Many brothers are qualified in collecting female resources, but after greeting women, they don't know how to start the topic and what to talk about.
The two sides had a good impression and could have responded positively, but because they couldn't open their mouths or the chat content was narrow, the girls instinctively accosted us and became, um, ah, yes.
Then I'll tell you how to expand the topic today.
When many brothers chat, they are asked by others and answered by themselves. The content is also around what the girl just said, so it is easy to turn.
The most common thing is that girls say: It really rained today (really cold or hot).
Then you answer: Yes, did you bring an umbrella (put on more clothes).
Such an answer, girls can only tell you, um, call.
If you are lucky, my sister will ask you in turn, are you wearing too much?
However, I'm still walking around here, so you say I wore too much and then I died!
The topics needed for chatting will not pop up by themselves. Everyone's misunderstanding is that they can't find new topics and feel that their thinking is not open enough.
But in fact, chatting doesn't need you to find a topic, just need you to extend the topic.
For example, the umbrella mentioned just now can be said to be an umbrella, an umbrella handle, whether you like straight or curved (teasing), clothes or clothes, which can be said to be fashionable.
It's not terrible to have no topic, because all you have to do is find the points in the previous topic and extend the topic.
For example, now, it's raining and it's cold.
So just now, I said that my sister might say that the weather is so hot. You can also say around the heat: It's so fucking hot today that all the perfume in my car is blown up. I really want to find a swimming pool and dive 200 meters deep. The topic suddenly opened.
First, sister can ask you what car.
Second, perfume explosion? Glass? Did the bottle hurt anyone? It smells heavy.
Third, you can dive, talk about your original diving experience, and make up a short story or joke.
If a girl talks big about you or even talks about bikinis, you can also ask her to send you photos.
Look, brothers, the opening paragraphs you often see are all about the weather, but how many people can tell me about the nude photos of my sister? Well, it's not a nude photo, I'm bragging.
However, it boils down to one point, that is, the more information points in your speech, the more topics of interest you can provide. There are many options, so you can talk to Tian.
What I just said is to expand the topic horizontally. In a word, there are many alternative lines of defense, and the other party will definitely be interested.
However, what should we do if girls ignore or reply to topics that the other party is not interested in? Give up resources? Can't!
We should also learn to expand the topic vertically.
For example, my sister just heard you talk about diving, told her own diving story and sent you a bikini photo.
However, what if we ignore the topic of perfume? Let's spread the perfume vertically.
For example:
Jiang Mumu: It was so hot that the perfume in the car exploded.
Macey: Yes, hehe.
What should I do after receiving it? Vertical extension!
Jiang Mumu: I was dizzy while driving. I almost didn't give the police a chance.
Macey: Yes, then you are out of luck. Aha.
Jiang Mumu: The point is that you still smell a lot. After you arrived at the company, your colleagues said that you wore such a strong perfume, fooling around with many women and running on me desperately.
Macey: What perfume does the woman who is really fooling around with you use ~ ~ ~
Mu Mu: Forget the brand. A female colleague wants to say that my six gods have expired. Next time, buy them a bunch of Liushen, 10 yuan, and they can't even wipe a bottle! ~
Macey: Haha, it seems that your popularity is good. How many women in the company like you?
The skill of chatting is to spread a sentence horizontally into several topics, and then enrich it around one topic, that is, spread it vertically.
The tutor wrote some of his own experiences in the emotional industry in recent years on the official account of WeChat wanhui 120. You can download the two books "Recovering the Standardized Process" and "Blocking True Love" from the official WeChat account.