoon. There was no lunch at school and a loaf of bread was given. Other children will take it with them and share it with their parents on the way. She never. She wouldn't know about it if she hadn't watched other children hold it.

Every year on her birthday, we will give her a sense of ceremony, decorate it carefully and invite friends and relatives to congratulate her. Most of the gifts her friends gave her were candy and the like. She always keeps them all in her room and won't share any food with us. Don't say I didn't teach her, but I did.

We carefully prepare her birthday every year, and my brother saves pocket money and gives gifts every year, but she won't say anything about any of our birthdays, and she won't say a word about Happy Birthday. Don't say that she has no money, but she has money.

Two years ago, something happened at her aunt's house. I took her cousin home. In order to make the children feel strange, I bought brand-new quilt cover, sheets, daily necessities and so on. Not long after, I made the bed, and I found that she used her sister's new bed. Why? She said it was new and comfortable. And cushions for dining tables and chairs. I don't think it will be too hot when the four seasons alternate. She didn't make any noise until she took it off. She put it directly on her sister's chair and asked her to give two cushions. I asked her, do you know one is spicy and the other is not? She can say anything.

My brother went back to school on holiday. Every time the high-speed train got off early, he looked at her door again and again, trying to say hello, but he was afraid of waking her up, so he lingered at the door or left without saying hello. But she always stood up as soon as her brother came in and said, I know he has left.

No matter whether she comes to the door or goes home, she will not say hello, just leave and come back without making any noise. Take her to and from school every day. When she gets off the bus, she always goes straight without looking back. She won't look at you or wait for you, which makes me feel worse than a taxi driver.

I often think that after so many years, a stone has been covered with heat. Why not cover her heart? Sometimes I wonder what I did to her in my last life, or that I was a heinous sinner in my last life. She was sent from heaven to punish me and sometimes comfort herself. She is just young and ignorant, and sometimes she thinks that she may have been cruel in the cold winter.

Even so, I never thought about giving up. As my brother said, "She will always be my sister, and I won't give up." Me too.

I scared my dad when I was a kid. He asked me to cut his nails, but that nail was broken. He kept saying it hurt, and told me to be gentle. Then I looked at him for a few seconds and immediately cut his nails. My dad was stunned. Later, he told my mother that the child had a tough personality. I said: long pain is better than short pain! At that time, it was quite young, like six years old. When I grow up, my personality is very rational, and I seldom deal with many problems emotionally like other girls. Personally, I think it's quite good. Cool thin this kind of thing, how to say? Actually, life is lonely after all. You can be kind, but not weak. You can't just tell everyone. I will never be unkind to people who are kind to me. But I will never forgive those who wronged me. It's better to look at problems rationally and deal with them than to be silly and sweet, right? [Cover your face]

I have long discovered that my niece was born in cool thin, and sometimes cool thin made me doubt my life, so that something happened later that my cousin completely collapsed.

I don't know if my niece's nature is cool thin, but it has something to do with her name.

In the twelfth month of 2000, my cousin gave birth to a beautiful baby girl, and her cousin named her Xiao Bing.

Xiao Bing's big eyes, high nose and red lips are all beautiful.

This family has spoiled her, and Xiao Bing seems to be born a cold beauty, no matter who she is. Like a big ice cube that is not hot.

She was very quiet since she was a child, and she didn't cry or laugh. Unless she watched cartoons, she occasionally showed an imperceptible smile.

Cousin found that her daughter was selfish and unsympathetic when she was very young.

Once, when my cousin was cutting vegetables, she cut a piece of meat from her finger, and her blood flowed. She and her daughter were the only ones at home.

If the average girl sees this situation, she will feel very distressed. As a result, Xiao Bing just took one look and continued to read her cartoons.

Cousin shouted: Xiao Bing, get me a band-aid!

Xiao Bing said: In the drawer, please help yourself! Cousin was so angry and painful that she had to rummage in the living room and bleed all over the floor.

At that moment, my cousin's heart was broken. I thought I had a small cotton-padded jacket, but I didn't expect it to be worse than a broken one.

In addition to selfishness and lack of compassion, Xiao Bing has a feeling of rejecting others.

My cousin's relatives and friends didn't listen to her say a word on her own initiative. If you ask her anything, she will look away and reply to you, so that you have no desire to continue asking.

Once, I went to my cousin's house to play, and specially brought a doll and some snacks to 6-year-old Xiao Bing, hoping that she would say thank you or something.

As a result, I thought too much, and people ignored me, holding dolls and snacks, and turned back to my room. Cousin looked embarrassed: this child doesn't know what's going on, everyone is born! Don't take it personally.

I have to praise her: Xiao Bing is beautiful, if only she were a little more lively.

My cousin told me that the kindergarten teacher said that Xiao Bing had better take it. She was not naughty or talkative. She knows all the textbook knowledge taught by the teacher, but she doesn't associate with people. After studying for several years, she has few friends.

I really want my cousin to take Xiao Bing to see a psychiatrist, but I'm afraid my cousin thinks I'm meddling.

Cousin said: you want to grow up and get better. She is not stupid.

Xiao Bing's brother is five years older than her. He dotes on this sister, but her sister just smiles at him and doesn't even call her brother.

Once, my 12-year-old brother took Xiao Bing to the square to play. Several Xiong Haizi called Xiao Bing dumb, and my brother had a fight with them. As a result, Xiong Haizi pushed him into the pool, but the water was not deep.

My brother climbed up from the pool while crying. My clothes are all wet.

Xiao Bing witnessed all this, indifferent, just like Woodenhead.

My brother complained to his cousin when he got back. Cousin asked Xiao Bing: Your brother was pushed into the pool by others. Why didn't you respond?

Xiao Bing sipped his mouth and turned away. It took him a long time to say, I didn't let him fight with anyone. He deserved it!

My brother glared at my sister angrily and went back to my room without saying a word.

My cousin told me later that she really realized the seriousness of the problem that day. Cool thin, her daughter, made her feel afraid that her son would have an opinion about her sister because of this incident.

Fortunately, the next day, my brother treated my sister as usual as if nothing had happened.

He will still buy delicious snacks for his sister with pocket money, and he will still care for his sister like a flower escort.

In the face of his brother's concern, Xiao Bing, as always, accepted it with equanimity. When you are happy, your mouth is upturned, that's all.

My cousin works in other places all the year round and usually comes back to reunite with his family only on holidays. He felt sorry for his daughter cool thin.

Every time I come back, I buy clothes and toys for my daughter to make her happy, but I haven't heard her call her dad for so many years.

In his father's warm arms, Xiao Bing was unusually calm and turned his head to one side without looking into his father's eyes.

Every time I go to work on vacation, my cousin will run to Xiao Bing's room and silently look at her angelic sleeping face. Then I kissed her on the forehead and reluctantly left.

As soon as his father left, Xiao Bing got up and went to the toilet to wash his face and rinse his mouth.

Cousin told her: Your father just left and went to work! Xiao said coldly: I know! I didn't get up until he left.

Cousin is as cold as eating a piece of ice. She asked her daughter with a wry smile: Don't you miss your father? He is most worried about you outside!

Xiao Bingtou doesn't look up: There's nothing to think about, that's all! It's not like I'm not coming back.

Cousin shook her head, very sad! She even wondered if the hospital had made a mistake from the beginning. This family dates back to three generations ago, and there is no such impersonal person as Xiao Bing.

Unique, her generation gave birth to such a child who was born in cool thin. Cousin thought for a long time and couldn't figure out which link had gone wrong.

At first, she always thought it would be better to be older. As a result, Xiao Bing grew to 18 years old and was still very cold.

Of course, it is not surprising that relatives all know Xiao Bing's personality.

However, some relatives suggested that my cousin go to the police station to help Xiao Bing change his name.

However, this idea was rejected by Xiao Bing! She said coldly, I like this name!

Fortunately, Xiao Bing's study is not bad. No one should worry from elementary school to college. His grades have been among the best and he was admitted to a famous university.

My cousin's family is deeply gratified. On the day of college registration, my cousin's brother-in-law and cousin drove her to report. It's a three-hour journey, my cousin asked, and Xiao Bing answered. For the first time away from home and parents, she was calm and indifferent.

After going to college, Xiao Bing usually stays at school and doesn't go home except in winter and summer vacations.

Sometimes my cousin misses her and sends her messages. Under normal circumstances, news is nothing. Not to mention the video, because she basically pressed the reject button.

The only thing that can make her take the initiative to send a message to her cousin must be asking for money. Even with such information, my cousin was ecstatic and took this opportunity to send Xiao Bing several messages.

For example: Is it cold at night? Is the quilt thick? How do you get along with your classmates? ……

For such information, Xiao Bing can basically ignore it and send a message directly: Send me 300!

Cousin buttered up 500 yuan, as if it was the only way to make her feel better.

After Xiao Bing received the money, it seemed that people suddenly evaporated. I left my cousin and spent a long time staring blankly at my mobile phone.

When Xiao Bing was a sophomore, my cousin's mother (my aunt) died of illness, and my cousin cried bitterly. My cousin's name is Xiao Bing: Your family passed away. Come back and see her off!

There was no sound on the other end of the phone for a long time. Finally, a sentence popped up: everyone is dead. Is it useful for me to come back It costs money to come and go.

Cousin flew into a rage for the first time: you cold-blooded animal, I really raised you for nothing! I thought you would be more sensible when you grow up, but it turned out to be more and more inhuman. How did your grandmother love you? Don't you have any nostalgia?

DuDu ... DuDu ... The other end of the phone hung up. At that moment, my cousin completely collapsed. She cried and said, I must have done something wicked in my last life to get such a inhuman daughter!

After my aunt left, her favorite granddaughter didn't come back for the last trip to see me off. This incident broke my cousin's heart.

That day, my cousin said mercilessly: I have done my duty to train this daughter until she finishes college, so I will leave her alone. She can do whatever she likes, which has nothing to do with me.

Speaking of which, as long as my cousin is free, he will drive to the school gate in Xiao Bing for most of the day.

Sometimes I buy some fruit milk and send it to Xiao Bing's dormitory, and send a message to her. Xiao Bing replied: I know!

Cousin also figured it out later. She said: Maybe Bingbing was sent by heaven to punish me! She is my daughter. I shouldn't ask her for anything, as long as she is happy.

I can only give her the best maternal love I can, and I don't expect her to repay me. I just hope that she can find a good husband who loves her and give birth to a human child in the future, so that at least she can have someone to rely on. I won't worry about her future.

Some people say that people born in cool thin have poor sensitivity and lack of emotion, which has a lot to do with the lack of effective contact in the anterior brain region.

There is still the possibility of saving the child. For example:

1, communicate your inner feelings with your child.

2, pay more attention to the child's preferences, love what he loves, and then participate in his favorite activities and go deep into his heart.

3. Carry out friendly and interactive activities in front of children and encourage them to participate, such as learning to smile, hug and say hello.

In short, if there is such a child born in cool thin at home, we must give her more care.

In fact, the symptoms of autistic children are similar to this.

When children have social communication skills barriers, like to be alone, have no sympathy and look selfish, they must intervene as soon as possible.

Don't give up, don't give up. Your child must be patient enough to guide him to embrace nature and feel the warmth from the world.

Have you ever met a child of the same age who was born in cool thin?

(1) Professor Li Meijin has a sentence that particularly touched me: What is human nature? Humanity is emotion. Without emotion, there is no humanity.

It is true that children are different in nature. The ancients said, "Sex is similar, but learning is far away." This "sex" is nature. The ancients also knew that human nature can only be said to be similar, but not the same. In nature, we are really different.

Where do the differences in nature come from? Different from our brains.

For example, some children have poor sensitivity and lack of rich emotions, which is related to the lack of effective contact in the anterior brain area.

(2) On one occasion, I took my son roller skating, and these four-or five-year-old children marched around the venue according to the coach's instructions. Every time the little girl walks up to an old man, she says with concern, "Grandma, sit there, don't stand." I was envious at that time. I wish I had such a sweet little cotton-padded jacket.

On another occasion, my son and I were separated for several months, and I came from far away to find him. I expected to meet him: he rushed to hug me, mom, you finally came. Mom, I miss you so much. It is better to shed two more lines and cry for joy.

However, there is no such scene. I remember my son came to me in a small suit. I am so excited. I miss my son right in front of me, but he stared at my box from a distance and said, "Mom, what gift did you bring me?" "Before I opened the box, his eyes were not focused on me.

That little girl is the child of my colleague. It's really a different life, and my heart is a little cold. However, I remembered the sentence "Sex is similar, but learning is far away." We can educate children's habits, and we can cultivate their sensitivity.

(3) So, I did some work later.

1, consciously tell him how I feel and talk to my children about "personal experience".

What is "personal experience" is what we have experienced, but it contains our emotional experience. When describing these events, we should try our best to express our feelings at that time.

I talked to him about me and him, the story between me and my mother, the story between me and my grandmother, and the story between me and his father.

The part of our brain that dominates feelings needs to be turned on.

When children show love to us, we must express our happiness and touch.

In the second grade, the child has changed a little. Once when I went to pick him up from school, he took some beans out of his trouser pocket and wanted to give them to me. He said that his classmates gave it to him, and it was very delicious. I remember our conversation was like this:

"Mom, XXX gave it to me. It's delicious. I'll keep it for you."

I saw that it was taken out of my pants pocket and I couldn't eat it. Then I said, "Why don't you eat?"

"Mom, it's really delicious. I want to eat it several times. Do you know how I stayed? "

"How did you stay?"

"I put them in the closet, as long as I can't see, I won't be greedy. Once I went to the closet to get clothes. I close my eyes and take them out. Then I quickly pushed open the cupboard door and ran away. I almost ate them that time. "

I remember hugging my son tightly and saying, "You love your mother so much, and she loves you even more."

Find ways to let children know that love is mutual, and learn to love others and care about their feelings.

Looking back on my son's growing experience, there are many touching details. This time, he was ill in hospital. As soon as he could get out of bed, he began to care about his friends in the same ward. I think his illness has also helped him grow a lot.

Step 3 lead by example

In fact, I don't ask much, as long as the child is in a normal mood. As for how much love there will be in the future, it depends on your own experience. Our preaching or guidance can only be carried out when he is young. When he grows up, he will only watch our actions. When husband and wife love each other and care about each other, he can learn to love. And the performance of parents in dealing with many relationships will also become his benchmark.

It won't be childlike, cool thin.

Character is formed later.

A mother's child, a world of difference. There are many such examples.

When the neighbor's boss was born for three months, he was busy at work, so his mother-in-law took the baby home to raise it.

The boss gave birth to a child before he was three years old, and his mother-in-law and father-in-law had to take care of it at home. If she has no choice, she will quit her job and take care of her brother by herself. When the youngest can go to kindergarten at the age of three, she takes both children with her.

However, the two children have completely different personalities.

Dabao is introverted, unsociable and loves watching TV at home. It's wrong to scold my sister often. That's wrong. My sister fell and didn't help.

Bauer is a villain. He often has delicious food to share with his parents and sisters, and he also likes to play with children.

Even the grandparents who didn't take her for a day were very close. When they return to their hometown, they always prepare presents for their grandparents. On the contrary, Dabao, who was brought to his parents by his grandparents at the age of six, was impatient at the mention of going back to his hometown to see his grandparents. He always tries to escape by studying or playing with his classmates.

Is it natural that this mother's sister has a completely different personality?

In fact, a child's character is acquired.

Especially 1-3 years old is the formative period of children's extroversion and extroversion. Our parents always think that their children are still young, so they let their grandparents take them to be sensible and re-educated.

Many old people, who are old, have a hard time coping with their daily life, and they also take their children with them. Not only can they not keep up physically, but they will also be in a bad mood.

Taking care of children, especially children aged 1-3, requires patience and wisdom. During this period, if children are always accused, kept at home watching TV, or just basking in the sun among the elderly, it is easy to form an introverted personality.

4-8 years old is an important period to form a child pattern. If parents often educate their children, their own things are not allowed to be touched by children or classmates. Help grandparents do what they can without children. Children are not taught to help their classmates and others. Then it is easy for children to form cool thin's character.

I hope parents can think about their usual education methods and prescribe the right medicine. Children are underage, and more guidance will definitely improve.

Naturally thin and cool?

There is no such thing as thin nature. As the saying goes, cause and effect have a cause, and cause and effect have a cause. Because being born in a family is more related to the way parents care about education. They will love, but the way is not necessarily right. For example, my eldest daughter and my wife, my wife and I don't work together. My eldest daughter and my wife lived with me until they were 8 years old. Once at lunch, after my wife was busy, I helped her wash dishes, dry, fill rice and pour water ... Just like a handmaiden who served the princess, my daughter did nothing but sit at the table and wait for dinner. Seeing the rice that her mother put into her bowl, her daughter said in a very skilled tone. "Too much, I can't finish it, less!" The rice cooker was next to her, and she didn't help herself with the rice. My wife habitually wants to help her reduce the rice to the pot. I was angry at that time and wanted to stop it. My wife actually blames me, saying that the child is too young to be sensible, and she also makes a scene with me. Of course, I still beat my eldest daughter while being reasonable.

The most important embryonic stage of indifference and impetuousness is to take the kindness of relatives as a habit and take it for granted, and then put forward more requirements, like maggots, for granted! Who is to blame? Children are born thin and cold? Nonsense. Cause and effect

Once, my wife was very ill and bedridden. When my eldest daughter came home from school, she couldn't see her sick mother lying in bed. She just shouted for food. As a result, I taught her a lesson again. My wife said that this baiwenhang girl was immature and sinful! I told her at that time that you killed her.

Then my wife finally believed me and did as I asked. She must do her best. It doesn't matter what she did wrong or screwed up. Do it again. It's much better now, especially since she keeps small animals and something, just like a little mother, and now she's fine.

And mobile phones, computers, televisions, these things are really harmful, staring at the small screen to see everything, in real life, most of this person's cold, stubborn, selfish, irritable and many other negative emotions will gradually develop unconsciously.

There is also the time between husband and wife, especially when women give up their careers, ideals and makeup for men. Almost all of them are spent on family and children, but men begin to appreciate it, get used to it, and then naturally feel bored and bored. Don't wait for people to get old. If men have the chance, divorce is inevitable. After that, the woman said; Love rat, an ungrateful man, men have no good things.

What is cause and effect? Reflect on yourself first, and then think from the perspective of others. Sometimes you will find problems.

Naturally cool and thin ...

It must be the influence of parents when children grow up.

My father's family is patriarchal, and my father is extremely dissatisfied with me, even disgusted. Although there has been no deliberate abuse, I will ignore it if I don't make mistakes. Call if you make a mistake. You have never experienced fatherly love. I remember crying when I was a child. Some people said that my father was coming, and my tears immediately went back.

Later, my parents divorced and I went to primary school. My mother was afraid that I would be sad and finally told me, but I was relieved to know.

Later, it was not easy for my mother to take me. I earn money every day. Apart from giving me money, we basically have zero communication. Once my mother asked me why I was so cold and why I looked like my father. At that time, I was only confused. Am I cold? How should I deal with this incident? I don't know, because I've never seen how other people communicate. It was handed down to me by my parents.

Until later, I met my current husband, and he gave me a feeling that I had never had before and that I lacked when I was a child. Although it can't replace the father's love, I really felt it for the first time, caring, distressed and loving.

Only when I went to his house did I know that the family could still get along like this. My grandparents spoil me too much. My parents-in-law know about my family (my parents never bought me a birthday cake, but my mother only gave me money to spend with my classmates). On my birthday, my father-in-law bought me a cake specially. This is my first birthday with my family in 20 years. At that time, I felt the warmth inside.

Only then did I know that I was really indifferent to my hard-working mother. I know my mother doesn't love me, but I just can't express it. After I met my in-laws, my mother and I became more and more warm. I learned how to express my love.

Therefore, cool thin, a child's nature, must have something to do with his parents. If you love your child, tell him and let him feel it.

I have read all the speeches in this article carefully, because I always think that my son (currently 15 years old) is such a person, ungrateful, and cool thin was born a child. My husband and I have a very good relationship, and we have brought them ourselves since childhood. I am a teacher myself, and he follows me every day. It should be said that parents and children are indispensable, that is, they feel that children don't know. It's time. I know I'll run to you and beg for food. Because of his efforts, I usually seem to have never seen it. How irritating! I often tell my husband that this child is raised for nothing! But this winter, I found that he has changed. During the epidemic, the bathhouses outside were closed, and grandparents could not take a bath without heating. Dad came home to see his son bring a stool to grandpa and teach them how to use the water heater at home. Hey! It has changed! There is a short drive to send the old man home, and he took the initiative to get off the bus to help his grandparents go home, so sometimes he may have to wait and enlighten him a little, or no one may tell him that we need this, so I am slowly learning to change and need his care or help. I will tell him frankly and let him know what he can do.

I am not afraid of jokes. That's what my son does. He was brought up by his grandmother since childhood, and she loved him very much. Every meal is cooked separately. He likes to learn Weiqi. She saves money to pay his tuition and takes him to other places to compete. It stands to reason that he should be grateful and miss his grandmother everywhere, but this is not the case. Once after Go class, grandma went to pick him up. On the way, she was hit by a retrograde electric car. With the help of passers-by, she called an ambulance and took him to the hospital. Before getting on the ambulance, grandma didn't forget to call the Go teacher and let her baby grandson take a taxi. After returning home, he played games, watched TV and had dinner as if nothing had happened. Until she was discharged from the hospital, she didn't ask about grandma's injury. And his father, a while ago, was taken to the hospital by ambulance because of unbearable abdominal pain, and then transferred to the municipal hospital for surgery. Children are very calm at home, eating fruit and watching TV, and never ask their father a word. I don't know why he is like this. His father and I are both emotional people. We have been educating him to be grateful, but he ignores our education. Maybe he was born like this, and no one can change him.

The expression of love can be roughly divided into three types:

1, grandson type: always give love and give each other full love;

2, moon type: get a lot of love from each other, but you can give back a little love;

3. Black hole type: No matter how much love the other person gets, black hole type people think it is right and will never return love at all …

People born in cool thin mentioned by the landlord probably refer to the third type-black hole type. There are two kinds of black hole people around me, both of which are related to their childhood family background.

The first category: when I was a child, my parents were single parents or separated for many years. He has no power of example and doesn't know how to get along with others. When he was a child, people like him were also unfamiliar with their brothers and had bad interpersonal relationships. They are very self-centered and have low emotional intelligence, and they don't know how to think from each other's standpoint.

The second category: spoiled, selfish and satisfied when I was a child. Such children are generally unfilial when they grow up. At ordinary times, our hometown says that his blood is cold …

Of course, it is gratifying that a person's personality and way of doing things can be cultivated the day after tomorrow, depending on whether he has a partner or friend with high emotional intelligence in the future, and even he can learn and correct while reading books and watching urban workplace dramas and urban emotional dramas in his life the day after tomorrow ...

Finally, I wish all parents who can read this article can responsibly cultivate our next generation and become a likable person!