1, start seriously and operate with heart. Nowadays, many college students are forbidden to fall in love because of high school. "How can you be puppy love?" Prison and so on, so I want to find a love that I can talk about when I get to college. This idea is understandable, but it is not very advocated. Love is a beautiful thing, because we met a beautiful person, and they are in tune, so it is a beautiful thing. So the beginning of a relationship should be serious, which is responsible for each other. Whether the original sweetness can continue or not requires two people to operate together, rather than falling behind silently.

2. Self-respect and self-love and bow your head appropriately. We are still independent individuals in love. In principle, we should pay for each other on the premise of self-respect and self-love. We should not only love ourselves, but also love others, and grasp the scale. At the same time, there is always a little friction between two people, which is normal. Don't blindly think about whose fault it is, but also learn to bow your head, take care of each other's emotions first, and then discuss right and wrong afterwards, so as to find a better solution to this kind of problem.

3. Give to each other and go both ways. If you want a long-term relationship, you need to go to each other in both directions. You can't always give and enjoy. This kind of love is unbalanced, and the balance of love will fall down one day.