In addition, people who have just graduated, married and have children have basically never felt the real pressure of life. At this time, they get more help from their parents and don't shoulder the burden of family. If you really encounter pressure, you will feel helpless and have insufficient endurance. Generally, many people who get married right after graduation are friends in love. At this time, more consideration is given to love, but marriage is not just for love. Only by tempering in society and recognizing the essence of life can we know what kind of life we want to live, and the marriage we choose in a rational state can last longer, and the marriage will not be destroyed because of the seven-year itch.
Some people around you get married and have children as soon as they graduate, and you will find that people who get married early sometimes narrow their social circle prematurely. Because I am not alone, I have family concerns and want to attend the reunion of friends and classmates in the past, so I should think twice. Some even became housewives just after graduation because they had to take care of their children, and basically had no professional social circle. It's not bad. It is our responsibility to take care of the children, but if we wait until the children go to school. When you have leisure and can start doing your own thing, you will find it difficult to take this step.
Therefore, if you get married and have children after graduating from college, you should think carefully. After all, graduation means taking responsibility for your own survival. Getting married and having children means that you are responsible for your family and children. It's not that you have to give good enough material conditions, but that you can do it after rational analysis, so that you won't complain in the future.