1, recognize yourself and find a circle that suits you. The world is hierarchical, and some things are doomed from birth. We can really change our lives through our efforts the day after tomorrow, but how many people have really changed. I don't deny the importance of hard work, but after all, we are the least successful. Sometimes we need to know ourselves clearly in order to find the direction of success.
For example, you only have the budget of 600 yuan, but you want to buy a Hermes bag. In the end, you may only buy an A product and become a P.Y. or a spare tire in your feelings. So you need to know where you are now. After that, you will have two choices: one is to find someone who belongs to your own circle, and you can be full of happiness in a plain life; The other is to rely on your constant efforts to get in touch with the circle you want to reach and enjoy the dream happiness you have already achieved, depending on how you choose.
2. Be thick-skinned and active, but be careful. I found that many girls are too thin-skinned and that blx is too fragile. A little unpleasant words can break this heart into pieces. But also very sensitive, even sending messages to each other will be brewing for a long time, for fear that saying a wrong sentence will make your male god unhappy. Sometimes, a boy naturally gives you a message: Nothing, you can wonder if he doesn't like you. Is everything he said before false? Did he hint something in his circle of friends yesterday? Sister, you want to be Sherlock Holmes. Some sisters have always believed in one truth: women should never take the initiative. No wonder you have been single, huh! Girls, you should learn to calculate an account. Youth waits for no man. You wait for someone to chase you. When will you wait? Besides, what you are waiting for is not necessarily what you like. Finally, you can only wait for your elderly parents to urge you to get married, and then give a kiss and explain your life. Do you think this life is what you want?
3, face value is really not that important, self-confidence is the trick of girls.
Yan value is justice. I agree with this sentence. In this face-looking society, good-looking girls can always make others see more. But girl, what you really want is the vanity that others give you more attention? Do you know such a data that 50% of the beautiful girls in the country are still single? Why single? Too high a vision? It's too cold for boys to get close? Boys think such girls have boyfriends? Boys are not confident, handsome and have no money to chase? Wait, these reasons are possible.
A girl who looks ordinary but confident is just different. Boys will be attracted by her other advantages. I have asked many boys, and they all feel this way. When they see a particularly beautiful girl, they will discuss that this girl is a little beautiful and I don't know which rich old man will be cheaper. Ha, ha, ha. I want to laugh, too.
But it can also explain the reality that many boys have a bad impression of beautiful girls now. And the average girl, they will say, this girl is not good-looking at first, but the more she looks, the more beautiful she becomes. She doesn't know what's going on. She's very elegant. Hurry up, or someone else will take her away. You see, the evaluation is different. A confident girl will give people a feeling of temperament. Temperament is much better than pure beauty. Appearance is easy to show old age, and temperament will accompany you all your life.
4. Interesting people always get God's love more than others.
Imagine, who do you like to play with best? Of course he is an interesting person. A boring minute will make you doubt life. There is often a saying among boys that they prefer to play with boys if they don't carry on the family line. Although this sentence is a bit exaggerated and discriminates against us girls, let's bet! Bet! But this sentence also reflects the fact that boys prefer to play with like-minded people or interesting people.
If a girl is depressed all day, has no experience, personality and hobbies, do you think any boys will like her? There will definitely be, but after all, it is a minority. And interesting girls will make many people like them, so how can they become interesting? Being interesting requires you to experience something, such as trying something new, saving money to go to your favorite place and having a basic understanding of the world, which can enrich your life and give you an interesting soul.