First of all, you must think clearly about the reason why you don't want to study, because you are too tired, because you are not interested, because you have a whim, or because you have other dreams you want to realize. The university I entered is not my ideal university. At that time, I always wanted to repeat my studies, go to a better school and study my desired major, so I felt "dislike" for the school.
Maybe you will find that your major is quite different from what you imagined, and you will gradually lose interest and neglect your studies. It may be that you find that university teachers are not as good as high school teachers in lectures, and you feel that you can't learn knowledge directly by reading textbooks; Maybe you think that roommates in the dormitory don't help each other as shown in TV series, but the reality is intrigue and haggle over every ounce; Maybe you feel the darkness in the organization, but you can't win the trust of the minister because someone will suddenly stab you in the back; Maybe you find that your friends around you have no education but are already big bosses and earn money, but you are still studying with your parents' money. You feel ashamed, and you gradually believe in the theory of "reading is useless"; Maybe your girlfriend (boyfriend) broke up with you because of a long-distance relationship, and you want to go directly to her (his) city to develop and save her (him) ..... So many terrible reasons, it may be a good choice not to go to college, but are you really ready?
Be sure to think clearly: what will you do without going to college? Have you figured out what to do?
Don't you want to go to college and enter the society directly? There will be more cruel reality waiting for you ahead. What can you do with your present qualifications? If you leave school without planning and trade, how can you live without planning for the future? Parents can't give you a hug when you want to look back. Time is cruel. When you grow up, you need to rely on your parents instead of always relying on them.
Or start a business? It seems that starting a business doesn't need a lot of money now. The point is, can't you get a lot of money? Where do you want to start a business, in which city and which groups do you face? Have you done any research? What preparations have you made? Do you want to go it alone or find someone to partner with?
Or go abroad? It seems a good choice to go abroad if you have money, so can you afford it at home? Have you found a school to go abroad? Have you completed all the procedures required by schools going abroad?
If you haven't considered it clearly, you might as well ask yourself: Is there really no solution at this stage, and learn to adjust your mentality and emotions?
I grew up a lot in college, and soon. I have encountered many reasons mentioned above, and I also want to avoid giving up. Fortunately, I persisted and faced it. At every intersection of choice, I have struggled, hesitated, feared, hesitated, lonely and regretted, but when I met these feelings, I gnashed my teeth and found that it was nothing.
If you don't like the school, try to get into a higher institution; If you don't like your major, you can consider changing your major and taking a second degree. If you think the teacher is not good at speaking, you can teach yourself and find video courses online; If you think the organization is dark, then you should try to make yourself strong. If you are strong, you don't have to care about the hidden rules. If you feel the malice of people's hearts, you will learn from the bitter experience, don't fall down on the same thing for the second time, follow your heart and don't do anything against your will; If you are unhappy, treat yourself well and ease your mood. ......
I'm quite satisfied with my present life, although I realize it is a bit slow. I use my spare time to learn what I am interested in, and make an appointment with three or five friends to eat, drink and play with people I don't like, so I don't contact anyone around me, and I still treat everyone sincerely and work hard for a higher institution. University is a good place to enrich yourself and learn to make good use of the resources of the school to improve yourself.
—— Xing Shenxi